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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Smitten... after only one week! Should I tell her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my ...

The pill is turning me into a monster!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - heres the thing i started the pill in feburary of this year... the first moonth was hectic with my emoitions always moody always crying etc etc and after a month or two i calmed down the thing is me an my boyfrined have had sum problems hes chea...

What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...

Does the priest like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok so i think our parish priest likes me, idk what to do! every time i turn to look in his general location he always turns his head fast! help me i don't know whether to talk with him about it or not. we have a 3 1/2 hour car ride coming up to a ...

Down with shaving!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've got this problem, since last year I've been getting an ingrown hair on my vagina area. I went to the doctor when I first got them and she said that all I can do is exfoliate and there's no treatment unless for severe cases you get surgery so I ...

I love my boyfriend very much but I keep dreaming about his friend. Is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Is it normal to have other guys in my dreams? I've been going out with my current boyfriend for a few months and I really care about him. But he lives with his best friend, so the three of us hang out a lot. Last night I had a dream that his friend ...

My boyfriend has a lump on his penis and won't go to get it checked. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I know this isn't anything to do with relationships, but I'm worried for my boyfriend, he had a little lump on his penis and you can move it around and he won't get it seen to which really annoys me, he thinks it might be cancer and won't get it ...

Should I have sex with my best friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and my best friend (he's a boy) tells me everything... the other day he said to me he thinks he is ready for sex... i said i think i am too... later on he asked me if i wanted to have sex with him and he wants it to be with some he trusts ...

Should I wait for him to text me or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do with myself. I just wait for him to text me because we haven't talked since thursday night. He knows that I like him and he showed all the signs that he was into me too. We've been on and off talking for about 2 years now. ...

How can I stop my boyfriend taking things too far?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 13 and have a boy friend who is 15 ..... we have been together for 5 months and i really trust him .. a couple of nights ago we were kissing on the sofa and then he put his hands down the front of my pants ... i said not yet and he stopped ... ...

Help please! Getting mentally and physically ready for sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and me have been going out for a couple months, and we have talked many times on what we both have done in the past. Surprisingly were both still virgins and were both 16, and we both have gone up to oral sex. The thing is like i feel ...

Stomach pains... should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello, i was just chatting with my bf the other day about babies and what we would do .. and i got this awful pain in my stomach like my body was telling me something.. i dont think im pregnant as im on the pill, we do have sex on my pill free wee...

Help me unravel her intentions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago and have been doing fine being single, recently I came across a really cute girl and we hung out together twice, both times with a bunch of my friends. We have a fair bit in common and we...

Am I pregnant... or just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Heyaa (: im 13 yearss old (14 in august). I was at a kind of party thing which was my best mates.. there was a lot of alcohol and a lot of people got pissed. When it came to night time, the people that stayed the night slept in tents (this includes...

Does it hurt to get fingered?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wants so finger me but im still a virgin and ive never used a tampon, so im affraid its goin to hurt, can anyone help me please?...

My girlfriend has a past which I find hard to deal with, any help will be great.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hello im 15 in a great relationship with a girl my age , shes a lovely person and beautifully looking but it hurts me sometimes when i think of her past because she has slept around and sent dirty pictures to alot of my friends, i wan to get over ...

Am I bi? I am very close to this girl. My boyfriend knows and says I can't dump him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I met this girl in one of my classes PE to be spacific and were realy good friends. Except i think she like me and im not all inocent either. I like her to. Shes so nice and she cares about me. She hugs me all the time and kisses my cheek and ...

I broke up with her because my friends said I should. Now I want her back but she said no!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - there was this girl lets say she is called j and we went out and we really liked each other and it was great until people started making fun of me because j isnt the prettiest and i ignored them but then my own friends said they will fall out with ...

I'm not having much luck getting a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I am in 8th grade at the moment and am not having much luck with a getting a girlfriend yet. I always try to be nice to girls and when in a relationship to be very sensitive to them and listen to them yet I still have no luck because all the girls ...

Why do I have constant nightmares?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - I'm a thirteen year old guy and I'm starting to get scared because I never have dreams I only have nightmares I usually have a really long nightmare every night and I'm starting to get scared can anyone tell me why I am having constant nightmares??...

Afraid if I say 'I love you' he'll be scared away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and I just feel like I'm falling head over heels for him, I think I love him. The problem is, I don't know how to say you know I love you. I'm never the one to make the first move or anything so ...

We didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hey, Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom about 2 weeks ago, I know we should have used a one we normally always do, it was just a spur of the moment thing. He didn't cum inside me but I'm worried I might be pregnant but I haven't had any ...

I can't get any girls to notice me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old male and I have a problem. I can't get any girls to notice me. every where I go even in my neighborhood there are pretty girls(even at church). I don't know how to act or approach them. that's why I can't ever get girlfriends. 1 ...

Do you think I should get back with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i dated this guy for 2 weeks which is a very short amount of time. B4 we got together, we would always talk and all that. and he was sooo sweet and nice to me. on our first date i could definitely tell that he liked me alot! he definitely showed it ...

