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writes:hiyah..well this is kind of embarresing but i need to ask sum1.:S well to start of with the first time i had sex was when i was 14 with this lad that i am currently having sex with now.i am now 15. i feel like i love him.. but the problem is..he doesnt luv me back.. well he says he does but i dont fink he does because i meet him like 1nce every 2 weeks on a friday because he msgs me telling me to cum n meet him.. for sex and he ses tht he doesnt just want me for tht though i feel really happy when im with him but. the problem is its like hese embarressed about me because he doesnt speak to me much when we are with other people and he doesnt get in contact with me after i have left his house the next day because when i meet him i stay at his house..i tell him i love him and he says i love u more and stuf...people say hese just using me.. and that i shud get over him but i just cant.:(he has the same friends as me.. and he acts different towards me when were with them..also when we have sex i dont feel like he is enjoying it because he never ejaculates.. and people say he is just using me but why wud he be if he doesnt even ejaculate i dont fink he is enjoying it personally or i am not showing him enuff efection.. i myself aint enjoying it but i just want to make him happy..please help..x fnkyou
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): hi...i am only sixteen myself but i have been in sum ammount of situations just like yours...infact at the moment i am in the same situation.don't listen to anyone if thier telling you that your not in love as your the only person that will really know... nobody else knows your feeling except you.but on to the subject of him using you...everytime you meet up with him you have sex, im ryt arnt i? :Swell if that is the case then dont give it to him as easy...giv it just one nyt to c if he can go the whole nyt just being with you for you then you will know whether he likes you or not...that will put you on the ryt tracks of where you stand with him. play a little hard to get aswell dont just jump everytym he calls.if he calls it off then just think theres plenty more fish in the sea...your only young:)or and another thing don't worry about what people think so much especially about your age when you lost your virginity and tht because age is just a number its whether you feel ready or not which is something you will come across all through your life oki hope i hav been of some help!:)beth:)
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reader, sexi suga  +, writes (30 October 2008):
sweetiiee give yourself some credit... you are better then a part time sex buddy... anyone can say i love you its not hard meaning it is the hard part... the ways you explain the situation seems to sugggest all you are is a person that he can exploit as he knows that you will give him what he wants when he wants due to you feelings for him... as a guy he is exploiting and taking advantage of your feelings to get what he wants...hes not worth a second glance babe... go out therre and grab yourself a real man he wants you for more then sex, a man who isnt affraid to talk to you in public and a man who will shout at the top of his voice to the world that you are his gal... babe everyone deserves that.. go out ehre and get what is rightfully yours... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfnx latin dove... but the fing is...
i WANT to make this work so what do i do to make more pleasurable so tht he will want to meet me more then we will finally get together..
also how do i know if he cums up me or not fnx
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): Sex only takes two willing people it should be the crwoning act of a loving relationship.
If you are having doubts about your relationship and how he relates to you then it isn't Love because Love always trusts. If you are getting nothing from sex then that isn't loving as sex in a relationship should be a tender and mutually pleasurable experience.
If all you are meeting him for is sex then he is using you and his protestations of Love are cheap 'I love you rolls' off the tongue but means very little if it isn't followed up in actions
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