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writes:My wife fart before I insert my penis that was for the first time after that it continues while having sex or afteer sex is she having an affair?when I tried to insert my penis her vagina fart after that it continues while after having sex or after the sex why is she sleeping with other man?
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (19 August 2016):
You seem convinced that she is sleeping with another man. Is there something missing here? From what you've written, you don't give us any reason to suspect that she is doing so.
I concur with what everyone else has said here regarding the reason for air being expelled. But if it was due to prior sex, it could just as easily come from the last time you had sex with her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 August 2016):
 Air gets trapped when you are entering in to her, so off course she must be having an affair!! Honestly I really do not know how you came to this conclusion, my guess is that you are very insecure and do not trust your wife. Poor woman!!
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 August 2016):
 Good grief!! *facepalm*
IGNORANCE is not bliss, mister... it's just IGNORANCE.
Are you that distrustful of your wife? Are you that insecure?
The REASON it sounds like she is "passing air" with her vagina is because YOU push in air into her vagina. It might be the position you two use.
He is a good explanation for the action. So read it and EDUCATE yourself.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a59062/is-it-normal-to-queef-during-sex/
It has NOTHING to do with cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2016): Sir, you're pushing air inside and it comes out. How on earth do you come to the conclusion she is cheating with such a ridiculous example of evidence. Noting it happens during and after! With YOU! I would think air would have leaked out before having sex again; if she had it beforehand?
She is cheating if slots of her time is unaccounted for. If she has secret conversations with men; or if you find solid evidence such as bruises or hickies on her neck. Friction burns from a beard, or she has reddish marks or swelling in all her intimate areas. If she refuses to have sex with you without an explanation.
Has she ever given birth to a child; or recently given birth? These "farts" as you call them; come from natural lubrication and air-pockets that form when you're going in and out very quickly. Withdrawing the shaft and plunging quickly inside. No insult towards your endowment; but if you have a short wide penile shaft, it's easy to push air inside.
Slow your strokes. Maybe they will stop, if they seem to bother you. Sometimes they happen when sweaty skin presses against sweaty skin, forming air bubbles like the pocket under your armpit when you clap your elbow.
I have to wonder if you're of a suspicious nature, or have any real evidence why you should not trust your wife? It is unfair to make such an accusation based on what you've described. More than likely you are mistreating her without real proof of this crazy assumption. Suspicion breeds contempt. Jealous or insecure men are quick to act cruelly towards women.
Are you kind and loving toward her? Would she have reason?
My dear sir, I hope this isn't the case.
Have you ever asked your doctor or her gynecologist? Don't stop here, get a professional medical opinion.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (18 August 2016):
 I understand resources may not be very available where you live, but you found this site and I think using your internet to educate yourself on sex and safe sex would be useful. Not porn, but health articles.
When something (your penis) goes into a tube (her vagina), air gets trapped and that's the sound you hear. It has *nothing* to do with how many people someone is sleeping with. She's not cheating on you just because she "queefs" (vagina "fart").
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