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If I don't make a move I'll always wonder "what if..."

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Question - (12 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 July 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *c156 writes:

I have been going out with my current girlfriend for a little over 2 years. She is cute and very sweet but, there is a problem. You see my best friend and hers are also dating and the four of us always hangout together. Now I've always had a bit of a crush on my friend's girlfriend and I've always kind of harmlessly flirted with her but lately I cant stop thinking about her and I always want to be around her and lately she has been flirting back. I dont want to hurt my gf because i love her and she doesn't deserve that and niether does my best friend but at the same time I don't want to miss my opportunity to be with her because I will always wonder what if? Please I just don't know what to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2009):

You need to stop hanging out with that other girl. AND what kind of friend is she to your girlfriend if she's flirting with you, especially while she is in a relationship with your best friend. you need to man up and stay with your girl. you say you love her but really what the hell are you doing!! if you care about her you won't just leave her for that girl. life is full of what ifs and some are meant to stay as what ifs.

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