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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Anyone know why a guy wouldn't ejaculate through oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i just gave my boyfriend a 20 minute bj and he didn't have an orgasm [cum] he told me it felt really good but he was confused that he didn't and i gave him one before and he didn't have an orgasm that time either so me and him are confused why, ...

How do I get my sex drive back after a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I Am A New Mom And Am Having Trouble Seeing Myself As Anything But A Mother. It's Been 2yrs Since My Baby's Father And I Have Had Sex And It's Hurting Our Relationship. I Don't Know What To Do. How Do I Get My Sex Drive Back?...

How can I get my girlfriend ready for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Friends my gf is never ready for sex! please tell me what to do. How to make a girl ready for sex?? She never wants me to talk about sex and its very difficult to control... please help me out please!...

Guys! I don't know what to say in bed - he wants me to talk dirty. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I wanted to ask guys what do they like to hear a girl say in bed. My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him but I feel so shy and couldn't think of anything to say!! Help!!...

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or ...

He wants to meet up... For sex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I started seeing a guy back in January. He said that he was divorced and living alone. We talked every day and met up a few times but after I slept with him he then ditched me and said he couldn't get involved. He did try to stay in contact after ...

I've been shaving my pubic hair, and it's gotten itchy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hey. I've been shaving my pubic hair for a while now, but I always get red and itchy parts when I do. Also I can never seem to completely shave off all the hair, there is always little stubs still visable. I was wondering how to solve this problem ...

21, with a fear of intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hi there. I am desparate for advice, please help if you can. I'm a 21 year old woman and I think I have a fear of intimacy. I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I shy away from having sex with him as I feel it's a dirty ...

I'm worried I'll disappoint him in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Im in a new relationship but scared i'll disappoint him in bed. He is a bit older and has been with lots of women, whereas im not really experienced in this department. I love him so much, we talk openly about sex and he says theres no rush but the ...

It's good he wants to be more sexually adventurous, but isn't he taking this a bit too far??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, and our sex life's been good, but last week he suggested we have sex as long as the room we're in has a rancid smell to it. He said the smell of the room has to be really, really, rancid because ...

Can a woman who's gone through the menopause have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6243 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Can a woman who's gone thru menopause have an orgasim?...

Do women remember the size of their former lover's penis?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - I have been bombarded with penis enlargement emails lately. Something like 100+ a day. Hopefully I am not the only one. :) Obviously these are SPAM I know, however there are lots of products claiming to work for those less endowed. One of the ...

How can I spice up our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i would really like to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend, we have tried different positions but it always reverts back to the missionary position ( he seems to like being in control) whilst the sex is amazing, i would like it to be better for ...

Losing erection just when I have to wear the condom. Any solution?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hi ive got a bit of a problem. Whenever me and my new girlfriend go for sex I can not get it up when about to use a condom, it will not work for me. If we do it without one im perfectly fine and I easily get one up fastly. Any solution ???...

She told me he didn't do oral but after our break up she did it with another guy. Now we're in a serious relationship and bittered by this thought.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - dear cupid, i've been dealing with this female on and off for about ten or eleven years now. when we first started having sex i asked her could we have oral sex, she told me she didn't do that but after she stopped dealing with me she started ...

He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me ...

We've been going out for 3 years and just moved in together - and he never wants to have sex. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - me and my b/f have been going out for 3 yrs just moved in together but he never wants to have sex i'm 21 and hes 35 what should i do...

I want to have sex but my gf is never ready. Are there ways to make a girl ready?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - hey frnds ! i wanna know how to make a girl ready for sex??? i need to have sex but my girlfriend is never ready to do so!! i can't controle it....i need to have sex...plzzz help me out!!!!!!! thanxxxxxxxxx...

She tells me she has an std, and then blames me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Dear cupid, I have been married for a month now my wife came to me and said she had caught an std and the way she said it was like she was blaming me i have not been with any other women and she claims she hasn't been with any other men i think she'...

It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?...

We nearly kiss, then he texts me to tell me the rumours of having been intimate with a third person aren't true. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I Really Like This Guy Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me I Went To His Party The Other Day And Got Really Close, We Nearly Kissed Then I got a text sayin that he had fingered this girl, but this girl is a lyer and she lies to make herself sound good....

Daughters away for the weekend, can you give me some advice on a fun time for me and my wife please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi me and my wife have been married nearly 8 years and have a good relationship. Our daughter is going on a trip with college tonight and won't be back until tuesday night, so we have the house all to ourself and tomorrow, perfect time for lots of ...

What's the difference?, someone please explain.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - ok this is probably one of the most stupid questions you will have ever read but could you please try to answer it! What is actually the different between making love and just sex? I know it all involves the same thing but alot of people say its ...

