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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone,My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now and I have already told him that I want him to be my first. We are waiting until we have gone out for a year. (So it will be legal, and I know everyone is thinking it; We will be safe condoms and birth control)But the other day we were at my house cuddling on the couch and talking about sex. I'm a virgin and He's not. I told him it was getting very hard for me to keep waiting for the year mark. (As we are very much in love.) I told him that if it were possible, I'd take it all the way right then and there.He and I have openly disscussed a future sex life often, but for some reason he asked me if I was ready. I was a bit confused. Of course I replied.No, he said. I mean like, if your just sitting in class and you think about it do you really want to? You can't just think so. You have to know so.I was caught a bit off balance. We had talked about this so much before and he had never questioned me before. I know in my heart of hearts that I'm ready. I also know that I'm going to wait for our year aniversery. My question is:1.Why did he question me after we have talked about this so much?2.Guys really give this much thought to this sort of thing?3.Is it a sign of true loveAnd does it sound at all like he wants to be with me after we finish highschool?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2009): well theres no way to tell if he loves you or wants to stay with you after high school but he definitely cares and seems like a really good guy
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reader, HerionNiki  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 It's really hard to read a guy when it comes to things like this... I do think he may be in love with you if he is wanting and willing to wait for the date you guys set together it means he must care.... and yes some guys do put a lot of thought into things like that and I don't know about the being together after high school thing
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