A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I love this girl we are dating for a year and a half now she is soooooo sweet adorable lovely caring beatiful hot everything a man would want in a girl but lately we have been fighting a looooooot about the way she dressses... now I know it's silly and I should not leave her for this stupid reason but I'm a guy and I can't take it, she looooves the beach like hell and CANNOT STOP wearing hot bikinis, the ones that almost show a loooot of her body, wears hot shorts and shows a lot of her body. Now I know she will never cheat she loves me to death... but she is liike wants everybody to look and say woooooow hotttttt she can't live if she doesn't have this feeling walking down the street what should I do???? Reply to this Question Share |
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female
reader, stressedfabulousgirl +, writes (30 October 2008):
i saw this question and it spoke to me because my boyfriend and i used to fight about the way i dress. i am very attractive and have a great sense of style. my boyfriend loves those things about me. but, he started to resent me when i would go somewhere and another male would check me out. he knows i love him and would never be unfaithful. he also accused me of craving other men's attention to make myself feel better, which is completely untrue. make sure its not just your jealousy thats getting the best of you like it was for him. things have actually been sooo much better for a long time now. i can actually show cleavage and he doesnt start trippin! he is feeling better about himself which allows him to feel proud when he's with me instead of being mad and ruining both of our time. if she really does crave attention, then she needs to check herself and realize that your attention is all she needs. depends on her feelings of self worth. some women are like that which means there is something missing in them. if you really love her and you are positive she loves you then be supportive and be proud to be with a hot woman!
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