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writes:hi My husband and i was going thru tuff time, i thought that it was over, so i made the biggest mistake by cheating on him.he decide to patch thing upwith me and move on,so 8 months later i told my sitter what happen so she use that against me, i kick her out, so now my husband is having an affair with her,he said he doesn't want me he is here for the kids only, now i am pregnant with his child, he said that the baby is not his,i need to have an abortion. I did not have the abortion, he is verbally abusive call me a cante, trash, hore, bitch. I told him to leave,he is puting me thru so much stress, i am affraid that i will end up have pre eclamsia,or worse loosing the baby.I even told him to separate for 6 months to a year no answered.I tried to talk to him, ask him for forgiveness, begging him to put things behind us and start fresh, i still love him, he refuse, his only answered that he doesn't want a trash.I am in so much pain, when he is home my heart is racing so fast, i am short of breath, i feel so sick, and morning sickness doesn't make it better, i am feeling so depress now. don't know what to do, the sad part is that i still love him.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (22 August 2009):
 I'm sorry I don't have time to write a longer answer, but I wanted to give you a link to an article here that may have some good links to help you figure your way out:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/love-shouldnt-hurt-signs-of-abusive-behaviour.html
I think you are already on the path to being free of abuse, because you are here asking for help. I hope that you find yourself in a much better situation very soon.
Take care and good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2009): The most important thing you need to worry about is the baby! DON'T GET AN ABORTION! It's illegal technically, because you are actually killing a human being!
He needs to decide what he wants and if nothing works out in the next month then you need to report him! It doesn't matter how much you love him i mean if he is abussive you need to report it! You have a baby on the way and he is doing nothing but standing in the way of your future! He doesn't seem to love you anymore sorry! But he needs to get his act together!
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