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Pregnancy: Help and advice

After a threesome, my gf is pregnant. What do we do now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5556 days ago

31 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 25. Normally she has a very regualar menstrual cycle, the pill make her sick so we avoid sex on the days she ovulates. Her last period was period was July 1, which means she should have ovualted from June 12-15, we had ...

I'm 14 and might be pregnant! Help!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok. Im 14. And maybe pregnant. So i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We are really in love and i know he's the one. My mom and dad both know we are having sex so they put me on the pill and got condoms. So almost a month ago now me and ...

Could I be pregnant, if we had unprotected sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so if been on birth control pills for about a year now. Like two weeks ago I stop taking them because of risks and stuff. Four days later after I stoped taking the pills me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he ejaculated inside of me. ...

My boyfriend cheated on me, I cheated on him, got pregnant, how do I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and he cheated on me and i wanted to pay him back, so i cheated on him and i am pregnant and i know that the baby belong to the other guy. How do i tell my boyfriend?...

What are the best ways to last longer and get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... and we want to have kids but it doesn't feel like we r even tryin anythin we stick to the same ways that we usually do in bed and we never last for very long anymore is there somethin that we can ...

Unprotected sex, the morning after pill and what if my period starts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend tonight. where can i get the pill and if i get my period tomorrow does that mean that i am not pregnan? ...

How do I tell my dad that I'm pregnant? I don't want him to be disgusted with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Im 26 and just found out im pregnant. Its a suprise but im overjoyed. The father is a guy who I was seeing for a short while casually but im no longer with him. However I have told him and hes happy and says he will support me all the way. My next ...

How do I forgive myself and let go of the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i am 4 months pregnant and my babys daddy and i decided to take a break. not because of the baby, but because of the last 4 months we were together. 5 months ago i had family problems and all those bottled up emotions i took out on him. after i ...

Sorry that I couldn't give you your life to live

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I promised myself that if I got one wish that I'd spend it on you. I know I couldve done it, I would of struggled but I would of gotten through. It's my fault, I know: that I'll never watch you grow. It's my fault you aren't here but I promise I'll ...

I cant stop worrying that I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Ok well me and my boyfriend had sex but we use a condon EVERY time. Im a week late but im stressing like crazy, My step dad wont get my a prego test because he doesnt think iam because every time i have sex i stress out and i become late or early. ...

Am I pregnant? When should I take a test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - im so paranoid if i could be pregnant or not?..I was on depo for over a year my last shot was in dec 2009. i got my period july 19 09. i started taking bc pills that day to. then i could never take them on time so istopped and that next week ik ...

I don't know what to do if I discover I am pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I am sixteen. I think i might be pregnant but i don't think i am?! I've missed my period twice. Always tired but nothing unusual. But instead of having food cravings i don't want to eat, smell, or see food. And when im hungry i eat a little bit when ...

I want to ask him what's going on but don't want an argument!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year now and have a baby on the way but what worries me is the fact that this girl that he works with keeps messenging him on facebook and by text and the other day he swapped his car for hers and ...

Is 19 too young to want a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Well.. ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and i love him more than anything. ive recently started a new job where the majority of the girls are either just married, engagaged or pregnant so all the office talk is ...

I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure which guy is the father!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Im 26 and just found out Im pregnant. The thing is, I have slept with 2 men - one 4 weeks ago, just a day after I finished my period and someone else 2 weeks ago. Im unsure who the father is but I think it is more likely to be the guy I slept wi...

I'm 8 days late could I be pregnant? What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5551 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - After everything has happen in our relationship we are still together and strong. umm the only problem I have now is that I am 8days late and I dont know if I should wait and go to the clinic next month or what should i do? This month is almost ...

I took a pregnancy test and it was negative, but I've missed two periods! Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - hello im 20 and in a bit of a pickle i could be a mum to be im showing signs or pregnancy im feeling sick in the morning and sometimes in the afternoon, gone off certain foods, and one minute im ok then the nxt im moody and in tears for nothing at ...