I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

I've always been hetero, gay images are not sexually exciting for me, but I enjoyed my experience with a transsexual. How come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - i am 66, a widower, no children living at home. i been alone about 10 years. my sexual orientation has always been hetero, men never attracted me. through my work, i have become acquainted with a black transsexual, very pretty, very feminine. my ...

I'm troubled by something my girlfriend did in the past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Me and my gf have been in our relationship for almost three years... i'm aware that in almost every relationship the past comes up. The thing is, my past doesn't bug her as much as hers does me... We both had boyfriends in our pasts but she told me ...

Why do some women not enjoy giving head?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5247 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i dont understand why some women love giving head and others wouldnt dare even if you gave them thousands of opportunities to do it. whats so wrong with it? you ladies out there what do you think?...

I've only ever had one relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Very trivial, but I hate how long it's been since I last had sex. It's been.. Almost 5 months. I've only ever had one relationship, and it lasted about a year and a half. I still have a lot of feelings for my ex (and PLEASE don't just assume that...

I am committing incest with my cousin and my sister and don't know how to stop

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Im a 21 year old male(just so you know=) me and my cousin who is 24 we have always been close to each other. I always stayed at her house when we were younger and hung out alot not thinking much of it. We would even hold hands in public at times. Of ...

Is it safe to use anything else apart from a vibrator? If so what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - is it safe to anything else other than a vibrator or dildo as a self pleasuring measure - if so what? i haven't got a bf at the mo and am a really horny!! any advice would be great. anonymous...

Will it put off guys to find out I am going to wait till marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - I am a devoted Christian and I am not going to have sex until I am married and I want to wait. I know I am only young but I was wondering if it would put guy's off me, because I wouldn't have sex with them. When I am older would it affect my ...

I told everyone including my girlfriend that I've had sex - but I'm still a virgin! Any tips for the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hello. I'm 14 years old(turning 15 soon; freshman). I have already told some of my friends that I had lost my virginity already. I'm starting to think that that was a mistake. I have a girlfriend (we've been going out for about a year and a half), ...

He never makes a sound during sex. Should it bother me, or are guys just not as verbal as girls?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is not verbal at all in the bedroom. He never makes a single sound when we are having sex. He always turns his face away from me when he is coming too. Like he doesnt want me to see him (i guess thats why his fave position is doggy ...

Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?...

I'm having problems finding a partner who suits me in the bedroom because of my size!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6241 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - i know you might have heard this so many times,but this is true,i am very big downstairs,i have had a lot of problems trying to find a gal who can take me,or give me a good blow job,i do enjoy lots of foreplay and oral so i have no problem getting ...

Should my friend and I have sex the night we get drunk? We're both virgins and I've never had a bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So me and my best friend steven and i are spending the night at our older friends house this saturday night.both of our parents think we're spending the night at someone elses house.We're gonna drink,and get drunk,he's my best friend in the whole ...

Girls - can anyone give us advice on having sex for the first time together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey everyone, but mainly girls! I have two questions, but first, the background. Me and my partner want to be more sexually active, and want to have sex. We have been dating for a long time and know that we love each other very much. SO, two...

Is there a way for girls to know when a guy is climaxing from a bj w/out being told?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Is there a way for girls, performing oral sex, to know a guy is cuming without the guy saying so? ...

How can I tell my mom I'm not a virgin without freaking her out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - how do u tell your mom who is a massive freaking out person that there 15year old daughter isnt a virgin?...

She seems cold, distant and unaffectionate. Where's this come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Recently, my girlfriend started behaving really cold, distant and unaffectionate. She says I haven't done anything wrong, she just gets this way when she's about due on. I know she can "run cold" when this happens, but I've never experienced her so ...

What can I do to help her be more comfortable when fooling around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

27 September 2007 (?) - My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationship, about 2.5 hours between us, both in college, been going out for almost 6 months now. We both think sex or even just giving each other an orgasm is going too far before marriage but we still fool ...

Can you check for STD's with a simple blood test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - my girlfriend has had a past relationship and is wondering.. can you check for STI's with a simple blood test? thank you...

He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it norm...

Curious about orgasms...advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - when a woman comes so hard like 5 or 6 times and is just very sore all ove is that normal ? also is it possible for a man to come 2 times one right after the other ?? ...

My ex wants to be sex buddies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up because he didnt want a relationship, as we will be movin away to university next year. it was so hard for me, but we have kept very close. Three Months on. He told me he misses havin me around, still loves me, and st...

My boyfriend never wants to have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - hello i have been trying to find someone i can talk to and hopefully get some advice, i am 23years old been in a relationship for 6years i have 2 children aged 4 and 2, and nobady seems to believe you only have to have sex once to get pregnant ...

I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any ...

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 2796 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is ...