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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Basically this feeling of jealousy about my friend's beautiful girlfriend is making me feel down.Me and my friend have known each other since a year.This year in march a new girl joined our school and she was remarkably beautiful. Almost everyone had complimented her.In a few months the three of us became good friends. We both were interested in her and we knew it without telling.My friend has a good sense of humor and was always the one making us laugh. When i realized that she is interested in him ,I tried to back out. Now they both are in a relationship. Whenever i see them together it lowers my confidence. The three of us still talk but seeing my friend with a girl like her is making me jealous. I know this might have sounded childish but i certainly need some advice here.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 September 2016):
 You are still very young and you probably want to have a girlfriend and experience what it is like, that is normal. Off course it is hard for you when you liked this girl as well and you have to see her with your friend, that is difficult. But don't let it effect your confidence because they had a spark, it does not go by how a person looks it is a lot more than that, personality and a spark needs to be there also. Try and make other friends so it does not need to be the three off you all the time, look around and try and get to know other girls in your class, you would be surprised who you would get on well with.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (15 September 2016):
Ask yourself why you should feel bad? You should feel happy for your friend. You should feel happy for the girl. You want to feel bad because you think you were not good enough. To be in mutual relationship only means that someone who is meant for you will be with you. Do not be focused on superficial things like her beauty and the competition between you and your friend.
Keep in mind nothing is preventing you in finding someone else. The only one decreasing your chances in finding someone you can be happy with, is you.
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