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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

I agree to trying for a baby, then I panic and I just don't think I can handle it! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope this question is going to make sense, my heads a mess and I'm struggling to make sense of it all to put to you. But basically what it is, is that me and my partner discussed having a baby about 3-4 months ago, now we are in a ver...

What are the best options for me, if I don't want more children? I do want to get back to dating and put my life back together. What if my soul mate wanted children?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I thought about getting back into the dating scene but I might meet the guy of my dreams my soul mate but I don't want to have anymore children. I have three and I have experienced a hard time with their fathers. My oldest daughter and son share th...

Despite my boyfriend's assurances, I'm afraid he will leave me and the baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like some advice pls. I've been dating a wonderful guy for 15months whom im due to have a baby with. Hes 18 and me - 19. We began dating in our last year of secondary school.. had our ups and downs but I do feel like hes the ...

I want children and what if my almost 39 year old girlfriend can't have them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4254 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - I m a 40 years old man. I never had a chance to find someone who I wanted to share mylife with and have children with until a year ago. I had girlfriends but never anyone who I could marry. I m also an only child, as my mother had me in her lat...

Is boyfriend's behavior common for a depressed person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Okay so it's been a while since I last posted but just a quick back ground on my relationship. I've been with my bf/ fiancee for two years 3 months ( we got engaged about a year ago) we have a one yr old daughter and I'm currently 8 1/2 months ...

Dilemma--ex girlfriend pregnant wants me back but I'm dating someone else now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Well, in late nov I met this rlly cute gurl n we really hit it off and we had sex for first weekend and we had sex again a week later n she told she took birth control. And she had her period in the same week. And then she blew me off n hurt me n we ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

He should be more concerned with whether I'm pregnant than with getting drunk

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

26 March 2013 (F) - Should i leave my boyfriend?. My boyfriend told me last night that he come over today while i did a pregnancy test. He text me earlier today, asking if i was going to have the baby, and i said yes. He also said that he would come over at 1.00pm, but ...

Do I have a baby because that is what me and my fiancee want, or do I not because of what people will think and say?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I have been in a long term relationship with my fiance over three years, we have had a very happy relationship and got engages almost a year ago. like all relationships, we have had our usual arguments and obstacles (other interfering people) but ...

Pregnant by a loser, don't want an abortion and neither want to give up for adoption?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4264 days ago

25 March 2013 (F) - I am not sure what to do! This past Friday I found out that I am pregnant with my boyfriends second child. He does have a boy from another woman, so we have two children to take care of and now another. I have not told my boyfriend yet and as crazy ...

Why would my man choose to have fake Facebook pages? He gets angry with me. I'm troubled by why he does this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - My husband and I just got married last year but we had a long relationship before that. We are expecting our first child and everything seems to be great. The only thing I just can’t understand about him is that he keeps having fake Facebook acc...

Are online conception date calendars accurate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - Conception date. Are online conception date calendars accurate? I want to be sure. Can anyone help pls. I had a dating scan and a due date of 26th Sept 2013. With this info i got a conception date of somewhere between 31 Dec - 2nd Jan 2013. Would th...

I'm pregnant and just found out my boyfriend cheated. What should I do now? I'm lost and just need to talk.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4265 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - Today has been a bad day for me. I found out that my boyfriend is in jail again. I looked up his record because I was wondering why I have not heard from him in 2 days and that's how I found out. Its not like him to not talk to me for two days.Then ...

My boyfriend says if I'm tired of him I should just give up on him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

21 March 2013 (F) - Here's my story, I have a 3 year old daughter and I'm 6 months pregnant with my second child. Lately my boyfriend(the father of my children) has been having health problems, and he is having self pity. He told me that if I'm tired of him, I could ...

Is feeling unsure, after taking back a cheater, a normal response? Could he still be cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my fiance for almost 4 years. In the last year he asked me twice to marry him, after I said yes, he asked me 2 time to run off and get married in December last year and last month. However this month I found out he was cheating ...

How long do I wait? Do I reach out? Or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4268 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - Hi I have been dating this guy for 1.5 years. He has two kids from a previous marriage. We were trying and got recently pregnant. We were planning to move in together, and he even proposed. Unfortunately I miscarried at 9 weeks. We got into a small ...

I am 3 months pregnant but my boyfriend pulled that "I am scared" crap. What's the next step?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

19 March 2013 (F) - I am confused wether I am being lied to or not by the guy Ive been seeing for 6 mnths and am now 3 mnths pregnant too. When i told him i was pregnant he was happy but we had an argument after being in each others company for too long as we have both ...

Is there the slightest chance that my deployed exboyfriend with a pregnant ex will contact me or want to get back with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

18 March 2013 (F) - 4 years ago I met this guy who I really liked, sadly we lost contact and even though I use to think about him loads i accepted it wasn't meant to be. 3 months ago I had a friend request from him on Facebook, I accepted and we got chatting. I went t...

Does my girlfriend need to get a life? Or do I? Not sure I can continue to support my disabled Bf

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4232 days ago

17 March 2013 (M) - Well thanks for take the time to read this,, Ok, so I've been with this girl for over 2 years now, and I feel like I'm being held back,,, like I have to watch all opportunities pass by, I work Monday - Friday and occasional put in 2...

