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writes:Ive had heaps of nice things said about me, yet I can be a bit reserved sometimes and seem to isolate myself. I dont really go out a lot and I feel like im giving people the wrong message, that im not interested in talking to them and getting to know them, showing them who I am. Im someone who is not afraid to be honest about the way im feeling, but sometimes people dont react to what I say. I feel like im having trouble connecting with people, especially girls because of this. This is really frustrating because I know that im a likeable and friendly person. Any advice, especially from any girls reading this, would be much appreciated Reply to this Question
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reader, Little Miss Love  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 confidence is the key you cant begin to show your personality and the good things about yourself until you are confident to put your self out there and be prepared to be judged if you are hiding away people on the out side will only see the bad things, hope it all works out for you xx
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (29 September 2011):
 I hope I've picked you up right. You are the sort of person who says when they think something is rubbish and when you don't agree yes?
If I have picked you up right then this is my advice. When you have a strong personality like this you have to go slowly with people. Don't inject your strong views and opinions too early in getting to know people. People who make friends the easiest are the ones who go with the flow until they really know someone and then start saying that they just may disagree. I don't mean you have to lie about things, just have no comment for a while and see what happens.
I hope this helps.
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