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writes:how do u tell your mom who is a massive freaking out person that there 15year old daughter isnt a virgin? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): I cannot believe comments I heard here!!!You absolutely have to tell your mum about this! You are still very young and she has to take responsibility to help you learn to connect to people and develop relationships!!! SEX IS NOT PERSONAL THING!!! If your partner hurts you or you have casual sex with guys and end up not being able to develop relationship afterwards you will be miserable, lonely and sad and that is a problem for everybody who loves you!!!!
You need to tell her how you felt about that and tell her who is your boyfriend if it was your boyfriend. Also have to tell your mum that you trust her and taht she has to trust you and talk to you about that instead of being shocked about ages. things simply happen much faster today.
One more thing. Imagine your daughter is hiding something important happening to her from you!!!!
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reader, lovejunkie  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 I wouldn't tell her. She doesn't need to know. Part of being an adult is knowing when to open your mouth, and when to keep it closed. Once you cross that line and start having sex, it's your business and no one else's. Only a child kisses and then brags or blabs to everyone she knows.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Personally i don't think there is any reason why you should tell her. Like you say it would freak her out, so wht she does not know will not hurt her. Keep it to yourself and avoid unwanted heartache.
Good luck x
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reader, stina +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Hello no1,
Unless you need your mom's help with getting birth control or anything along those lines, you really don't have to tell her about your sex life. Someone's sex life is supposed to be private and saying anything about it - unless you think you need help of any sort - wouldn't do anything for anyone. Just make sure you practice safe sex by using condoms and/or a form of birth control such as pills, the ring, the shot, etc.
Take care.
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reader, Midge +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Well first off, I wouldnt! Why would you want to tell your mum that? Why would you want to tell anyone that? Its private and unless there is a real reason for telling someone that, I wouldnt open a can of worms!
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reader, PlainJane +, writes (28 September 2007):
Is there a reason that you need to tell your mom you are no longer a virgin? If you are not in trouble and you are being careful then I don't see any reason why you would need to tell her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): What do you need to tell her that for?
Unless you have got yourself into a sticky situation and need help, I don't see the reason that you would tell your mom, perhaps thats just me. You are underage tho and I hope you are being careful.
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