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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

When is the time to know if I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - Hi!!! I have been very thoughtful these days, llike 2 weeks ago my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he came inside me, so I have been thinking, when is it time to know if I'm pregnant, and what to do if I am?...

My ex does not allow me to get involved as much as I would like as her pregnancy is developing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hi, my ex gf is now 21weeks along and we have been on and off for the past month, most of the time we get along but other times we argue like crazy just over baby things, she knows i want to be apart of this babys life full heartedly and would do ...

I know I should wait to have a baby, but it's soo hard!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - I'm gonna be 18 soon and like a lot of other girls my age I really want a baby....I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and I know it doesn't sound like a long time but I know he's the one..we live together were together everyday and I ...

Pregnancy cramps - is this normal or should I consult a different doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - please don't tell me to ask my doctor about this because i have and she didn't give me an answer. i was wondering if any other pregnant women have had cramps and felt there abdomen harden. i know that's a sign of it contracting, but i get it once or ...

I really want to have sex but I'm afraid that I'll get pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Hey everyone... My an my boyfriend are to that level where were ready to have sex. well i really want to do this but i'm afraid i'll get pregnant an i don't have enough money for birth control. He's goin to use a condom but i don't know if that will ...

How to Know You ARE Protected

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - Throughout the time I've spent here at DearCupid, I've seen many questions regarding sex, birth control, pregnancy scares, STIs, and the like. I've spent the past week doing a lot of research, and have finally come up with some things that will ...

How can I get my colleagues to mind their own business?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Hi me and my wife both work at the same office but in different departments, my wife is senior to me and have had a one night stand with my boss and now she is pregnant with his baby. My boss has made a MMS of him and her and is circulating the same ...

For all those teenagers worried if they may be pregnant/got their girlfriend pregnant...!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - After reading many posts on this website recently from worried teens about whether or not they are pregnant, I would like to offer some advice to you all. 1. If you have had a period after the incident then it is highly unlikely you are pregnant...

I have been taking birth control, Can I still be pregnant if I still bleed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - In the past few months, since November, I've been sexually active. I'm on birth control and for the most part, I take it at 10 AM everyday. Sometimes it's 1 or 2 o'clock before I remember it, but I only have sex like one weekend out of the month. ...

Could she be pregnant even with us using a condom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - hi to all of you out there. well me and my g/f had sex on the 24th and we used a brand new condom and i came inside her with the condom on my penis. could she be pregnant even thought the condom didnt break or it didnt have any leakage. this morning ...

Could she be pregnant from dry humping

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - Ok, me and my girl friend were dry humping. When I came, the seamon went through my pants(like over the waist part thing). And it got onto her tights, and onto her panties as well. She went to the bathroom and removed the tights and underwear af...

Can you still have periods when you are pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Can you still have periods when you are pregnant????...

I don't mind if I become pregnant but my fiance is not sold on the idea

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I wonder if anyone can help me here? My fiance proposed to me at the weekend. That night, we consumated the engagement. We didn't realise, until I felt him cumming inside me, that the condom had split. He uses an ultra-thin make so it ...

Does this mean I could still be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Ok so on february 16th, my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex. On february 18th i took the morning after pill. And now today i just got my period. It is right on schedule, neither early or late. Does this mean that i still might be pregnant...

Pregnant from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Dear cupid,am afraid i might be pregnant. my bf and i usually use the withdrawal method when we have sex. a couple days ago after he ejaculated on my stomache, he wiped the sperm off myself and his self using a towel and couple minutes later we did ...

Cheated on b/f now I'm 7 months pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I cheated on my b/f back in september and now im 7 months preg. well my b/f found out about it and left me. it is killing me not bein with him or talkin to him all the time he said he might take me back if the baby is his but thats not good enough i ...

I feel as if I'm gonna puke... could I be the big P???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm 16 years old. I took birth control pills for about 6-7 months, I stopped taking them about 2 months ago because I missed a pill and me and my boyfriend thought I'd gotten pregnant. So the past couple weeks I've been having a fever and ...

