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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, and our sex life's been good, but last week he suggested we have sex as long as the room we're in has a rancid smell to it. He said the smell of the room has to be really, really, rancid because otherwise the sex won't be any fun.He said he and an ex-girlfriend had sex like this five years ago and it was the hottest sex they ever had. He also said he wasn't comparing me to his ex, he just wants more adventurous sex than the normal (i.e. location).I was horrified and told him that I was worried about this, and said it wasn't normal, but he said there's "no need to worry, it'll make our sex life all the better!!"Aren't there potential health risks from this suggestion of his??He keeps insisting we should do it, but I'm wary about it. Don't I have a right to be wary?? I've tried discussing my concerns but he's insistent we have sex this way - claiming it makes our sex life great!It's good he wants to be more sexually adventurous, but isn't he taking this a bit too far??Opinions and advice appreciated!!LuvJaninexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007): Lol that may be the wierdest thing I ever heard.
But seriously, if you're ok with it then go for it at least once. You never know it may actually be fun. It's the strange little kinks like that that keep a relationship exciting. The only thing I would be worried about the fact that he said sex "wouldn't be any fun otherwise", that's not normal, so have a chat with him about that.
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reader, hit-the-road,jack... +, writes (30 September 2007):
euw.
i wonder what kinda rancid smell he wants?
i dunno
if you're not tottally totally opposed to it i spose you could do it once to check it out.
but then again if you do and then he wants it like that every time...
i dunno i just dont see how anyone could get turned on by a minging smell.
hope it works out for you xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): Hi Janine. My advice would be not to do anything you're not comfortable with. If you're not comfortable in the location (which I don't see how any sanitary woman would be), then tell him that. Explain to him you want to be adventurous but in a different way. Maybe bring in some handcuffs or do it outdoors in the rain. Just some suggestions. Do whatever excites, without scaring, you. Remember, it has to be enjoyable for BOTH of you so talk with him to find something that tickles both your pickles. If he loves you, he won't want you to do anything that makes you uncomfortable or that you wouldn't enjoy. Just be honest and reasonably open! good luck xoxo
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