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Archived questions from: August, 2016 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I think I've fallen for my FWB, but I'm afraid that telling him will shut down our arrangement. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - I think I'm falling for my FWB.. At first this seemed like an ideal situation and we both approached the topic as adults. We listed our rules and expectations. He lives 45 min away (by car) and we see each other on weekends when he has time off and ...

Is it 'normal' to only have sex once a week when you live with your partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

31 August 2016 (?) - I'm just curious, I apologise in advance if this is TMI. I've been with my partner for 6 years, living together for one. We used to sleep together several times a day every time we saw each other... But for the past year of living together it's only ...

Why do I get this burning sensation during sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

31 August 2016 (F) - I'm a 22 years old female and partially sexually active since i am in a LDR and i get to see my boyfriend 4 times a year, when he isn't around i still masturbate and all but whenever i use a sex toy or having an intercourse with him, i get this ...

I've had sex with many men and I'm afraid of what my future husband will think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

29 August 2016 (F) - I had an intimate relationship with many boys when I was 19-20 years old. Im really upset with what I had done. And I'm scared that what would happen if in the future my husband would get to know about my bad body figure. Please help me?...

Wife won't have sex, how do I bring up having a 3rd person involved?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

29 August 2016 (M) - once more the issue is about threesomes,my wife and i have been married over 30 years, both in our 50's, for the last 5-6 years our sex life has become extinct, i was wondering if a 3rd person in the bedroom would revive the flame, problem is i don...

I want to have sex without a condom but I'm not taking birth control pills. Will emergency contraceptive pills after sex work just as well to prevent pregnancy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

28 August 2016 (F) - This is a contraceptive related question. I wanna have sex without a condom, i'm also ovulating and i'm currently not on the pills. If i use plan B pills after sex can it be equally effective ? Or will there be a chance of unwanted pregnancy....

I love her very much, but our sex life has become nonexistent. How do I rekindle her desire?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

28 August 2016 (M) - I am 62, my domestic partner is 70. When we first got together about 7 years ago, she was very romantic and passionate. As the years went by (most recently the past year) she became less and less interested in any passion at all. She doesn't ...

I want to feel loved and wanted. what hope is there when he's so critical and gives me the "silent treatment"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - My partner of 4 years has started not talking to me for days on end if we argue no matter how petty it is. He tells me daily he doesn't trust me, if anyone smiles or is nice to me he says it's because I have looked at them and this is disrespe...

Would this be a good way to lose my virginity? How would I ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

27 August 2016 (F) - Is this a good way to lose my viginity? My friends gave me advice for this: have him go down on me until i orgasm, and then we have sex and he gets off and I possibly get off more. I love the idea, but I've never had a guy go down on me either. ...

Is it likely that my GF thinks of nothing when she masturbates? Is she telling lies? I'd like to spice things up.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

26 August 2016 (M) - I've been trying to spice things up and find out what turns my gf on but she told me she doesn't think of anything while she masturbates. Is she lieing? ...

My boss says he's in love with me? Should I be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

26 August 2016 (F) - Okay so here's the deal.. I have been working at my job for a few months now. When i went to the interview, i pretty much felt like I had it in the bag during all the interviews. Then the last person was a man and he was terribly gorgeous. I fe...

I want romance and committment in our marriage!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

24 August 2016 (M) - I'm having some emotional problems and troubles with my wife. I wanted to post the question here before I seek the support of counselling. My wife and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4. It was rough in the first couple of years ...

Intimacy question, boyfriend doesn't want to be intimate with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3016 days ago

24 August 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months who is 33. He is the one who asked me to be his girlfriend. Things are great , he is sweet and nice. However, whenever it comes to intimacy. He wants me to stay over at his place and we just cuddle. He a...

I'm a gay virgin who desperately wants to try anal sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

19 August 2016 (M) - Hi yalls , im a gay virgin and i really wanna have sex and there's this cute cool experienced guy that's a bit older than me but he's cool and nice and well i'm thinking like maybe i should just have sex with him because i think i'd like it lol. B...

I'm only turned on by blowjobs!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3001 days ago

19 August 2016 (M) - Hi there. I'm a heterosexual man, but I've been stuck with this since I started to feel sexual needs. What I have is pretty weird: I'm attracted to girls, but the only sexual activity I'm interested in are blowjobs. I don't like women vaginas, I...

How can I control my feelings about my Bf masturbating, alone, when I'm not there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

18 August 2016 (F) - Somebody please tell me what is wrong with me. I cannot cope with my bf masturbating when I'm not here. I am paranoid about it. We only have sexual encounters once a week as it is. Aside from everything else when I know he's done it I get so upse...

Wife's vagina passes air during and after sex. Could this mean she is sleeping with someone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

18 August 2016 (M) - My wife fart before I insert my penis that was for the first time after that it continues while having sex or afteer sex is she having an affair? when I tried to insert my penis her vagina fart after that it continues while after having sex or after...

I want my wife to teaze others - any valid opinions?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

17 August 2016 (M) - Have any of you in committed relationships ever experimented in permitting one partner to engage in some limited sexual behavior towards others, so long as the other partner is present and consenting. This might consist of very close dancing, ...

Together for 3 years and we have 2 children together. Did he ever really intend to marry me? Am I interpreting this situation accurately?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

17 August 2016 (F) - I need help and i'll try and keep this as short as possible. My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years almost. We have 2 children together within this time and our relationship was very full on from the beginning with me falling pregnant...

