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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Broken trust... please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My boy friend and i have been dating for almost 2 years and are almost alwasy together. To avoid doing anything stupid we always only drink when were together. Last night my boy friend and i were hanging out with some people from his new job. I had ...

Did she just use me???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hello im 14 and i have a dilemma. Well my really good freind.. lets call her christina, just broke up with her boyfriend..so she's been really down lately. and she's been hanging around e for a while, we're always together but alot more now. well ...

Vomiting phobia.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i am so terrified of being sick or seeing someone else sick. i have such a phobia of vomiting i cant take it anymore! out of everyone i know, im the one whos always feeling sick. helpppp! what can i do?? i need as many answers as possible. thanks....

Should I walk away or should I hold a torch for him till he knows what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for nearly a year now, we tried to keep it casual and not be serious and seem to finish things every few weeks, yet each time we finish, we can't help but get back to where we were. He recently finished things with me and ...

Snoozy sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Last night me and my boyfriend were really drunk, we went to bed and had sex (we always use condoms) then we fell asleep in each others arms. I can vaguely remember waking up in the middle of the night still half asleep to pull the quilts over ...

Did these guys like me... and other questions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so where I work I am a cashier. So I run into different types of people. But I was curious with these two customers. Do they like me? Please answer all my questions! Here is what happened: Guy # 1: I actually see this guy come through the fron...

White female attracted to black guys...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5143 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I am a white female and i am really attracted to black guys. Its not just a physical thing, its their confidence. It's just my preference. Everyone has preferences right? The only problem, is there where i live, black guys like white girls for ...

What are the chances I could be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok so I have an implant but I had sex 2 times of times with my boyfriend rougly a couple of weeks ago.. (we usually do it with a condom just to be safe but we didnt have any at that time) so I thought it would be ok since I'm on the implant but I ...

Help with SADS.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I suffer from a mental disorder called Reverse SADS, which basically means that during the summer I become rather depressed, withdrawn and have trouble eating or sleeping. I hate going out during this time but don't like being left behind by my ...

I've fallen for him over the internet...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Actually, I met an English boy 2 months ago on the Internet, and I think all the time about him, I've become addicted to him, to talk to him. I think i'm falling in love. He makes my day... But, i think he doesn't really care about me...'Cause, ...

How can I control my anger problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My anger problem is getting worse and ive started to have random outbursts towards my boyfriend, like hitting him, biting and like squeezing his face and diggin my nails into him, i cant help it or stop myself. i say sorry millions of times. it ...

When does teenage life start to get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I'm sure no-ones had a perfect life as a teenager and I've heard it is one of the most difficult times in life, but I'm always getting told that it does eventually get better, but when? Ever since being around 11 or 12 I've just hated life in ...

Help! Have I ruined my chances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I like this guy, lets call him ben, i met him a few years back and met up with him recently, when we went into town before a friends concert it started raining so we hid in a shelter. we started playfighting, poking and tapping and i pushed him ...

Should I be worried that he'll cheat on me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - my boyfrind went to south carolina for work. He called me one day and told me that his ex was coming so he could see his daughter that he hasnt seen in 3 yrs. But the problem is she is stayin with him at his brothers house. She wont let him talk...

I need your help. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Hi all, Mine isnt really a problem, but more advice what to do next. I have been very close to a girl for a number of months, however she has a boyfriend. The other day she came out she was going to dump her boyfriend because it just wasnt right...

How can I change her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with my best friend for 5 years now. I love her and she has always been a great best friend. Except for this past year or so. We've never faught or anything. But this year she's changed dramatically! I can barely even trust ...

Is this a good fitness regime?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - so I'm trying to lose weight and I go to the gym twice every day. I do resistance training with my trainer 3 times a week for a half hour and then I do 45 minutes of cardio after and 45 minutes at night and then 4 days twice a day I go in for 45 ...

I told him "I'm not a one day girl".

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12 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I met this guy, my godfathers' nephew a few years back. Recently i hung out with him for like a day and we kissed and cuddled. I told him i wasn't going to go any further with him because i wasn't a one day girl. he told me he wasn't a one day ...