He cheated got a girl pregnant and I'm pregnant too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4270 days ago

16 March 2013 (F) - Hi guys need your help. We have been together or 10yrs with a 9 years old boy. He always cheat on me and apologise and i will forgive him. This time he impregnanted another girl they have a baby girl. The problem is i am couple of months pregnant ...

My boyfriend has bipolar disorder and his behavior is very disturbing and violent...and I might be pregnant with his child!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

16 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I had an argument last night. I feel bad , because he had cooked us a meal. We didnt get to eat the meal together. He has bipolar disorder, and i cant handle it when he is too hyper. He was very hyper yesterday, and had had a bit of ...

What will happen next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4273 days ago

15 March 2013 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for about two and half month now. Earlier this week we have found out she is pregnant. We have become really close and are happy with it. Two days ago we had a bad argument which resulted in me taking her home but neit...

I cheated with a friend and became pregnant. Do I stay with him or go back to my husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4272 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - I have recently separated from my marriage of 8 years due to the fact I slept with a friend and got pregnant as a result. my husband can not have children naturally so my friend is the father after a massive row and my husband kicking me out I ha...

A troubled relationship, I"m pregnant and scared. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - In this moment I'm very depressed 5 month pregnant and I don't know what can I do....I move from uk in Italy at my Italian boyfriend left everything there and come here, we try from last august for a baby and in November I felt pregnant we were ...

Ever since I lost the baby he has lost his sex drive. He will not tell me why he's feeling this way. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

12 March 2013 (F) - Hi i am going through a really bad time and need some advice me and my boyfriend decided to try for a baby i fell pregnant but miscarried at 10 weeks 2 days. Later my partner started arguing with me and wouldn't tell me how he feels. How can i supp...

What can I say when boyfriend jokes that I should get pregnant? I feel pressured by his words.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

12 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes makes jokes that I should get pregnant. Eg rub my stomach or put his ear to my stomach. Even though I'm not pregnant. He also days things like " if you got pregnant then I'll have to take this new job. I'll support you no ...

After we broke up he may have made another girl pregnant. We are back together but how do I cope if he's the father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

11 March 2013 (F) - So my ex and I broke up a few months ago and now were trying to start over. But a girl he slept with is pregnant and it's a possibility it's his. She married and has a kid with someone else but it still could be my exes. How do I deal with this ...

How can I support my wife to consider resuming sexual relations with me? My Wife will not have sex with me and it hurts :(

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4274 days ago

10 March 2013 (M) - It's like 3:30 in the morning right now, my wife is sleeping next to me and I need to get some advice and get this off my chest. Age is a good start I think, gives people an idea of what your looking at. I'm 28, I workout and I would say I'm a at...

I love him. So why accuse me of cheating? Is he cheating? He has become controlling. Gave me no sympathy when I lost our baby.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - Okay my boyfriend and I started dating last June 2012. He was in California and I was from Maryland so like a long distance relationship. I already saw him though back when were 12 years old. I took a vacation in the Philippines, and since then h...

He's younger and a playboy. He flirts with me. And disrespects me. He has a Gf. And maybe he has made another girl pregnant. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - Me and this young Guy work together and he is 21 and I am over 10 yrs older than him. I really like him but he sends me mix signals sometimes. I checked out his girlfriend who oworks at the same place we work, but different sections. Ever...

Surprise! I just found out I'm pregnant and I'm freaking out!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

7 March 2013 (F) - Well, Dear Cupid, I just found out that I'm pregnant. It's not as bad as it usually is on this website. I've done everything in order. I got married, have my degrees. I'm 26 and I guess it's about that time. My fella and I have been married for...

New baby last year. So how can I convince my husband that I need less visitors at home?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I am at the end of my tether with visitors in my house! I had a baby last year and since then I have never had any peace. I'm feeling overwhelmed by too many people always around here. I feel like my home isn't my own and I am running ...

How do I escape this tradition of naming the first born son after their father's father? I don't like the name!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4282 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) - I am pregnant, 7 months in and its a BOY! I am very happy but at the same time a little sad because my in laws want me to name my son my husbands fathers name because its a Lebanese tradition for the eldest son to take after his fathers name in his ...

Is there a way to know if you're ready for marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) - I was best friends with my boyfriend for 4 years before we started dating. We've been together for a little over a year now and I'm due with our first child in about a month. My boyfriend wants us to get married but I'm worried about being ready. I...

You'll say "leave him" but it isn't that easy! I need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4285 days ago

3 March 2013 (F) - History on my relationship. I've been with this guy for over 2 yrs now. At the beig inning of our relationship he was controlling and made me change how I dress until I put my foot down. He didnt trust me or anything and his excuse was cause his ...

Everybody knew about my boyfriend's pregnant girlfriend but me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

3 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years and I just recently found out that not only has he been cheating on me for years but the girl is now pregnant. The reason I found out was because a friend of the family told me. When I asked him ...

My crazy ex claimed she was pregnant the day after we broke up!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4283 days ago

3 March 2013 (M) - Hello, I feel like I'm falling apart and desperately need some help and advice from others to help me piece everything together in my own head. So about 2 months ago I was introduced to a girl through a mutual friend who thought we might be good...

Should I get the morning after pill? Or am I just being silly?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4284 days ago

1 March 2013 (F) - I had sex on Wednsday night, I'm almost 100% certain we used a condom but I cant be certain as we had both been drinking. My period started today but I'm still worrying about being pregnant although the chances are really slim . I'm thinking of ...