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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

It was just a one night stand for him but it meant more than that to me and I'm depressed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2722 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I'm 33, single. I went to a monastery to inaugurate an event (work related...I'm a diplomat). There I met a young monk (he's 42, he's supposed to be celibate) and we got on rather well together. He sort of followed me around, which was flattering, ...

Did he just want to have fun with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - Hi My name is Aliyah and am 30 years old,separated and from Mauritius. I would like to have an advice please. I have know a guy on an online dating site since last December,he is actually working for an international company in South Africa ...

My boyfriend is lying about porn again. what are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi i've been in a relationship with my partner for a few years, the beginning was perfect great sex almost every day. He would always please me go down on me and stuff, compliments all the time he made me feel sexy and confident. we even watched...

Am I too old to expect to have a physical relationship? Should I just accept it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2723 days ago

28 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years rarely wants sex - maybe every 3 or 4 months. Aside from that he almost never touches me except for a peck on the lips. This is breaking my heart. I've talked to him about it many times and he says he's too tired but he ...

I pretty much hate my husband and need to find a way to get out of my marriage

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2721 days ago

28 May 2017 (F) - I apologize upfront because this will be a long one. Im just going to get things out there as i think about them so hopefully it will make some sense. Im Looking for a little advice and I'm not sure where to turn. I've been married for 12 years and ...

Is there a reason I didn't have an orgasm the first time I had sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

27 May 2017 (F) - Hi I'm a near 18 year old female. I lost my virginity a few months back and have only had sex with that one guy. We've always been kind of more than friends (well for over a year), but not quite defined as anything more. It just sort of happened one ...

He has ED, should I stay with him?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

26 May 2017 (F) - I am planning to settle down with this guy as I really want kids (I've wanted them for years) and I'd like someone to help bring them up. I've been dating for a few months and found out that he has erectile dysfunction. I am not in love with him...

I fell in love with a part-time escort and not sure what to do now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2724 days ago

26 May 2017 (M) - Long read, please be patient. I am a working professional in my early 30’s and I've been living and working in Southeast Asia for the past 10 years. I live and work in a rather remote and industrial area and thus I've always found it diffic...

My married lover seems to have lost interest in me. Why is this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2726 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Dear aunts, I met a wonderful man through work and the chemistry between us was unbelievable. We had few business meetings with other people and he finally told me that he's very much attracted to me but never contacted me. I found out he was ...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

How can I cope with my sexual frustration? Masturbating seems my only option. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - I'm 26yrs old and have accomplished nothing. I failed college, don't have a job, and I am a virgin. I feel that I am a hopeless disgrace with no future or anything of value. My problem is that I am sexually frustrated but feel like I have noth...

We are newly weds. Should I confront him over this? He's been watching porn, alone, when I've been at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2728 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hi I am 61 years old my husband is the same age. He has trouble keeping an erection but he tries he says it's do to his blood pressure. We have only been marriedx for 7 months now i know he likes porno. I have watched it with him What bothers m...

I'm trying hard for us to be intimate but he is just not interested and won't give a straight answer as to why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hello all! I was hoping I could get some other input with my problem. I don't really need to get into the past cause that's what it is. So I'll ask now (: I've been married for 4 years in August. We have 3 daughters together. 9,1 and 4 ...

5 years with girlfriend, losing attraction, annoyed and frustrated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

22 May 2017 (M) - I been with my gf nearly 5 years, we are still living apart due to money issues and our permanent jobs. But things have changed. I'm avoiding her because I feel like i can't really speak to her like I speak to the guys. For example, I mentioned I'm ...

How do I get the spontaneity back in our sex life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

22 May 2017 (M) - How do I get the spontaneity back in our sex life. Since our second child or sex life has slowed down to maybe 3-5 times a month if that's a good month. It's always planned. She suffers depression.theres times I feel although she'...

How can I become more wet during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2730 days ago

22 May 2017 (F) - How do I become more 'wet' during intercourse? My partner often notes that I don't stay 'wet' long enough. I love my partner and am excited and aroused when we snuggle and make out, but I'm just not excited when we have intercourse because he is ra...

She agrees to a threesome when drunk but not when she's sober)

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2729 days ago

21 May 2017 (M) - Ok... So my wife and I have discussed threesomes with another woman and she has accepted as long as I dont participate, in other words not really a threesome just voyeurism on my part, which i'm totally cool with, but I would also like for her to ...

I can't have an orgasm so I always fake them. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - I am in a relationship, almost a year now and we have amazing chemistry together. Every time we are having sex I can't seem to orgasm even if I try my best. On my own Its every time, so I fake it to not upset him or to get it over with.What do I ...

I'm 18 years older than him, I know its crazy but its so intoxicating!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2731 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I feel like I've completely lost my mind here, so maybe someone can give me some perspective. I'm a 38 year-old mother of one. I've been divorced for years. I've always thought of myself as a rational person until now. For reasons I cannot explain, ...

