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writes:okay so im a bit confused about this guy i really like. ill start from the beginning...we hit it off right away, we have an undeniable spark and it was him that pointed this out at the start. he called me beautiful and we had amazing laughs together. weve now been seeing each other for around a month and every time we see each other is perfect. we both feel it. however, he can go a few days without talking to me and then other times hes texting a lot more and saying lots of nice things. he says that if he doesnt talk to me it doesnt mean hes not thinking about me but its difficult because we only see each other once a week, should i trust him or is he lying? also, i dont really know where i stand with him anymore, he invited me to meet his parents this weekend where we all went out for a meal and he said he has a "cracking night" and then on the sunday he took me up to london for the day, bought me lunch and everything! but any time i ask him where i stand with him he doesnt really answer properly . he said once i met his parents we would talk about us gettting together properly, but we havent? also when we were talking about our feelings for each other he said he has "love for me", what do you think this means? he seemed to want to word it correctly, im guessing this means he doesnt want me to think he LOVES me, just feels love for me? everythings perfect im just so confused about the whole getting together officially thing. do you think hes closing up and doesnt really want to be serious with me? PS. we bumped into one of his friends in london and she asked "is this your girlfriend" and he looked at me and smiled and said "yes" but then when we walked away he said it was easier than explaining what we really were when i asked about it? what do you think about all of these? should i back off? thankyou x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 You guys have only been seeing each other a month so if I were you I would just be enjoying myself and not worrying about any labels. It sounds to me like he is interested in you and that he does care about you a lot. It is obvious that he is not quite ready to put a label on it at the moment, but really is that such a huge deal? If he wasn't serious about you then he wouldn't have introduced you to his family I don't think. Just give it some more time before you ask him again. Because you will only annoy him if you keep at him. Just enjoy the dating process for another little while and see what happens.
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