I'm not sure... could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Okay I'm 13 years old and I'm very scared of something I did. I had sex twice, one time I used a condom, the other time I didn't but it was only for like... 5-10 minutes. I don't know what to do!! He said something about he can sperm in that ...

I'm 5 months along and I'm still not showing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi, I just want to know if there is anyone who is in my same situation or has been. I am 5 months pregnant and I have gained 15 pounds. the only thing that doesn't make sense is that I am not showing anything except a little pooch. How could I have ...

A negative test but positive symptoms, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - hi i stopped taking my pill a month and a half ago and started to have sex with my boyfriend nearly everyday unprotected, but i have not started my period now it been two week late. however i have taken a pregnancy test and it was negative, although...

Pregnant with his child, but suspect he's gay... I'm so confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Me and my partner are about to have our first child, although he's very manly ie:- sports, beer, sex, the usual, I've seen a few times now that he has been on gay porn for straight guys and shemales websites. It makes me feel sick but I don't wa...

Help! The condom broke and period still not here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - My fiance and I had sex about 11 days after the first day of my last period. The condom broke and it's been almost a month and I still haven't recieved my next period. I took a pregnancy test two times, the first only one line showed up and the ...

I had a miscarriage after the wedding, I'm so depressed and thinking about divorcing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I had a boyfriend for 4 years and he was amazing but i felt like i needed something new so during the summer i met someone i really enjoyed being with and i broke up with my boyfriend and started dating this other guy immediately. 2 months after ...

Will 0.5 alcohol beer affect my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I found out that non-alcoholic beer still contains some alcohol. I've been drinking that since I got pregnant (about one a night) is there a large chance that my baby has birth defects? ...

Dick size & pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - does dick size have to do with getting a girl pregnant....i went with this dude and he had a super little penis (we definatly didn't have sex) but he has a new girl now and I guess she's pregnant with his baby I'm sittin here thinkin to myself you ...

Silly to use condoms when on the pill

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Is it silly to make your partner wear a condom or pull out while on the pill? My bf and I are each others first, so I'm not worried about std's but I heard the pill is only something like 92% safe. That scares me, so I make him put on a condom or he ...

How often to go to doctors for checkup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I may be pregnant and if I am....how often should I go to the doctors for a check up on the baby....i hate doctors....what should I except on my first visit....what do they ask you....what do they do...please me spesific...

How do I tell family I'm pregnant again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - how do I tell my grandpa I'm pregnant.i live with him and iv gotten prego before and he would be really dissappointed when he finds out I am again...i don't knoe how to tell him...what should I do...

Bad stomach pain..pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - after I had sex I had really bad cramps in ma lower stomache for 2 days I might be pregnant but the cramps went away already...what was the bad cramps for...was it just part of pregnancy or what...

Pregnant from fingering......?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - Okay so me and my gf, who i love very much, were over my house one day. We were in the basement watching a movie cuddling and making out a little when she teased me down into her pants. well long story short i fingered her and thats it, she di...

Too paranoid? Or should I be concerned?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - well im on the contraceptive injection , Depo-Provera. I got the shot last thursday, first day of my period. I had unprotected sex the monday after. the injection has a 99.7% protection rate, but if i took a pregnancy test now would i be abe to ...

I think he's immature and scared, but what's really going on with him?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Where to start.... Ok, started dating this guy over 15 years ago, my first everything. Dating for years then reconnected this summer after about 4 years. He was breaking up w/ this girl and we got pregnant. Spend an amazing weekend together ...

Could I get pregnant after a late pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi,im a bit worried.Im on the pill but i went for 24hrs without taking it.could i be pregnant? i took it about 2pm saturday and then 00.20am monday.I had sex at the weekend.My period is due this friday and i have only one more pill out of my pack to ...

