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writes: Ok soI have a crush on someone right?And the funny thing about this is that this is probably the first REAL girly girl crush I've had since like the .....sixth gradeand its really ridiculous.... So this someone I've been talking to him alot and I've been getting to know him too and so far he's really nice,calm, chill type of person and isn't really phased by alot of things(which contrasts with me being the easily excitable one)And I Just wanted to know like what can I do to calm myself down and stop over analyzing "signs" so much because they may not even be signs of him liking mebecause like I said he's a nice person and he's not shy, (I've seen him talking to other girls before).My infatuation blinds me sometimes though, it's really weird. I suppose its because he says that "he doesn't really hug alot" but MOST of the time(I say most because when he's usually in a hurry) when he sees me or before he's about to leave, he hugs me.And when I mean over analyzing. I just gave you the first example lol the second is one time we were talking but his phone started ringing and he was sitting on top of a railing next to me, but he was facing away from me. So when his bus came, after he got off the phone, he jumped off the railing, walked around it, then gave me a hug and said "You have a good day" or other times he'll say "It was good seeing you". The third was when I told him I was working on a video thing(AMV/ Windows movie maker project). It's been a few years since I've done it and I wanted to start doing it again. I knew he was into media so I asked him if he had time, when I'm done with the project, if he wanted to hang out with me in the canteen to give his opinion on it and he smiled and said sure....See what I mean? So, first I wanted to know if these are signs of him just being a nice,chill friend or that he may be a little interested in me. second,if I'm over analyzing, how do I stop that? XD
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reader, landomando  +, writes (29 September 2011):
If he likes you he will ask you out. Guys flirt alot. and u said he talks to other girls so does he act like that to other girls or just you?..and alot of guy friends do that to girls at school. its really no major sign he Likes you, like a crush on you. But he may just be friendly from what it sounds like. Just let him know you are interested in him when you talk to him maybe flirt or if he makes jokes laugh be happy stuff like that give him some signs and see what he does... or ask one of your friends to ask his friend to ask him if he kinda likes you.. always works lol
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