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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello :DOkay, so I have liked my closest guy friend for a few months now. I told another friend, and he told him that I liked him. I was okay with that, I was actually really relieved and happy. So me and him were talking about it, I offered to answer any questions he had. I had liked him before, I told him and he said he didn't feel the same way. Surely this time, if he didn't like me, he would have no problem saying it. Instead he said he "didn't know what to think", I'm going to give him time to think, but another close guy friend said he's messing me about, playing games with me. I don't know whether to believe this or not. What's going on in his head? If it helps, he is a year older than me and we've known each other for about a year now, we're very close. Thank you in advanced :) Reply to this Question
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (12 July 2009):
Well your situation is personal to me as I am in love with my best girl friend. She knows exactly how I feel. There is nothing left in the dark when it comes to her and there is nothing about the way I feel that I am afraid to tell her. If you want to chase him than I say do so with honest intentions. True love takes time to develope it doesn't always happen instantly. I don't believe when people say they just know when they first meet someone if that person is someone they can be with or not. Simply because no girl I have fallen in love with in my life did I have an instant feeling for. Anyway I would always make your case that you wish you and him could be more. Don't try to force it and definatley don't make him feel like you either want to be his GF or nothing else. Establish yourself with him and don't ever try to fall into the friend zone thinking he will eventually come and get you when he is ready. Hold your feelings on your sleeve and always let him see. If he doesn't ever respond then only you can make the decision in time to let him go in that way or continue your pursuit. Im a firm believer that the only person you can truely dictate and figure out is yourself. He has to do that as well
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