Changes are making me feel super sexy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

16 August 2016 (F) - Here is my question and issue. Why now? I just turned 40 this year and it's like my sex drive is over the top. Is this normal? I a woman who really didn't care about sex can't seem to get enough. I'm noticing different changes in my body but didn't ...

How do I make my gay fantasy real?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3024 days ago

16 August 2016 (M) - I am single guy, wondering what it would be like to have sex with this guy i know. How do i go about asking him. i think he is gay but really don't know for sure. i fantasize about sex with him all the time, Oh by the way i never have had sex with...

I really do want to stop hurting my husband and my lover's wife. But how can I stop?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3022 days ago

14 August 2016 (F) - If you want to judge, please stop reading this right now. I need advice, not lectures. I have been married for nearly 20 years now, no kids. I have never felt the need to seek fulfillment elsewhere since me and my husband have been truly happy...

Married but cheating on my husband with two other men. Exciting for me but it's becoming too much. What are my options?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3027 days ago

14 August 2016 (F) - I'm a married female,no kids, who has been cheating on my husband with a single man for almost two years now... A couple months ago when I arrived at my guys apartment,another man was there with him, who he said was one of his friends from way back...

Why does my boyfriend always want to cum on my face?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3004 days ago

13 August 2016 (F) - When me and my boyfriend have anal sex, he always wants to cum on my face after. I don't mind once in a while but not every time. I have blown him many times and swallowed many times. Can anyone tell me why he wants this all the time ? ...

I'm a thoroughly modern brand of old-fashioned

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2923 days ago

12 August 2016 (M) - I was particularly amused by a recent comment about my views. I was described as living in “the 1950s,” which I found highly amusing. But when I’d had my chuckle, I got to thinking: what would it be like to be stuck in the 50s? How does the ...

We slept together and now he's gone silent, advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3026 days ago

12 August 2016 (F) - I was wondering if any of you could give me some advice on my situation. To start things off I've never been in a Relationship due to the fact I've never been interested and preferred to focus on school, work and enjoying my time with my friends....

Vibrator too loud and sharing a room with a family member, what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

12 August 2016 (F) - Ok so I'm 19 and I don't have a car to go by a vibrator at a store and I share a room with a family member so its really hard for me to masterbate late at night for instance now anyways I use a mack massager but its too loud and every time I turn it ...

Should I be considering breaking up with my Gf since I suffered erectile issues with her recently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3029 days ago

12 August 2016 (M) - So I recently posted about trying not to get too excited when I'm with my new girlfriend. Well, tonight it went the complete opposite direction. We were at her place (she lives with her mom, stepdad, and three siblings) and things were goin...

I'm feeling insecure and would appreciate some insight.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

10 August 2016 (F) - Hey there, My amazing boyfriend of almost one year has me slightly confused and saddened due to an incident that occurred last night and I would love your honest opinions...last night during sex I noticed that he was losing his erection. During t...

Why did he masturbate right after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3030 days ago

10 August 2016 (F) - Hi just a quick question please.. Me and my boyfriend had sex the other day after i went to the toilet i went back in to the bedroom and my partner was masturbating baring in kind we had just had sex. What ut is all about? Any advice is greatl...

Married for 37 years and fed up with his porn addiction. How should I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

9 August 2016 (F) - Hi All I am trying to make sense of discovering my husband has been looking at the x porno site on a daily basis last year. I already know that he has a problem with porn, in so far as it has ruined our sex life, as in we do not have sex, ...

Should I even tell him? How can I, considering he's married?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

8 August 2016 (F) - I really need to talk about this. Please don't judge me. I know I'm a idiot for getting into this mess. I have been sleeping with an older married man (49). I stopped all contact with him a few weeks ago, as I missed my period. I then went to the ...

Will I ever be able to forget my first sexual experience?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3033 days ago

8 August 2016 (F) - Hi.. so basically, i cant forget about the guy that i had my first sexual experience with, and cant forget the experience itself. I'd just turned 16 and he was a little bit older. The experience itself was kind of rushed and clumsy, which doesnt ...

I feel like I'm not turning him on enough, and it's wrecking my confidence!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3034 days ago

6 August 2016 (F) - Hi ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and recently what ive noticed is that everytime before we have intercourse he gets himself hard instead of asking me to do it. He knows 100% all he has to do is say or just hint then im there but when i ...

I'm worried about getting pregnant if we have sex.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3032 days ago

6 August 2016 (F) - im a 13 year old girl and i need help!! me and my boyfriend both want to have sex but we dont know if we should. We have talked about it before but we cant decide. we have seen eah other naked before and we have fooled around naked a lot. but we d...

I want to know why he doesn't want me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

5 August 2016 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together going on 4 years, we have a little 22 month old girl, who's our everything. But for the last year we've had problems arguing over little things, his family have always been on our case from day one and ...

My best friend doesn't want to see me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3025 days ago

5 August 2016 (F) - Hello, I'm in a really weird situation. I'm a student and I live in a house with 6 other people. One of them is Joe, and I ever since I've met him I've had a crush on him. The past year we've become really close friends, he's a sweet guy but he's ...

Why am I not as hard as they are?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3036 days ago

4 August 2016 (M) - So I have a rather weird question about my penis. I am bisexual and I had a few male sexual partners before in my life. I am 16 and now I have a boyfriend and we just started getting into sexual action as of late. Most of the sexual partners I ha...

How can I last longer for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

1 August 2016 (M) - So recently, I've gotten into a relationship with the woman of my dreams. She's my best friend, we've known each other for two years, shared ups and downs, been to the ringer and back and now things are amazing. We've also gotten physical a few ...