Too clingy! How do I control it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i am almost 4 months pregnant, and the baby's father and i are currently broken up. we are trying really hard to work things out because we've both come from broken homes, and we feel a child deserves both parents. plus, we are still so in love. ...

What are the signs that an ex might get back with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - How do you know for sure if your ex boyf is not going to come back to you?? I have been with my guy for over a year..and well we had many breakups in the last 6-7 months..nearly 1 each of those months. I think he broke up out of fear...cos the ...

Do you think it's too soon to start trying for a baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really want a baby. My fiance and I are planning our whole future. I am graduating a year early, we're moving in together in a year and are going to the same college and working part time jobs. I figured our finances and I ...

Can you help me think of the right job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Well how shall I start. Im a 22 year old mother to be. I've graduated from high school and put a pause on college but after my baby's born I intend on going back. I live at home with my parents and I share a room with my sisters. Im a very private ...

Do you think there's a chance my baby will survive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I found out I was about two months pregnant, about 2 two weeks ago. I went to the hospital two days ago because was having a cramp on my left side for ten minutes straight and had a light to medium brown discharge. They told me that I will miscarry ...

Unprotected sex and now I'm a week late, could I be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hi i have a situation here i had unprotected sex on the 24th and on the 26th i started my periods,i was expecting start my next cycle either on the 21st or today 26th but i havent started yet could their be chances that am pregnant?please any help ...

Should I spend the money on the "morning after" pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex a few days ago using a condom, but it broke. I started my period on the 21st and we had sex on the 24th while I was still menstruating. I'm worried about pregnancy. I feel like the chances are very low I would be pregnant ...

I'm having second thoughts about trying to conceive right now because my husband is sometimes cold with me and his daughter is going to move in! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I've been married for one year now... and my husband and I have been trying to get pregnant for the last 6 months and is not happening. He has a daughter with another woman, she is 10 yrs old and is coming to live with us. She is a 'good" girl but i ...

My ex terminated our pregnancy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I was with a girl I thought was forever, but we no longer clicked I guess. We were together for a significant amount of time, and we tried to conceive. She calls me three months after we broke up, saying shes pregnant and terminating the ...

I've just had an abortion, and I'm having trouble coming to terms with it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I've decided to have an Abortion.. how will I ever get through it? I feel so hopeless. My boyfriend broke up with me. I feel so alone. I didn't want this, but I know it's the best choice for me. I am young.. and my boyfriend (well ex) is a big ...

I love him, but could it be that I'd be better off without him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and we are expecting our first child, i am now 7 months pregnant, i am 18 and he is 22, although we wasnt together long before we concieved we both knew it was love at first sight, we were made for ...

She told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks and we've never had sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

25 August 2009 (M) - I'm 18, left college, going to university in September, my girlfriend's 17. She's told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks. I told her this is just not going to happen, and I said I will leave the relationship if she attempts this. ...

I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, on...

Will my ex come back...I'm pregnant and alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I have been going out with a man now for a little over a year. We have had several breakups in the last 6 months, so very on and off but the most we were apart was 30 days. Anyway I really want things to work out with this guy. In the last breakup, ...

Are my periods just irregular or could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Right, i need help. And before anyone judges me, i know i shouldn't have done this, but i'm on her for help not to be patronised. I went to the doctors for the birth control pill and i got told i was to start it on the first day of my next perio...

I'm 15, pregnant and scared of having an abortion

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I'm fifteen years old and I am two months pregnant. I've been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend for the past nine months. My boyfriend doesn't come from a stable enviroment. Has yet to get a job, and ever since I found out I was pregna...

Could I be getting pregnancy symptoms 10 days after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - i had sex 10 days ago and since yesterday i have been feeling differant eg. i sat down to eat a sandwitch witch my stomake was rumbling for so i sat down to eat it took one mouth full and felt sick and could not eat it anymore and i keep getting ...

