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writes:First I wanna start off by saying I'm not pregnant I'm on birth control, but this started happening maybe a month or two ago, I've been getting really really emotional over little things, it mostly involves my bf, like just now he's gone somewhere because today's his 21st birthday and I was sad that he left(I'm only 18 so I couldn't "cling" along) I cried, do you think I'm just clingy because he was my first? Or that I'm just a crazy psycho? Or that I have no friends at all so I cling too him more than I should? Or it could be that I have low self esteem? I'm scared he'll find someone better and just throw me aside like I'm nothing....I'm just really confused right now. I just don't know, I've been really depressed lately because when he's not around I have no one. No girl friends nothing. I don't know if anyone could give me any advice, but if you could it's greatly appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think I'm depressed, I just don't know anymore. I cry alot, last night I cried myself to sleep, I was on medication when I was younger for depression but idk, I feel alone. Someone give me more information, some additional info on my part is...he's mean, verbally and physically and its hard for me to say because I feel stupid, I don't know what to do. He's a really nice guy but when he's mad or i done something he's just really hateful, I just am really confused about many things, about my life, what i want to be, i just don't know anymore, and don't say oh you should leave him because i tried many times i just cant hes not holding me against my will its just with him i have something without him i have nothing....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): Hey I've been in this situation before and I no it sux but guys need to have sum guy time. To be able to talk and hang out with the bros. Try not to be that clingy cuz u just might push him away. That's what I did. I had to chill out a bit and now we've been together for almost 6 yrs and we have an almost 3 year old daughter. Good luck mama !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): I believe it is because you don't have many more people than just him. Everyone needs more than one person in their life. Everyone needs a social life. I used to be this way about my boyfriend, but then I started hanging out with friends more often--he's always made times for his friends--and now both of us are happier. We don't depend on each other for happiness. We embrace our individualism and enjoy each other's company when we are together and make the best of our time when we are apart so we can share what we did. It definitely makes the relationship better, and it puts less strain on him. So find some friends. It may be the best thing to happen to your relationship. Good luck.
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