Does this look like a deeper relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2725 days ago

19 May 2017 (F) - I've had a FWB about 6 months now. We casually meet every other week, do our thing, split ways and just chat via messages the rest of the time. Lately, when I go to his house, he wants me to spend all night, go out to the movies, go eat, he kisse...

Do many females masturbate ? I feel ashamed when I do so.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2720 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - Do lots of girls/ladies masterbate? I get so paranoid that I'm abnormal for doing it because my friends never talk about it and sometimes someone will make a comment that it's more of a boy thing and I'll feel ashamed. ...

I hate that I don't want sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - Hi Everyone! I don't really know where to turn or who to ask for advice. I'm a 24 year old female- have been with my current partner for 6 and a half years. With our up's and downs admittedly. I love this man, I look forward to seeing him eve...

Is he using health issues as an excuse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2736 days ago

16 May 2017 (M) - I have been with my wonderful man for over a year (I'm 38 and he is 36) and we're engaged. My issue right now is that my fiancé has been through a lot medically. He was in a Coma for over 2 months and came out with more conditions, neuropathy a...

My girlfriend is no longer interested in sex and I am starting to think of her as someone untouchable

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - Could you give me you overview please. I’m not sure how to deal with this situation. My girlfriend is entering the menopausal age. She tells me she no longer feels sexy. Although I’m a bit older than her I still do. I have backed off initiati...

Worried that I'm not big enough

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - My girlfriend told me that she is feeling my inside but only a little and she is probably sure that she cant cum from this. I can make her cum few time in 2-4 minutes with my fingers but she can't feel my penis right. I'm average guy. Lenght above...

Jealous of my girlfriend's sexual experiences

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2737 days ago

14 May 2017 (M) - I feel a bit silly really. I've been in a great relationship with a woman for several years now. She's fun, kind, understanding, we share a lot of common activities like music, cycling, swimming, travel, and she has really helped me develop - and ...

We are two very different people. I feel stuck in this relationship. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2738 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - Feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years, and we have lived together for 2. He is an incredibly kind guy, he always means well, and is all around just a nice guy. However...

Help ! What is the best way to approach him? what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

11 May 2017 (M) - I am 20 years old (nearly 21) and I have been seeing someone since December 2016 who was 37 but is now 38. We met online on a dating app, things were great at the start, we both hinted we were looking for a relationship and on our first date we ...

What can I do? My Gf of 5 years says she wants to have sex with another guy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2740 days ago

10 May 2017 (M) - Okay so I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. Recently I started noticing a big change in our sex life like she was losing interest. After a few months and started asking her what changed and all she would say was I don't know. After it e...

Is it wrong that I get more sexual satisfaction from masterbating and my sexual fantasies, and less satisfaction when having sex with a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2740 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - Hey. I have been masturbating since I was younger. A lot. I'm 43 years old now, cannot settle down, never found a man who really satisfies me (maybe 1 or 2) because they always get off for themselves and can't really be bothered with me or my ...

How do I tell my strict, military, religious father that I'm pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I am a 20 year old who still lives at home. I just found out I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's child. My friend and I haven't been dating very long but I have known and been friends with him for over 6years. Because of this fact my father hasn't...

Cheating in a LDR. What advice can you give to me re my Gf who I think may be cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2742 days ago

9 May 2017 (M) - This is my long distance relationship. We are dating 6 months. I met my girlfriend through my cousin. In our relationship, she is always showing to me that she is nice girl, and a faithful wife in future. She treat me very nice. About my girlf...

I'm thinking about people in my past! Also I'm not satisfied with my sex life! Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2743 days ago

8 May 2017 (F) - A little back story before getting into my concerns-I have been married for almost half a year. We are both very much in love and have a great relationship and I'm treated very well. I'm happy! I lost my virginity to my husband, as he's the only one ...

Wife had an affair with a man bigger than me. Will she always be sexually frustrated with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

6 May 2017 (M) - My wife has had a affair with a man with a large penis. Mine is small. Will i continue to sexually frustrate her?...

Looking to reclaim my sexuality and get past the fear of meeting potential fwbs. Advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

6 May 2017 (F) - (Admin: Did not mean to send last question unfinished,please do not post it, sorry) I am looking to reclaim my sexuality but I am struggling to follow through with my intentions and find the right person to do it with. I have not had ...

My husband is almost forcing me to have sex with my lesbian neighbor

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - Hi, my husband has recently come home after a month away and suddenly started wanting me to have sex with my lesbian next door neighbour, he doesn't want to watch or be involved at all. We have known she has a crush on me for a long time and given ...

I can't be what my LDR boyfriend wants me to be!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2744 days ago

5 May 2017 (F) - My ldr watches porn stars mistress who dominate men . When we talk sexy I am extremely self conscious. It's simply not in my nature to be anything like that . That's not how I am as a person but I know that's what really floats his boat . I have...