I don't totally trust the pill and don't want my boyfriend to wear a condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I wrote a while back with a question about the pill. Now I really do not know what to do. Basically I'm worrying a lot that the pill won't work and I will get pregnant whilst using it. I just cannot trust it no matter how hard I try. ...

Am I post natal? Not in love? Or living in the past??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

23 August 2009 (?) - I'm all out of love? please help....I have been with my boyfriend for 3 and half years.we have 2 sons aged 2 and 9 months.so as you can see I fell pregnant soon after we met.my problem is I don't know if were just not right for each other or I'm ...

Should I talk to him about bringing up our baby with me, or just settle it legally by getting him to give me child support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I have not seen my ex since I found out I was pregnant with his chid. Part of this is due to the fact that he's been out of town due to work. He's due to come back 9/12. I've spoken to him over the phone only to be insulted and told I need to abort ...

Side effects of the morning after pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - I've just taken the morning after pill prescribed by my doctor, but didn't think to ask what exactly is going to happen to by body, and I can't find it any where on the internet. I was just wondering if any one else who has taken it can tell me, ...

I want to have sex but don't want to get pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

23 August 2009 (F) - well im in love with my boyfriend verry much and he lives in texas he is comming down to see me next summer and we planed on making love but im afraid i have done it b4 but now i can get pregnant and i realy want to with him but i dont know what to ...

After two children, any ideas on how to tighten back up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - Just wondering that I have two kids now and i was wondering if anyone has any solutions how to get my vagina tighter so i feel more comfortable with having sex with my partner again? I feel that Im not fit for him anymore that I have had two ...

I don't know why I'm so sad all the time, I don't think I'm pregnant? please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - First I wanna start off by saying I'm not pregnant I'm on birth control, but this started happening maybe a month or two ago, I've been getting really really emotional over little things, it mostly involves my bf, like just now he's gone somewhere ...

I'm pregnant with his child and hes verbally abusive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - hi My husband and i was going thru tuff time, i thought that it was over, so i made the biggest mistake by cheating on him.he decide to patch thing upwith me and move on,so 8 months later i told my sitter what happen so she use that against me, i ...

My best friend might be pregnant! Her boyfriend is 21. How can I help her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - hello. I am 15 yrs old and my bestfriend is my same age she is very cool to be around, me and her have been friends for almost 5 years. and recently she started going out with a guy who is 21 which means they are 6 years apart. is that illegal? ...

Did my girlfriend plan this baby? Can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

21 August 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. Im really not sure how to put this really but my gf and i are expecting a baby in early feb, but the thing is im becoming more worried about this as when we both found out i didn't want a child as really we havent been out that lon...

Time is running out - is he being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 33 and really, really, really want a baby. My issue is my husband keeps putting this off. His excuses are always, you are still smoking (true), you are recovering from surgery (true), you are going on a holiday with girlfriends soon...

Was this a miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Near enough last year, my boyfriend and I were messing around and his penis (which was wet from pre ejaculation) touched the inside tip of my vagina for like, 2 seconds; 2 months ago in October. Before then, my periods were pretty regular arriving...

Should I claim my child or just let them alone to raise it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Im in a relationship with a woman who is 28 an im 49,we just found out she is pregnant,the catch shes married an i have been seeing her for over a year,my question,i want the baby more then anything if its mine,but i dont see much chance of us being...

She's having a baby with a man who looks almost identical to her brother - Is this weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's sister is pregnant at 17, and it's with one of his friends - drunken one night stand with a consequence. The thing I am finding weird is that the father of the baby is almsot identical to my boyfriend - her brother! Even his family...

My ex is an unreliable father to our son, should I cut him out of his life or continue to allow access?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend of 4 years is so unreliable. I have a two year old son by him, before i got pregnant we were really inlove however when i was pregnant his brother came out of jail and my ex started going out without me, not seeing me as much, not ...

What are the chances of being pregnant if he came inside of me 3 times?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - what are the chances of me being pregnant if the guy came inside me 3times? ...