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writes:my boyfriend wants so finger me but im still a virgin and ive never used a tampon, so im affraid its goin to hurt, can anyone help me please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): No, i lost my virginity when i was 13 and got fingered a few days back. It doesnt hurt if you are used to wear a tampon, if you do it feels a little good. Its good to have sex before getting fingered.
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reader, Vane  +, writes (21 July 2009):
 hi there..
well i think it depends. when i first got fingered by my boyfriend, it didn't hurt at all! actually it feels great! & i'm still a virgin too. allow him to touch you around first & then insert his finger. make him start slowly & let him know what u like & what u don't. make sure he does not have long nails, in case of scratching. you may feel awkward first but you'll get used to it. but make sure you want to take that step too not just because you waant to please him. i hope you enjoy it cuz i still do. message me if u would like to talk..
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (21 July 2009):
I agree, you need to see for yourself - but for more reasons than knowing about pain. Girls need to be able to instruct boys how to pleasure them. Like it or not, boys are built to get off. Pull on it till it's hard, then pull till it's soft... it's not rocket science... so easy any guy can do it...Women on the other hand are mysteries... boys are not going to know how to please you and everything they've heard is basically wrong. If you take the time to explore your body (a bit of internet research may be in order) you can find out what makes you crazy, and teach him. Each woman is different... some like direct stimulation of the clit, others can't stand it. Some like to be rubbed just so, other like fingers in the vagina.Your worth it, go do some homework alone! Your boyfriends will appreciate what you learn!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): My boyfriend fingered me before i started using tampons and it didnt hurt at all. just make sure your plenty wet first. You need to be sexualy aroused so you will be wet. It feels realy good actaul. Hope this helps. dont be afraid. if he respects you he will wait til your ready
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reader, Fifteen +, writes (20 July 2009):
finger yourselr and find out(:
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reader, busy04 +, writes (20 July 2009):
 Yeah, it may hurt.
If you don't want to be fingered just yet, tell your fast, nasty boyfriend that he needs to wait! Don't do anything because he wants to, it's YOUR body! Tell him to finger his self!
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