Is his ex lying to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiance for 3 years on and off, we've been back on for just over a month now, thats when we got engaged...I love him so much, the last time we split, was October last year. While we were apart, he got a new girlfriend, since he ...

G Spot pr Clitoris orgasm more explosive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I always thought a clitoral orgasm is more intense then a gspot orgasm ,, but a male friend said it was the gspot orgasm that is more intense . Iv heard many woman have never had an orgasm and I am fortunate to be multi orgasmic.. And I know I have ...

Please help, I'm tired of crying because I think I'm in the wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am 32 and in love with the best man ever problem is he is 43 has had a stroke and only wants to make love to me once a week. where i would be happy if we did it twice a week he wants to have a baby but we don't make love enough to even come close ...

I've had two abortions, and still want a baby... I need guidance, help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi im 15 like all girls that came on this page i want a baby too...but my situation kinda different from everyone elses on why i want a baby ... my boyfriend is 17 now he just turned 17 ...and a year ago i was a pregnant twice and got two aborti...

Pregnant, in undesirable relationship, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I had a one night stand got knocked up and moved in with him he doesnt love me or care he tells me he does but no sex no kissing has got physical I pay half bills and buy all food he gots out wiyh ex sleeps with her and others yet wants us to raise ...

Dating a 50 year old woman, she says she's pregnant, another man may be involved, yeeks, what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - i was dating a 50 yrs old lady by the way iam 45,i knew she was seeing other men but now she told me she is pregnant i dont even know what to say iam pro life its just a mess...

How should I tell my partner that I want to have kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - ive been with my partner now for over a year and im 21 and hes 22 i wanna have a child but i dont know how to tell him; he has already got a 3 year old from a previous relationship and hes a good dad but he could also have another one which is a few ...

Could I be pregnant and when should I take a test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been taking the combined pill, but there have been days where I have taken it late or missed on. I had unprotected sex with my partner and now we are worried that there could be a possibility of me being pregnant. Unfortunately it was not ...

Am I pregnant? We used protection every time!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - ok, on valentines day, my boyfriend and i had sex and used protection. we did it again the day after, again used protection. and then we did it 4 days after that, but again used protection. im not on any pills or anything and i didnt take the mor...

I think I'm sterile and have questions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I am 19 years old. I know I am young but my boyfriend and I who have been together on and off. Have sex regularly sometimes twice a day. He almost always cums inside of me. Not saying that we want a baby so young or nothings its just we know how ...

What is this bleeding from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were making out and he started fingering me, lets just say, harder than he usually does. It hurt, which of course, I expected the pain but when I went to the bathroom afterwards, I was bleeding but I ended my period 2 days before ...

We're not financially ready, but I really want a baby!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend and I got back together after a very long 2 1/2 month split. He came back, and we are now happier than before. I love this guy with all of my heart, and we are waiting patiently for the right time to get married. Something else I ...

I'm pregnant and the Dad wants me to have an abortion or give it up, what to do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Im four months pregnant by another man which was a one night stand. at the time I was not with my kids father now we are back together and he knows about it because I told him, now he wants me to have an abortion or to give up the baby after birth. ...

My friends breasts are "leaking" - does this mean she's pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Okay. So my friend (YES, my friend, I'm doing this for her because I want to know the answer as well) she's sexually active. Yesterday she told me that her breasts appeared to be "leaking" and she was afraid this meant she was pregnant. I did rese...

How far along until I can know the gender of my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - how many months pregnant do I have to be to find out what gender my baby is?...

I love the man I have been with and I made a very big mistake...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for three years now. I am 21 weeks pregnant and we are both very excited. I was wondering, we had been having unprotected sex for a while and he had been ejaculating inside me. I finally got pregnant, but why ...

My period came but it was unusually light, could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have had sex but the silly thing happened of the condom splitting. If i have came on my period the next day can i be pregnant? but also i took a pregnancy test on the 14th and one on the 17th and they were both negative. Iv came ...