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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

How long before an erection feels normal after a circumcision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4830 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - I am 18 and have had tight foreskin all my life. Three days ago, I had a circumcision, recommended by urologists. I seem to be healing, but, like I was warned, erections are very uncomfortable at the moment. Anyone know how long it will be before an ...

My childhood crush just added me on FB! Should I strike up a chat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - It was like, "OMG, is this true?..'' or "maybe I'm dreaming or somethng".. etc.. I opened my FB account and saw a single friend request.. I used to think who it might be, and guessed that maybe it was just someone from my old school whom I do...

I want to be more than friends, but how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - I'm currently talk to a girl and we've known each other for almost 2 months. We talk a lot and we hang out a lot. We always hang out and I'm starting to like her and I feel like she is feeling the same way but I'm not sure. We would always talk and ...

We broke up after 1 month but I still miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Me and my ex have known each other for about 3 years now , we have always flirted and kissed , but we decided to take things serious 3 months ago , and ended up braking up in one month. i was devastated. what hurts the most is that i still see him ...

A strange guy? Or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I just started my junior year of highschool about a month ago (I've been at the same school since my freshman year) and there's a new guy in the same year as me. He's only in my chemistry class and we've never actually talked or even made direct...

Does this happen to teen girls? Is it normal? My periods are irregular.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Ok so I'm almost 14, I first got my period right before I turned 9 so my periods should be normal by now right? Well it has been a month or two since and I have not had my period. I still get the PMS symptoms. But I dont get my period and I am NOT ...

I am in relationship stress over this situation. Does he really love me? Why did he ignore me for so long after my Mom died?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid it's me again now a senior in high school and that also means that I have more relationship stress. As you may know from my last questions I've been involved with my bestfriend/ now ex-boyfriend and just when I thought things coul...

We did break up a month ago. YET he still wants to flirt. What's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - So its been over a month now, since my boyfriend and I broke up. But he still has feelings for me. I guess the reason he still feels close to me is that...just because we are now exes...we are still like best friends. I don't have a problem being ...

So, what was his feeling toward me? It's a little mysterious, so I need your opinions please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4831 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I told my crush(an exchange student) I liked him. However, he said long distance relationship was impossible and if a relationship came into existence it wouldn't continue... In addition to this, he said he had no idea when he will come back to m...

Is it wrong of them? Neither of them seem to think they have done anything wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Okaay where to start.. Well i have been seeing this guy for a few days even though im all that into him i think hes okay but i thought id give him a chance. I will call this boy 'C' then there is one my best friends who i will call 'E' She (E) is s...

The stress she's under is making it difficult for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts I don’t know what to do; I’m so in love but equally distressed and tired. I’ve been in a relationship for 7 months with what has got to be in my mind the love of my life. Together we’ve become best friends, loves, colleagues ...

His parents hate me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Ok, so i lied to my boyfriend and he forgave me but his parents absolutely hate me. They used to like me but when i lied to my boyfriend, it made them hate me. Then me and my boyfriend got in a fight yesterday and he texted me and said goodbye and ...

We're desperate for some 'alone time' to take things to the next level

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Okay. To clarify- we're both legal and certain that we want to take our relationship to 'the next level', so please don't judge me -_- Basically, I live with my parents and sister, and he lives with his mom and sister. They never seem to be out o...

My boyfriend is close friends with my ex boyfriend..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - So here's the story. I dated this guy for a year, let's call him Mike, and when we broke up we pretty much stopped talking at all. Mike started dating one of my friends, and I started dating one of his friends shortly after (let's call him Tom). (...

Why am I always put in the 'friend zone'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I'm 18 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before. I've put myself out there a couple of times already and I got rejected every single time. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. I've only once kissed a girl, and this was a friend proving me a ...

I feel like I'm having trouble connecting to people -- especially girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - Ive had heaps of nice things said about me, yet I can be a bit reserved sometimes and seem to isolate myself. I dont really go out a lot and I feel like im giving people the wrong message, that im not interested in talking to them and getting to ...

