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*eleren
writes: I think i have developed feelings for this girl after only one week. we met at the park and started talking. We are into the exact same things we have both had the same problems in our life so we understand each other. So should i inform her on my feelings? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Beleren +, writes (21 July 2009):
Beleren is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok ty
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): No, not after one week, you might scare her off. Build up her friendship and do nice things that show her you like her, just sweet things. Flirt and smile-she then get that you like her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2009): Don't tell her you like her, show her by being sweet and attentive and acting nice toward her.
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reader, john R +, writes (21 July 2009):
Ive learned from experience that if this girl really likes you, you will see some signs inevitably. But for now take the friendship road cause if this is one that's ment to be, your going to want to take every step necessary. For example if your attracted to this girl make sure if you start flirting its at least a month down the road, because the longer it takes the more its gonna mean later on. It also makes sure its just not a fling for either of you.
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reader, Libra1963 +, writes (20 July 2009):
Get to know her as a friend first. If you come one too quickly it may put her off. See how she reacts. If you feel she likes you too then go for it.
You can always tell when someone likes you by there body language, the way they look at you, the things they ask you.
Take it slowly and do not set yourself up for hurt.
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