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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello. I'm 14 years old(turning 15 soon; freshman). I have already told some of my friends that I had lost my virginity already. I'm starting to think that that was a mistake. I have a girlfriend (we've been going out for about a year and a half), and she's a senior, 17 turning 18 soon, and it's not so much that I feel pressured to have sex. I really want to, but I just don't know what to do my first time. And that's a problem because my friends already think I've lost my virginity already; so does my girlfriend. I do want to have sex, but while being safe (using a condom, etc.), I would just like to know what to do my first time. Thank you, if anyone, ?AnOnYmOuS
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): You really need to tell her! because she's either going to think two things,
Really bad at sex
A virgin who lied to me
Tell her! it be worse off if you didn't.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): Yea, that's what I said...
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female
reader, leanne.od  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 lying always comes back which is why you shouldn't lie in the first place, but you have.
for a start your girlfriend will breaking the law by having sex with a minor and you should just be honest with her. because no matter how many tips you get, she'l be able to tell how experienced you are (or aren't, as the case may be) so you need to stop carrying the lie on and tell you're still a virgin. if you mean anything to her, she'll get over it.
good luck
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): It's illegal for your girlfrined to have sex with you, she's an adult and you're a minor. Are you sure she'd even have sex with you? All you can "do" is to tell the truth, at least to your g.f. if you are going to have sex, because if she's experienced she will be able to tell you're not experienced. There are no tips we can give you about how to perform, you can only learn that by experience and that is why it is called experience. There's no need to tell your friends that you're a virgin anyways.
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