He hasn't called yet and I want to see him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - He's 19 I'm 16. I met him 3 days ago and we made out on our first date. I don't necessary like him, but I got carried away. He called me yesterday at 8.30pm asking if I wanted to go out but I told him it was too late and I had to study. Then he said ...

He talks about his ex too much and he said he still loves her! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I have a boyfriend. I love him very much, but he Talks a lot about his ex. I'm really over it and he told me he still loves her, it's really upsetting me and idk what to do. :( help me please...

Pregnant with his baby and he said he wanted to get married but now he has changed his mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hey im in a relationship and i am having a baby, i am having a boy, i am 7months and the guy im with we been together for 3years and were young lovers but he treats me like he loves me, and then another minute he acts dumb but i love him dearly. man ...

Is it true that if I let her keep coming to me with her problems she will only see me as a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - I really need people help with this one girl. Me and her met like last month and I started liking her a lot and I don't know how she feels about me, but she always seem to ask me to take her to places when she depress and stress and she always tell ...

How can I support him? Could he be lying to cope with his parents' divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have this very good guy friend. He is a really good guy, very sweet and usually an honest person. About two weeks ago he texted me he wasn't going to be in school. I asked why, and he said family issues. I told him I hope eveythings ok and h...

Am I overanalyzing, or is he interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4833 days ago

29 September 2011 (?) - Ok so I have a crush on someone right? And the funny thing about this is that this is probably the first REAL girly girl crush I've had since like the .....sixth grade and its really ridiculous.... So this someone I've been talking to him ...

My teacher gave me a heart, does it mean his heart belongs with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I still have a crush on my old chemistry teacher. At results day we were really close and we nearly kissed, his face was millimetres away from mine. Now I have left and attend a different sixth form I cant stop thinking about him and the message ...

I've been waiting for 2 and a half years for my boyfriend to talk to me! Is he worth it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 years and a month. (Since I was 12, and now I'm 17.) After 2 and a half years together, he moved across the US from me. Before he left, everything in our relationship was GREAT! He was the perfect ...

Is masturbating a sin?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - I am a Christian (Catholic) girl and I have recently started masturbating myself, and I read lots of articles that says that masturbation is a sin. Is it true? Did God really prohibits it? P.S I am not using any toys or such....

What do you think hes thinking? Should I just wait for him to get in contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - i met this guy and we hit it off right away, we have an undeniable spark and it was him that pointed this out at the start. he called me beautiful and we had amazing laughs together. weve now been seeing each other for around a month and every time ...

I am so jealous! I have the right to be, he's MY boyfriend!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - This girl writes on my boyfriend's wall everyday, with like ten posts of stuff to make him laugh because apparently he's depressed. I wouldn't know that because he never tells me anything anymore and is always talking to her. Some days he just ...

I seem to spend more time with these guys than my boyfriend!

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27 September 2011 (F) - Okay well ive been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 weeks today and a friend ive not been talking to that much since we had abit of a flirtationship a couple months ago an about a few days ago he asked me to come out to drink an stuff and ...

Is it a good idea to get pregnant, aged 16?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months we've been sexually active for 2 months straight and well he has told me he wants to have a baby. i dont really want to have a baby right now because im going through some legal problems ...

So her friend told me "she fancies you," now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - every morning on my way to work i pass the local secodnry school wich i went to when i was younger , and every morning i go past two girls one of them is very attractive (she must be either 15 or 16, and im 18) every morning i go past them, only ...

She does not know why. What can we do for her to feel better and possibly restore her love for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - I need help it's with my gf. we have been currently been together for 2 years and 2 months recently she has told me she has had a very bad feeling and she is losing her love for me. I don't know why she is like this, and she doesn't have a clue ...

Usually I like being submissive. So how can I step up the face, to be more active, like he wantrs?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - So here goes, my partner of 18 months says he wants me to take on more of an active role in the bedroom eg initiating sex more often and suggesting things I want him to do. The trouble is, I don't know how. Everytime I think about saying or doin...

Seems like every girl loves him. He flirts. What should I do? Don't want to appear jealous.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I really like a boy and I know he loves me. But it seems like every girl loves him. He knows it too. It really makes me feel insecure and jealous when he flirts with other girls. Is it normal for a boy to do this? Am I overreacting? I'm afraid that...

