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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Online dating category)

Online dating: Help and advice

Is he stringing me along?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4819 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - ok so i met this guy online in the beginning of the year he lives ina complete different state i started dating somebody else but as time went on i realized the more me and this lnog distance guy talked the more i liked him and developed feelings i ...

If this guy is serious about meeting me, is it reasonable for me to ask to meet him half-way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hi Readers, I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney over the last 2 and a half years. The contact to be honest has mainly involved pics and phone sex, a little bit of chat about life etc although to begin with he di...

Raunchy pics and dirty talk...Was he just using me? And should I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

23 July 2011 (F) - hi i am 21 years old and recently i met a 31 year old guy online. we got talking and i liked him. for a month we talked almost every day for a few hours however, we weren't able to arrange a meeting because he lived a good distance away. but we s...

Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to ...

Are they really too clingy, or am I just jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

22 July 2011 (F) - Alright, well, I've got these two friends. They have been currently dating long-distance for 6 months(Soon to be 7 months on the 25th of July). They meet each other every break of school they have. Example, Summer break, Winter break, and Spring ...

This guy is madly in love with me....but I have no idea who he is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Dear-cupid, From 2-3 days one guy is messaging me. I don't know who that guy is.When I asked him, he said that he came to my city for studies 6 months back ,he saw me and fell for me. I'm 16 years old. He is 17. He got my number from one of his ...

Am I doing too much analysis? Sometimes I think he doesn't care at all.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

20 July 2011 (F) - Hi guys.. I have been "casually sleeping" with one of my ex boyfriends for a little over a month now. We had been broken up for almost 4 years, were both 20 now. (i'm almost 21) I state it like that because we do more than just casual sex. He u...

Did he demonstrate that he will never be able to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

19 July 2011 (F) - This is a 9 month journey of now would be horrid turmoil. I met a man online through a date site. He had divorced on his profile, mine separated. He mentioned his children, I mine. He mentioned non drinking, non smoking, no drugs. I as well. ...

Does anyone have a clue of what his intentions might be?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - Hello, I am new to the site, and have a question regarding a new date I had. I met this man online, who seems to have the qualifications I want a potential mate to have. We met once last month at a restaurant. It went quite well. He gave m...

Is there any way for this relationship to maybe return from sexual interest to our original real connection?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - I met a guy on the internet a few months ago, and he and I have been talking regularly ever since. Since day one, I really feel like the two of us have had a connection. Everything clicks. But recently things have taken a turn from genuine interest ...

Why did he contact me and give me the run around if he's not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

16 July 2011 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy who I met online for about a week and a half now. He messaged me on a interracial dating site and he lives four hours from my location (which he has no problem with, he's dated women that far before). He owns his own ...

He pretended to be young, when really he is a 44 year old man! What should I do?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - hi ... i'm a girl 18 ... i met some guy on on internet on a 3D game ..he told me his name is Paul and he is 18 ... i loved him ...he shown me some pic for young boy pretending its him.. after being his gf ... in some night he told me he is Ahmed ...

Is he into me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4877 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - if a guy says he likes me what actually means? we just met via internet and chatting after couple of weeks. and he has lots of fans in his website. before he asked me whether i'm into serious relationship or not? and i said yes to him. ...

My online relationship has fallen to pieces, what now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I'm not sure where to start. I wrote on here a week or two ago asking if people thought they could fall online. I don't question my feelings, but I have had to end things with my 'online love' because his true colours have started to show. Well the...

Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...

Embarrassed about online dating

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - Recently I met a really nice guy through online dating and I'm too embarrassed to admit it to anyone. I haven't even told anyone about him. When I go out, I tell my parents (yes I still live at home at 22. Grad students don't get paid that much) ...

Should I meet him? Long distance relationship advice needed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - I have met online a guy 8 months ago. He lives in Northern Europe, me in the South (distance 2200 km). Nothing serious at first, just flirting, sharing music and photos of each other. Age difference about 20. He owns a big garden and, as I live in a ...

Need some encouragement to date again. Any help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - I have taken a dating "break" for way too long. I was dating someone for 6 mos,and he was clearly a bad match for me. I got over HIM in just a month or two, I am just completely burned out on dating! I have lost all my interest to put myself ou...

What is up with the hot and cold? is he scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 July 2011 (F) - more confused than ever! i posted here before. i met a guy online a couple months back, talked on phone, emailed, then we met about a month ago.we laughed,chatted, major eye contact! he was supposed to return in a couple days, but he didnt. over a w...

Long distance relationship? Or just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - well to start off . i am a 13 year old girl going on 14 , who has a tumblr and i met the guy im currently talking to down there . so .. we drew closer and closer . and now according to him we're *officially* "talking , talking" he is 16 going on ...

Was he doing it to really hurt himself? Do people do that? I know why most men do that and its not this reason, but instead for sexual pleasure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. As far as many things go, our life together has been great. Since I met him, I just knew he was my soul mate and things were just so perfect with him. I cannot begin to tell you how great ...

Can you fall in love with someone you've never met?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - As the title says, do you think you can fall in love with someone you've never met? Or have you?...

These Long Term Crush situations are confusing me. How can I find a girl who really cares for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - Well, i'm 14 and i've been in love with a girl for ages and this year i declared to her, but after two months (wish we were not in a relationship) she said by facebook she didn't liked me. However, in the middle of those two months, my best ...

Help! I can't find the right words! How can I maintain a lot of online contact with him successfully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts, Uncles, cousins, sisters, brother, etc. Please help! I have been in a relationship with a really sweet guy for about a month now and we'd been good friends awhile before, and we drive each other crazy and talk for hours and get on ...

Do you think he actually likes me? or am I just wasting my time with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - hi everybody i met a man a few months ago. i really like him and i told him this in a text last week. I also told him i know he is not interested in me and he doesnt want to see me, just wanted to see what he would say. He replied with, 'i do, just...

He caught me fliriting online, and now I've caught him flirting online

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

3 July 2011 (F) - So ok last week my boyfriend caught me flirting online sexually suggestive like, no i didn't send pictures, my number,or ever met up with these two people. From that day i cutoff contact with both guys, gave my boyfriend all my passwords and even ...

Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

3 July 2011 (M) - Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...

Why wont he take his profile down from an online dating site?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

1 July 2011 (F) - I just got back with my boyfriend and he is still on match.com. I know he is not active on there but his profile is posted and he is still a paying member. And women can contact him. You know last time we broke up he stayed posted on there too and ...