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How do you make a long distance relationship work, unable to go to see her?

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Question - (20 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *eleren writes:

How do you make a long distance relationship work if we cant see each other for a long time... we are both 16 and she lives 11 hours from me so i have no way i can see her. but we really like each other. There's no way i could see her till i was at least 18. in that case i would have enough cash to fly out there to her.

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A female reader, Crazy4BaggiePantsJr United States +, writes (30 July 2009):

I have been in a long distance relationship with the same man for over a year now... we have not met face to face and probably wont for another 2-3 years... we have had a lot of ups and downs, even have broken up and gotten back together a few times... We are very much in love and know now that we are more unhappy apart then together... some of the things we do together via internet: Watch movies and comment on movie thro yahoo, voice chat using Skype or Yahoo (total free), send sweet text messages daily, and very important to let each other know how u feel everyday... be each others best friend, if it is meant to nothing will stand in ur way... good luck u two

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A male reader, Beleren United States +, writes (21 July 2009):

Beleren is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok ty

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A female reader, busy04 United States +, writes (20 July 2009):

busy04 agony auntA long distance relationship is hard enough to deal with even when you have a car. And it takes a whole lot more than telephone calls & emails. And considering that you both don't have vehicles and are so young, I don't want to sound rude, but I don't think this can stand a chance. This could maybe work if you both were older & had a better way of being together, but it doesn't seem possible at the moment...sorry!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009):

Talk to your parents about going out to see her. Ask her to talk to her parents about the same thing. Or you could get a job and save up the money. But dont worry if the two of you really care for one another whether its a long distance relationship or not it should work out.

My boyfriend lives about 20 hours away and is in a different time zone so I feel your pain. If you cant find a job or your parents wont pay for you to go and see her (or meet in the middle)Try buying a webcam. It helps alot trust me.

Good Luck

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