Why is it that when I have a chance to lose my virginity, I can't perform!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - um so heres my problem. i am 16 years old, and a virgin. that isnt exactly the issue, but what is is that on a number of occasions in the past few years i have had the chance to have sex, and it just hasnt worked out. with the first girl we both ...

Why does she flirt so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Why does one of my best friends flirt with loads of boys? There is one boy who she goes out with, but she says she doesnt like him, his friend likes me but whenever he isnt around she flirts with him. The other day we had been round at a friends ...

I am moving soon. We argue too much. Would it be healthier to completely separate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months and things are starting to fall apart. I am moving to a neighboring state in a few weeks and we have just been having little arguments ever since i told him. Arguments about little pointles...

I'm just really hurt and I didn't see it coming. Do I just let her go? I really do like her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - First of all thank you for reading this! So i've been in love with my best friend now for close to two years. We met at a friend's house and we liked each other and went on a few dates. She had just broken up with her boyfriend of two years so she...

Too many arguments. is there a way I can get over him without ending the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - im worried my boyfriend and I are not going to work out. We argue every single day about stupid things. Im deeply in love with him , and what hurts the most is that this relationship was unexpected. He claims that he's in love with me , and that...

I think I'm falling for my one and only friend! Should I carry on flirting and get my hopes up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4833 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Well i know you probably hear things like this all the time so, ill try and keep it short as possible and thanks for taking the time to read it!. Basically long story short i think i might be starting to really fall for my one and only friend. ...

Is this how it is? Should I be getting more than a tingeling sensation when masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Well this is kind of embarassing, so if you are your not going to be nice about it just don't say anything, otherwise thanks for taking your time to read this. Well i am a teenage girl, and like a lot of teenage girls i masturbate, one prob...

Should I wait for him or just end the relationship now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - 0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ...

I'm suffering from insecurity and need help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4835 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hey, I was wondering if anyone can help me really ? Im 17 years old ( nearly 18 ) and just over 5 months ago i met this bloke from my workplace. I knew straight away he was the one and anyway we hit it off quickly and have been together 5 month...

I'm 13 and I have feelings for a 20 year old man

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - So im 13 going to be 14 and there is this guy that i like but hes 20 and he knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like him i can't stop thinking about him. He always listens to my problems and try's to protect me. He ...

My girlfriend is still in love with her ex. Should I break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - I will try to make this as short as i can... My gf still feels something for the ex...more specifically love...now...it would be normal in a long relationship...but she was with him 4 months only...and wasted a year trying to win him back...and t...

He is giving me mixed signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I'm confused by the mixed signals this guy is giving me. I don't think it's anything but afew of my friends are convinced there is something in it. We had a brief stint in the summer but he only wanted me as a rebound girl so we stopped talking. We ...

How would I go about approaching you and how could I get the conversation flowing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4834 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - I'm turning 18 in a few weeks so I am looking to go out and meet new people. However, I'm rubbish at actually doing this. In a group of males I'm fine because we all have common ground sports, girls, games etc. When it comes to chatting to new ...

I want us to be officially a couple, but he doesn't want to talk about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - okay so im a bit confused about this guy i really like. ill start from the beginning... we hit it off right away, we have an undeniable spark and it was him that pointed this out at the start. he called me beautiful and we had amazing laughs t...

I have led this guy on, just to get me over my ex. I don't really like him though. How can I let him down gently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Last week I followed some really bad advice and it's got me in trouble. A friend said to get over my ex I should casually try flirting with other guys. So I did this and a guy sent me a message asking for my number, I asked for my girls advice cus I ...

I don't know what I do about this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - so there is this girl that i like and her friend too. we are all christian, and in some classes too and i dont know what to do, let alone how to ask out a girl.......i dont want things to get awkward either....what do i do?...

Should he and I just break up for good or try to work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hi ! I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for the last two years and I'm starting to seriously hate him. I love him so much that its growing into hate. When we break up we are still friends. We still hangout as if we are still dating. We just ...