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writes:I am 32 and in love with the best man ever problem is he is 43 has had a stroke and only wants to make love to me once a week. where i would be happy if we did it twice a week he wants to have a baby but we don't make love enough to even come close to thinking i might have a chance at getting pregnant plus he has low sperm count. I'm so frustrated cuz i love him and i am in love with him. he says sex isn't everything its about being in love and being together. Is he just saying that or is he one of the good guys out there that is really honest and faithful. Please help me I'm tired of crying cuz i think i'm doing something wrong!
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reader, disappointedwoman1 +, writes (23 February 2009):
If this guy is the greatest in every other way, sex once a week isn't the worst thing in the whole world. I sense there might be some other issues that you feel bad about mentioning...like maybe waning attraction post stroke. I don't know..it is just a guess. If you want a baby, artificial insemination is a great option, as is adoption...but it seems like you are really freaking out about it...and it is about more than just fertility.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): I don't think that you are doing anything wrong sexually. He has physical challenges that make love-making much more difficult than for the regular man. If he was in perfect health I am sure that that part of your relationship would be different.
You may have to resort to satisfying yourself, if you get my meaning, if the 1 a week sessions are not enough for you.
Also, have you considered artificial insemination? If you are 32 and he is 43 and you both want a baby soon it might be your best option.
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