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writes:I'm a 22 years old female and partially sexually active since i am in a LDR and i get to see my boyfriend 4 times a year, when he isn't around i still masturbate and all but whenever i use a sex toy or having an intercourse with him, i get this burning sensation within that makes the whole process intolerable and i can't continue with the intercourse for longer than 2 minutes and the pain continues several hours afterwards, i know your answers not all will be professionally based, but did anyone go through that before ? I haven't been to an ob gyn before i am planning to though, i just wanna know if someone experienced that before or is sth wrong with me ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2016): My wife was allergic to an ingredient in many lubricants.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (31 August 2016):
 See your GYN - that is a given.
Also, GO pee before sex. USE a condom EVERY time.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 August 2016):
 *heal, autocorrect...
PS, buy lubricant. It really works.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (31 August 2016):
*heal, autocorrect...
PS, buy lubricant. It really works.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (31 August 2016):
Normal. If you go for long without sex, you kind of shrink in size. I had this happen too when in a ldr. You just need more foreplay and not full intercourse the first times if its been a while since you last had sex. Then you will stretch out again pretty fast and it will be good.
You probably got a rift from the fiction. Rifts need time to hear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2016): I'm a mental health nurse so not my area as such but sounds to me you have what's called "sexual cytitis" Occasionally, cystitis can be caught from a sexual partner who has an infection but, in sexually active women, the usual cause is friction on the opening of the urethra during intercourse. So you see friction of the sex toy and then your bf penis. . Go see the doctor anyway but you can purchase some powder that you take daily to help prevent this occurring and easy it
Hope this helps ..chin up sweetie
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (31 August 2016):
 You should see an OB/ GYN.
Perhaps you could be suffering from vulvodynia ( a condition characterized by vaginal burning ) or some form of vaginitis ( any infection or inflammation of the vagina, which also causes burning ).
Btw, do you have enough foreplay before intercourse , giving yourself time to get properly aroused and lubricated ? Are you relaxed and confident when you have sex ? ... if you start when you are still dry ( maybe because you are nervous, not in the mood at all, not aroused enough....) there will be a lot of friction which in turn will cause the burning sensation.
But if your lubrication is normal- then you should go to see an OB/ GYN at once. ( Well, as a matter of fact... you should go at once anyway:) , with or without burning. Just because you have started being sexually active.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2016): Is burning your only symptom?
Could be a yeast infection, an STI, you may be sensitive down there or just irritated or allergic to condoms.
Make an appointment with your doctor and have them do a urine test and vaginal swab for starters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2016): I knew someone that happened to before. Turns out they were allergic to the laytex in the condom.It could even be the soap he uses or even his laundry soap. Yep betcha it is a allergy.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 August 2016):
 You need to see an GYN. ANY sexually active woman must be under a GYNs care.
They can determine what if anything is the problem.
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