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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Why are boys like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now. He usually comes around mine and we will watch movies and play games. My siblings always seem to get in the way though. But whenever we are alone in a room, he will get on top of me and its like ...

We think of the same words or what the other was thinking! Does this mean we're super close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I somtimes say things at the exact same time and it will be the same word. Or we will say something that the other was thinking, it's like our minds are one or something. What is this? Does this mean we are super close??...

What are the sings that your boyfriend is interested in his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - What are the sings that your boyfriend is interested in his ex? WHat are the signs that hes jealous that his ex might have a new boyfriend?...

Why does he always LAUGH at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Why does my boyfriend laugh at some of the stupid things I say. I know I'm a bit ditzy but he makes it worse; it makes me feel more stupid and lowers my self-esteem. Especially when it gets serious it upsets me so much... ...like the time we were...

My ex's best friend is hitting on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So latest on my ex. I guess he is over me so im over him his friend who dated my friend (lets call her D).he had apologized for saying stuff about how my ex wants nothing to do with me. And said hes being an ass and than asked what i was doing for ...

Help!!! How can I prove to people I'm not immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Hello :) Okay so long story short virtually everyone I know thinks I am immature. I admit, I can be a little silly at times. I laugh at things others don't find funny, for example parts of kung fu panda which I was practically weeing myself over whi...

She wants to have sex with no strings but I'm not sure I can do that.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - A girl i met and have been talking to as friends wants to be my first time having sex but doesnt want a relationship and just wants to be friends with benefits at least for the time being. She has said she would possibly date me in the future but i ...

Why all the tension???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I dont quite get this. Ok theres a guy in my class and when we're alone we talk fine, we're along some morning if we;re there before the others. However when other people come in the room he goes quiet n doesnt talk to me like he used to. He will ...

How can I make amends with his mum?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I was at a party with my boyfriend a few days ago. I was really drunk and ended up saying some really harsh things to him. He says he's ok with it now and forgives me but I haven't seen his mum since. Apparently she's taken it badly and I think she ...

I feel like my life sucks! I'm down about it and don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - ugh! i dont know why but my life absolutely sucks from every angle! For some reason i always get the worst of everything.Nothing good ever happens to me and i feel that im worthless. im 14 and i've never had a girlfriend. I feel that im ugly, an...

My teacher tried to have sex with me. Please help... I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - There is a teacher at my school who I have always got along well with, in a purely friend-like way. You know what it's like when you meet someone completely 'on your wavelength' e.g. same sense of humour, confindent in each others company, but this ...

Help its my first time today!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and ...

Was he into me and kinda ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So here is a little back round. I am a teen who works as a cashier and I get a lot of people who live on farms, esp young farm boys. This guy looked to be around my age and I thought he was REALLY cute. Also the fair is this week and the local 4h ...

I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend might have been sexually abused. In the past, he had a relationship with another guy but that's not my issue.. We also recently wanted to further our relationship and have sex but he was unable to keep an erection... He's an ...

My ex wants to meet with me in the next few weeks but I'm not sure if I should or not. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Here is a run down of where I am at in life. I had this girlfriend for a little over 4 years. We broke up about 2 1/2 months ago. She stopped having sex with me 4 months ago. When she broke up with me she assured me everything would be fine, but ...

How do I tell my friend the truth without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - So my best friend *Nikki is obsessed with being gothic and *Mike. That's all she ever talks about. When we are on the phone or hanging out, every time she will say, "Life is just a waiting room for death." or something about death. Everytim...

I like a slut!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - Im a teen boy. I also like my cousin's friend. she is very beutiful and nice and all but theres only one problebm,shes a slut. at aproximently 3:35 a.m tuesday morning i cought her in the bedroom giving head to one of my male cousins head. i played ...

Is he lying about watching porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while now, and think that i have caught him for the second time watching porn. The first time, i caught him in the action, however, the second time, i looked at his computer history and found some recent ...

How do I tell my mum I am pregnant?

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28 July 2009 (F) - i got pregnant with my first child by 18 i am now 20 and pregnant with my second child by a different father and im scared to tell my mum she is a very harsh and scary lady and i dont want the conflict when i tell him.has anyone got any ideas of how ...

My boyfriend told me he needs a break. What does this mean relationship-wise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - My Boyfriend said to me last night i need a break.. i was shocked at his behaviour..and i still am. i kept saying to him... it means you dont love me anymore, and also i said you have your eye on someone else. you see i have been with this guy ...

I'm too scared to make out with my boyfriend, but I want to! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - well im 15 and i get nervous very easily around my boyfriend... hes had sex and has basicaly done everything i havent. but to get to the point im terrified of making out with him x_x i really want to dont get me wrong but i havent before so im afrai...

Bad things always seem to happen to me. Where is my dawn after the darkness? Will I ever find love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

28 July 2009 (M) - After all this time im almost 19 and ive still never had a real girlfriend, every attempt has been littered with problems and complications that have only led me to pain. All girls have done is given large amounts of grief and emotional pain, thus i ...

Will sex feel okay? My boyfriend has a curved penis. What will it feel like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has a curved penis and I am wondering if the sex will be ok? It is curved downwards, and am concerned it might hurt or feel different during sex. If any ladies have been with a guy with a curved penis and can relate please do. and ...

I always feel depressed and insecure without my boyfriend around. How can I become more independent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I am always feeling depressed when I am not with my boyfriend, and I already know i am insecure about myself. What can I do to become more confident and dependent of myself?...

It seems like my boyfriend only wants sex, but I don't. How do I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Okay I'm 15 and I'm still a virgin and I have a boyfriend that keeps asking for sex and Im not ready for that yet...I mean like I'm ready but I just want him to wait...because the longer he wait the better my reputation be at the end.I mean I like ...

We were practically dating, and he told me he loved me. Now have those feelings just gone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - I'm so heart broken. my best friend and I have always acted like we were dating. we practically were, we've just never ask each other out. he and I have been "together" since last september. I mean at first we both knew just never said our ...

Why not let me see the message? Why lie?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Im am 16 years old and my boyfriend is 27. Before we got together he used to cheat on a girl he was seeing but changed when we got together. We have been together for just under a year and he hs never cheated on me and we have a really good ...

He swears he has no feelings for me but then he says "I luv you"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - PLEASE TRY TO READ THE WHOLE STORY. I KNOW ITS BORING BUT PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:( here’s a guy and we are together since 2.5 yrz. our relationship was just fine before the last few months that we started to argue and quarrel A LOT ne...

Should I tell him I lost the necklace and earrings he gave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - okay so me and this guy dated like 4 years ago. we dated 8xs.[we were young and dumb] the last time we broke up it was for good. i didnt get jealous when he had his first serious girlfriend, that didnt bother me at all.[i took his virginty]. and the ...

Will I ever get over the fear of being intamate? I can't kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - Ok, i dont know whats wrong with me! I hate getting close to dudes, like being in a relationship. I cant stand the thought of having to be intimate with another person. Like ye sex looks good, but i can never imagine myself doing that kind of stuff ...

What excercises can I do to tone my body?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi everyone, so i'm 5'3, weigh 120 pounds and i'm 15. personally, i think i need to tone up from my thighs, arms, and especially my stomach. my question is what excercises can i do to tone up your thighs, get rid of fat from under your arms, an...

If I don't move out I'm homeless! I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is looking at porn and cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

28 July 2009 (F) - hi i need some help, im very scared :( me and my bf hav been together a year, im 19 and pregnant with his baby, he's lied to me in the past about where he was going, he's given me 3stds, im proper possessive over him as i suspect hes bin cheatin ...