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writes:Hi just a quick question please.. Me and my boyfriend had sex the other day after i went to the toilet i went back in to the bedroom and my partner was masturbating baring in kind we had just had sex.What ut is all about? Any advice is greatly appreciated TIA XReply to this Question Share |
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reader, N91 +, writes (11 August 2016):
Maybe he was embarrassed that he didn't finish off and didn't want to ask you to do it for him.
I unfortunately suffer from not being able to finish 95% of the time even if I have a woman doing it for me and I'd imagine they take offence because they can't make it happen so I just usually do it myself or sometimes not at all. May not be the same for your bf but it's a thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2016): I'm not sure if it's the same for males but the reason I would do something similar is because it's soooo great you want more and don't want to shock your partner for more! Usually someone with a high sex drive :) doesn't mean anything, he was happy & wanted to re live and enjoy the moment...
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (10 August 2016):
I would guess he didn't have an orgasm, so was "finishing off" while you were in the bathroom.
If he masturbates a lot, he could have become "unfamiliar" with the sensation of penetrative sex and actually need a hand to finish (pardon the pun).
Did you not ask him what was going on?
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (10 August 2016):
MEN!!!! Yes I said it...Young fools who think a hand is a vagina...SMACK!!!
One reason...He did not have an orgasm when you had sex, so he was trying to get off...While there is a hot naked woman right there...(banging head against the wall)
Two...He had an orgasm, but wants to get hard again for round two...Hot naked woman right there...with hands, lips and a vagina...(banging head...nope)
Next time...take it away from him. Tell him it is for your use only, not his. :))
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