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writes:Hey everyone, but mainly girls!I have two questions, but first, the background. Me and my partner want to be more sexually active, and want to have sex. We have been dating for a long time and know that we love each other very much.SO, two problems arise: One, she has never masturbated, so it hurts her for me to even try to touch near there (not her clit, thats fine). The other is that we don't know what kind of postition to start with. Help?Also, if you could tell me, how can I get her to squirt?Thanks!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys. Thanks a lot for all of your feedback!
Btw, I am old enough .. 18 in a few months. Also, she is the one who is curious about squirting, but she doesn't know n e thing about it and hasn't found n e thing on advice (hence, why i am asking this)
Thanks agaiN!
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Hey,
The key is to make sure that she's relaxed. This is quite the emotional milestone, usually more so for girls. If she's a little bit emotional, don't be impatient with her, just make sure that she's still okay with doing this. Make sure you're REALLY gentle. She will probably need you to stop a few times, or many times, but like I said, remain patient. And for goodness sake, USE A CONDOM.
And yeah, how old ARE you?
xxJulesxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): How old are you? I don't really like to advise on things like this incase you are underage.
Firstly it shouldnt hurt for you to just touch her down there, reguardless of whether she has masterbated or not, if she really is that sensitive then she should speak to her doctor.
Most people would start with missionary possition - its the way its meant to be and the easiest and most comfortable to start with.
Not all women squirt and most of those that do will say that they dont like it because it makes them feel embarrassed. I dont think that you should be concentrating on that right now.
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reader, BlueEyes89  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Heya,
Firstly, sex is always abit difficult for the girl the first time..and it would be easier if she had touched herself abit before you do try and have sex, just so she know where everything is, and where you would go..etc..
Id start by just lying in bed cuddling and kissing, touch her breasts and make sure she is really relaxed and comfortable, this would make her become wet, then try just kneeling between her legs, lying over her and kissing her, then gently try to push yourself inside of her, it might take a while, but just be patient and keep kissing her body, you should eventually get it..and when you do, go slow at first..
Squirting is more difficult, you would have to make sure she was really horny, really wet, really relaxed and just finger her, with your two fingers inside of her and using a scissor motion, also, try to rube her clit with your thum, (if you can) when she feels like she is going to wet herself at the height of pleasure, it will be difficult as it it does actually feel like you are going to wet yourself, but you dont, you squirt, just keeping telling her to let go....she'll know what you mean..and then, stand back... hope that helps, if you need any advice just message me.
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reader, wens +, writes (28 September 2007):
Hi to you both,
The answer to your first question: You say you g/f clit is ok?
Whilst playing with that she should become aroused and start to lubricate. (If she is not enjoying it, feels she is not ready and tense, this will keep her dry). She has to be ready ans relaxed.
You could try some lubricating creams like KY gel. But I do think it is best to do it slowly and when the time is right.
As for your second question..I am sorry, called me old fashioned, but I would take one step at a time! This is not something that should be rushed..
good luck..
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