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*ountryBum
writes:I was just wondering. Is it normal to be really really tight. People have tried to finger me but it just hurts way too much so we stop. The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about it and we thought maybe if we just went straight into having sex it might work.We used lube but still he couldnt get in. It was just way too painful for me like probally 8 or 9 out of 10. I get it's supposed to hurt the first time but I'm not quite sure it's supposed to hurt that much.It feels as if there's something wrong and I just really want to know what I can do about it as I really want to have sex. =] Reply to this Question
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reader, CountryBum +, writes (2 November 2008):
CountryBum is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou for your help.i just wasnt sure and i dont feel comfortable talking to my mum as i dont have close relationship with her.:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): Okay. Listen. Obviously, your body is not ready. And if he just busts up in you, there will be pain. Loads. Even when your body is ready there is still a painful prick... Okay, BIG prick. You need to wait and work up to it. If fingering is hurting you now... I can promise you a finger is smaller than what is going to be taking its place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Take is easy. You are still very young. Don't rush into having sex. Lots of other things you can do for now. Pepare yourself mentally and physically for the right time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Your brain is probably ready for sex - or at least it thinks it is - but your body probably isn't. Wait until you get a bit older, say a couple or three years, then when you're with a partner you're deeply in love with, it will be so much more meaningful and pleasurable than at present - which is just couple of teenagers having a fumble.
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