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writes:Dear Cupid, I need help. I just want to know what this means. Why does he do this? Who is he? He is my teacher, whom I have a little (by little I mean a lot)crush on. Why does he does this and what does it mean.One thing that you should know is that he was my teacher last year not this year but we talk like every day. Anyway here it goes.1. When this teacher would start singing he would always add my name in there. (it's funny as hell)2. When I see him in the hall he gives me this look. A nice smile but it has this kinda funny look to it.3. He made up a nickname that annyoed me a lot but he still called me by it. 4. He e-mails me all the time. 5. He always makes cute little funny jokes about me.What in the heck do these things mean!
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reader, nicole5178 +, writes (4 November 2008):
 No, do not confront him like the post below says. Very bad idea. It'll just make him uncomfortable and ruin your friendship, as well as the teacher-student classroom relationship. Don't say anything to him about this--he'll be very offended and upset with you, even if he does have feelings for you, because he'd think you were negatively accusing him of something, no matter how right/wrong you are. It would also give the signal that you didn't like the names and such, which doesn't seem to be the case....
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reader, nicole5178 +, writes (2 November 2008):
He's just being nice. You two are friends. Don't try to progress it--just ride out the crush. If you're only 13-15 yrs old, you're not ready for the type of relationship an adult male would want. If you still feel this way after you're 18, maybe say something to him about your feelings, but until then, just take it slow. Who knows, maybe it's just a phase that'll die down after the school year is over. Give it time to see if your feelings are real...
Best of luck! Let us know how things go.
-Nicole.
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reader, Gemini1506  +, writes (30 October 2008):
Sorry to say but you shouln't take it seriously.
If he was a descent man he would know that there cannot be anything between you two as you are too young, and he will get into sooo much trouble
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): I know you may think he likes you back, but don't your hopes up. He could do this to many people.
I'm not saying he doesn't like you back, cos it could be a possibilty, but please don't make that the only conclusion possible to you. You can only be sure if he tells you himself.
I would advise you to talk to him about it maturally. Since you have each others e-mail adresses it would be possible to talk to him about it via e-mail if you don't think you could do it face to face. But cos you don't have him as a teacher this year you can advoid him as much as possible around school if what had been said was embarassing.
If you do decide to talk to him remember to ask him to treat you as an adult and to be honest.
I hope it goes well, and talking does help, trust me.
Good luck x
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