If I don't make a move I'll always wonder "what if..."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - I have been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over 2 years. She is cute and very sweet but, there is a problem. You see my best friend and hers are also dating and the four of us always hangout together. Now I've always had a bit of ...

What to do about Bob...?

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12 July 2009 (?) - A boy (bob)i went out with last year likes me again and was getting my friends to find out if i liked him, I had been going through a rough time and said i don't know i'll tell you when I'm ready, but my friends kept bugging me because bob was ...

Two guys, one decision, but I can't pick both.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Ok, so one of my guy friends asked me out a couple of weeks ago on myspace, i said yes, and then he says we should wait until school starts to be together, so the next day, I'm chatting with him, and I find out that he got a girlfriend the very next ...

My current boyfriend or Seth?

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12 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over seven months and he's been everything to me, he's been the only boyfriend i can be weird and myself around and do silly things to and with. A month ago i moved back to a city 45 minutes and we ...

Why do I keep thinking back about this incident from my past...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - hey, i dont really know how to put this, ill try to keep it short. I was talking to my boyfriend the other day about embarressing things we did when we were younger and one thing popped up that i remembered when i was little, in year 3. I went t...

Is he playing with my head or is he really taking time to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hello :D Okay, so I have liked my closest guy friend for a few months now. I told another friend, and he told him that I liked him. I was okay with that, I was actually really relieved and happy. So me and him were talking about it, I offered ...

How can I get over my boyfriend betraying my trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - First off. I love my boyfriend and I will not break up with him so please do not encourage me to do so, your efforts would be in vain. Throughout our relationship , alcohol has never been an option. He would never let me drink and he made me s...

He's my own personal drug and I'm addicted

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I fell in love with a guy who doesnt love me back. I spend the night at his house and we have sex cuddle and hang out and have fun but a couple weeks later he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend and were all good. Until I see him and I suddenly...

Will she think I'm fat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - So, im kinda average size (six foot tall, 180 lbs) but a little fat. Im pretty outgoing with a great peronality and every thing. My girlfriends amazing ( i dont know how im going out with her) and we have both mentioned having sex for the first ...

I got irresponsibly drunk, had sex and my parents want to sue him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i kinda got raped. i cant explain but i can try. i was drunk. i passed out , was consantly throwing up, but continued drinking. he carried me into his room. i was awake, i didntr say no but i didnt say yes either. im 16 and he is 22. my parents ...

How can I ask her out with her friend being there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (M) - Ok so I'm 13 and I don't know what to do. I know have decided to hang out with this girl I've started to like and i though We'd go to like a movie, but we're going to my house so I was like OK then she said her friend(girl) was coming. How can I ask ...

I don't like anal sex and my boyfriend is being an ass about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - i have a problem with my boyfriend, he stated that i don't agree we have anal sex then this proves i don't love him that much ,,, but i tried it and i hate it hurts alot and i don't get it it's not like we can't have sex other wise , now i don't ...

Should I still worry if I'm pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - We almost did it last June 1, the tip of his penis sort of entered the tip of my vagina, the upper tip part. I got my period on that month, it wasn't late or whatsoever. But i can't help but worry. I need help, advice. Should i still worry? I'm ...

Boys look at me but say nothing, is it because I am fat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - I feel really fat and like no one wants to go out with me. I weigh 150 but I am 5'8" and all of my friends say I am not fat and it's just muscle. I play a lot of sports but I still feel like I am fat and ugly. i have a lot of guy friends but I want ...

He never answered my question, then sent me a crazy message, should I ask for an explanation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were texting at a normal rate. After a text I sent him asking if I can call him, he never replied. It was around one thirty in the morning. I thought about it some more, he probably didn't want me to call him so I wouldn't find ...

I a desperately in love with a 42 year old woman, I am 15, how do I get over this condition?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

12 July 2009 (F) - Hello Basic stuff yeah? I'm in love, its not a crush, I don't want to bang her. She's very important to me. No abuse please. Some open minded and nice answers Since I was.. 11 I've been deeply in love with a female teacher at my schoo...