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Anyone know why a guy wouldn't ejaculate through oral sex?

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Question - (30 September 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 December 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i just gave my boyfriend a 20 minute bj and he didn't have an orgasm [cum] he told me it felt really good but he was confused that he didn't and i gave him one before and he didn't have an orgasm that time either so me and him are confused why, anyone know an idea why he isn't?

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (23 December 2007):

Some of us just don't respond very well to oral sex. I can seldom cum from a BJ alone.

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

hlskitten agony auntHi

Dont blame yourself thats the main thing. Ive been with a few guys and half will and half wont. If they dont tell you what works for them how will you know. We're not mind readers. The guys that communicate the best were the ones it happened for. One or two it just 'happened'! The others mostly said they never have orgasmed with oral sex ever at all! So dont worry about it. Its not unusual.

C xxxxx

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (1 October 2007):

Yos agony auntThere are many possible reasons. It could perhaps be your technique but honestly thats probably not it. More likely is that he's not fully able to relax with you giving him oral, and that inability to 'let go' is preventing him orgasming.

The problem is, the longer this goes on, the more stressed he'll get about it because it will become a bigger and bigger block. I suggest you avoid it for a bit and focus on sex where his having an orgasm is not a problem. Then when you come back to it he may be more relaxed about it.

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