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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months, but recently hes been really moody and grumpy im not sure whether this is related to his new job as he has to get up early for. I am also worried that he is going off me, as last weekend he had a girl come down to visit whom he hasn't seen for a year and they were cuddling right in front of me, i've also been told they were doing the same at his house by his mum and sisters. He knows this has upset me and apolgised a number of times, but know he wants to go up and visit her, he's asked if its ok and we got in to an arguement about me not trusting him where i have said that i do.We've never argued before now i'm scared i'm going to lose him because he really does feel like family to me the same as his family and friends. But they all say that he loves me to pieces, I just don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, sexi suga +, writes (30 October 2008):
ok i think i would take a different approach to the one given by fade... you have to realise he is with you if he didnt want to be with you he wouldnt be but he is which clearly shows u that u are the one he wants to be with....by hugging this girl in front of u shows that you have a trustworthy and open relationship as he doesnt have to do this behind ur back but in front of ur eyes that is called a relationship where there are no secrets and nothing is hidden... if he wanted he could have quite easily gone to meet this girl without even bothering to tell u by making up annnnyyy excuse but the fact that he told u just shows that he respects u enough to tell u the truth and that in its self is suffcient... trust me babe ive just recently been through a very similar thing and i realised the hard way that by tieing them down u just gonna push them away further make them known to something when u dont like it and they should automatically not do it next time if they care about you and ur feelings...i think trust is very important in a relationship and without it you havent got anything... think carefully about why you are with him and why you always doubt him and maybe it isnt him... maybe it is your insecurity levels... thats what it was with me and things only got better when i sorted out my insecurity levels and now we still going strong 13months on... :) good luck sweeti and remember he IS WITH YOU COZ HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU!! dont doubt him unless you have reason t doubt him :)
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