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30-35,
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writes:I have been seeing this guy for nearly a year now, we tried to keep it casual and not be serious and seem to finish things every few weeks, yet each time we finish, we can't help but get back to where we were. He recently finished things with me and said it was becasue he felt the relationship was going nowhere and i also found out from his best friend that he doesn't think he'll ever want a relationship with anyone... should i just walk away or should i hold a torch intil he knows what he wants?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Focus on yourself instead of him. Why follow him around in his confusion, does that even make sense? Of course not. Go about doing the things that make you happy and pursue your own goals and dreams.
In the future if he wants to join your happy life, he will let you know, and by then you may no longer have room for him as you may meet someone else who wants the same things you do....like a relationship.
Wish him well and get on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Put your focus on yourself instead of him. Why follow him in his confusion and put your life on hold? Does that make any sense? Of course not. Focus on what you want and what makes you happy and then go about making it happen for yourself. If he wants to join your happy life someday in the future he will let you know and by then you won't be interested because you will be happy living your own life and may meet someone who wants the same tings that you do.
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