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writes:My friend Jack and I have been friends for like 9 months now and he used to be really sweet and nice and we had a little thing in the summer but then when school started he started just acting like he was better than me and stuff. He is a year older than me, I used to like him and I told him that and he lead me on, then we just went back to being friends. Then like 2 weeks ago we got really close again and we were flirting a lot and now he's back to just being a jerk with me. I told him I felt we were growing apart and I cared about him and he was like we're in different grades. He was just being a jerk about it. He always says comments that make me look stupid and feel stupid.. and it just makes me sad. Do you think I should just give up him? cause I don't know any more. He always leads me on and has these random mood swings and acts like I don't matter to him at all. What should I do?
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reader, tinylass  +, writes (8 January 2009):
 i thing that this lad doesnt deserve you. you are better than this and you deserve to be treated like a person not like a mat.
you shouldnt put up with it he is using you as and when it suits him. as hard as it will be i think you should leave him to it he will realise what he has lost in the end.
but u shouldnt let him or anyone make you feel stupid cause you arent you were just trying to be there for him. maybe as he is older than you he is trying to look good infront of his mates but when they aint around that is when he wants you.
the question you need to ask yourself is are you able to live like that and what are you really getting out of it.
i really hope this helps good luck x
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