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30-35,
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writes:My boyfriend and I were texting at a normal rate. After a text I sent him asking if I can call him, he never replied. It was around one thirty in the morning. I thought about it some more, he probably didn't want me to call him so I wouldn't find out where he is. He didn't even ask to do the web cam chat which we usually do. Should I be worried? I don't want to sound crazy and then it not even be a major problem as the one I'm thinking about because then I look like the fool. I'm planning not to talk to him until he talks to me first. He didn't text me until later that night at around four in the morning saying "Im going to go mowsel m ok baby?" I replied with "What?" But he never texted me back. I have tried deciphering it but I came up with nothing.
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reader, texasgirl07 +, writes (12 July 2009):
He prob just fell asleep then later on work up and sent you that txt while he was half asleep.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Did it occur to you that he may have simply wanted to go to sleep rather than talk on the phone??
I THINK his four a.m. text was that he was going to mosey on - in other words, most likely go to bed - and was letting you know (but if that WAS what he was telling you it would have been better if he'd just said so).
Give it another couple days and see if he gets in touch. If not, maybe you could call him at an earlier time of day....don't fret overmuch.......see what happens.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (12 July 2009):
Well I don't know how long you have been going with him but let me tell you. I believe people should define for themselves what thier idea of an honest relationship is. Texting and not getting an answer is one thing but I kind of think he should let you know why he isn't texting or answering you. The sooner you find out what is going on the sooner you can react and the less hurt you will be. Don't hold out for the fear of "losing" him because the hurt will just be potentially more in the future. Knock out your issues early and if it meant to stay intact than it will.
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