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writes:well to start off . i am a 13 year old girl going on 14 , who has a tumblr and i met the guy im currently talking to down there . so .. we drew closer and closer . and now according to him we're *officially* "talking , talking" he is 16 going on 17 . well heres the problem , he lives in illinois . i live in florida. anyway . yeah we NEVER met in person . we skyped a couple of times . but he also talks and flirts with lots of girls on fb too . anyway .... i'm having doubts on us . what if we never meet ? . what if he's playing me ? stuff like that .. i mean come on . we all know there's a 30% out of 100% that couples that are involved in a long distance relationship does not work out . or something happens .. well i consider him a friend too .. so .... should we keep on ? or what should i do ? /:
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 July 2011):
 Sweetie,
there is very little chance that you guys will be able to meet for a few years at least...
my suggestion is that you consider him a FRIEND only... until after you meet him.
Long distance relationships are really really hard. Even when you are a grown up with a job and money and time to get together.... LDR at your age is so very very hard....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2011):
 If am honest with you darling I think that it is a silly idea to consider a relationship with this guy. You are quite young yet so am guessing you are still at school. You are both quite young and you live quite far apart so there is no real plans to move nearer to one another any time soon. Therefore a relationship could never work.
It is OK to keep him as a friend and still talk to him, but you need to be true to yourself and see that it can never be any more than that. As you said yourself he is still flirting with other girls so my guess is that he is not taking this to serious anyway. Your better of finding a boyfriend who you can meet up with and spend quality time together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011): Well you say he flirts with other girls even though you're together so do you want to be with someone like that? And if you can't trust him then it isn't going to work. Give it a little more time and if you still feel like it isn't going to work, then break it off. You could still be friends but it would probly be really awkward.
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