She's way too pretty for me but I like her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - last night i went to the cinema with my friends and and there was this girl who went with us and i ended up stareing at her more than the movie. i think that this girl is way to pretty to go out with me but i still like her has anyone got any ideas ...

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

I still love him and I really don't want to anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello, i am an 17 year old and newly single. My ex relationship was huge. He was my bestfriend and a great person everyone loved that he took care of me and loved me. I am sick and tired of thinking I did something wrong. He and i got into a fight ...

Is friends with benefits more emotional than a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Friends with benefits people say its less emotional but surely its more? because if you've been friends with them for some time then you would care for them a lot, probably more than a new boyfriend so if you lose them then not only do you los...

I'm pregnant...but who is the father??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (?) - i am 10wks and 6days pregnant, i broke up with my boyfriend on the 15th may 2009 but we continued sleeping together unprotected, however, on the 21st may 2009 i slept with another guy, i used a condom and no splits or tears were noticable but i am ...

My family want to meet my boyfriend, but I'm scared of what they'll think of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my mum and dad and the rest of my family really want to meet my boyfriend i am very scared of what they will think of him what do i do ?? do you think i should invite him round and let him meet evry1 or not ? x...

My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week ...

My parents want to meet my boyfriend but I'm scared they will judge him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - my parents really want to meet my bf but im really scared and nervous that they will judge him straight away i dont think its fair at all. my last bf they met when we went up to my room my mum would make my brother chek on us like 24-7 it was so a...

How do I do what's right by my friend? He's just had a baby and wants to leave his fiancee for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - well im 17 , and my friend who is 22 has been in a relationship for around 4 years , his fiancee has just had a baby but he didnt seem to happy , he was scared of being a daddy eventhough he loves his daughter to bits , he asked me advice on being ...

I'm worried my best friend will hate me for liking his little sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hey, when first started High School I met this guy in my year and we hit it off and became best friends straight away and still are now. I'm over at his house so often, I basically live there (I don't really get on with my family), his parents see ...

Help! I'm in love with a guy 7 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - it all started when he became a youth leader for my youth club we chatted and stuff and it was fun. then i started going to the church their with my friend who also feels she is in love with him. he helped me convert my life to become a christian ...

15 and curious....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm 15 and Curious. i have 2 flaps of skin either side of my vagina, and i dont know what they are.. they don't cause me any pain or anything, i just don't know what they are.. should i be worried? they have been they for a while (last few ...

My ex has a new girlfriend, how do I get him to date me again without being the reason they break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok so my ex who im really not over called me a few days ago and said he hates his gf and needs help on breaking up with her. i said ok?? but the thing is he has called every night since then. and i always answer and he always says i love you. so the ...

I am 14 and attracted to my friend's 58 year old aunt, how do I let her know of y sexual feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hi I'm a 14 year old virgin male. I have feelings for my friend's aunt(they live with their aunt). I go across the street to their house and play with them often. their aunt is 58 and has a nice body. I asked my friends if they cared if I had sex ...

How do you make a long distance relationship work, unable to go to see her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - How do you make a long distance relationship work if we cant see each other for a long time... we are both 16 and she lives 11 hours from me so i have no way i can see her. but we really like each other. There's no way i could see her till i was at ...

What is the best way to forget an ex-boyfriend who doesn't like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok, my ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a year ago and im still very much in love with him. ive known him for about 2 years but we only went out for a month. i miss him alot and i tried to text him and talk to him but he never answers, when he ...

After one week,, I have developed feelings for her, should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

I am a tomboy and I have not had a boyfriend ever, I do wear make-up, do boys care if you are a tomboy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ummmm ok this is a weird question but like im a big tomboy most of my friends are guys and i luv tossing the football and wrestling and stuff like that but i still wear makeup and crap......do guys like that or care about that cuz i havnt hade an ...

I have a lot of pain and burning when we have sex, what could be the problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok well iv benn having sex with my boyfriend for a while now atleats 16 times.. and its hurt me everytime its like a burning feeling around my vagina walls i hate it i havnt sed anything to my bf but it hurts SOO SOO bad i get to wear i wana cry... ...

Is it possible that a relationship can survive after one person cheats, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - About a week ago I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I wrote another post regarding this, but now I need so more help. During last week we had no contact at all. It was killing me inside, but I knew I had to be strong. I miss him every single...

Confused and Troubled: She's my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, im really confused and troubled as to what to do right now. I have feelings for this girl who I am best friends with. I want us to become closer and get into a relationship. We have talked about it somewhat and we are both somewhat ...

I love my teacher and I accept that we can't be, but I've moved and I miss him too much

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I know you've all heard this one a million times before, and I've searched this site for a possible answer to my worries, but I just can't seem to find one for me. I'm 15 years old and I live in the UK. Plus, I'm deeply in love with my teacher....

The girl I like is moving away what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - hi some one please help me. well im in year 11 and leaving school now forever! but a thew months before a new teacher assistant started working in the school. the first time i saw her i new i was going to like her! she was different she wasnt li...

How do I get my teachers to like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - most of the teachers dont like me because of the grip i have on my class mates. ever since i did my stand-up people are all ways pressuring me to do new jokes, i just want to chat with friends. my stuff is loosely based on bill hicks' comedy. how do ...