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Archived questions from: June, 2014 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

Marriage problems: Help and advice

I don't want to be under his mother's control.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - Hi, I live with my husband in holland. He is from kurdistan in iraq, he is going to kurdistan because he cannot stay here any longer he wants me to go there and said we can stay there a few months and then go because I said I dont want to live ...

I was wrong, I cheated and how do I turn things around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

30 June 2014 (M) - I cheated on my wife with another woman, she's 29, and now the thrill has worn off. She moans about bills and laundry, and once in anger said "Go back to your ex-wife". Well, I'm still legally married to her, but I quit the marriage for this other ...

When ever I have sex with my husband I feel dirty!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

30 June 2014 (F) - I love my husband and I am attracted to him, but every time we have sex I feel dirty and cheap afterwards. We only have sex about once a month and it's lights out him on top. I still feel dirty and horrible afterwards. It's affecting our marriage, ...

Am I crazy to want a partner who desires me and finds me attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

29 June 2014 (F) - I have been married 16 years and have been bothered by something that may seem trivial to some people. I am aware that all people will notice other attractive people but my husband seems to have a real issue with this and I have talked to him about ...

It's seven years since my wife allowed me to touch her breasts. What might help to help her resolve her issues over this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

28 June 2014 (M) - How can I get my wife to be comfortable with me touching her breasts? Ever since our daughter was born seven years ago touching her breasts has made her uncomfortable and its distressing me. It makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong and I do...

Is this the right course for me? Disabled wife, no sex for years. Now I have a platonic female friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

27 June 2014 (M) - I am a married man with a disabled wife, and I suffer from extreme caretaker's depression because of it. Recently I ran into a divorced lady of about my age, who used to be friend of my wife's (they turned out to be very non-compatible a...

I wanted to make the marriage work but I've fallen out of love with my husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

27 June 2014 (F) - Ok so I'm a huge mess!! I'm married with 3 kids. Me and my husband have been together for 9 years, married 5. Our whole entire relationship has been hard, we started off very young. Our relationship was very strained after the first 5 years. We both ...

Does anyone have any ideas on how to fix this broken feeling that my wife has? Is there anything beyond talk therapy that might work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - My wife and I have been married for six years. We have one child (a toddler) together. About a year ago, my wife stated that she was questioning whether or not she wanted to continue our marriage. I was in absolute shock. She stated she had been ...

Married with kids but think I'm still in love with my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3800 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Fifteen years ago I met this guy at work. We were both in our mid 20’s. We dated for two years and towards the end of those two years I got pregnant. The relationship was already starting to crumble. I ended up not having the baby and hated myself ...

7 years in a sexless marriage. Is it wrong to ask my wife if I can get sex somewhere else?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

26 June 2014 (M) - I am a 53 yr male with what I would call a good sex drive and I have been in a sexless marriage now for about 7 yrs medical issues.We have been together for 23yrs I love my wife very much and we have a great relationship but I afraid this could do ...

Pregnant and my husband is out of the country I feel so lost and alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3796 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - Dear cupids. Sorry for the long message. I am breaking apart and really need some advise that can help me to cope with my current situation. I am 29 weeks pregnant and have a 5 year old daughter, my husband left the country over a month ago to a new ...

I called off the wedding. But how do I get past the guilt if I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

26 June 2014 (F) - I was until recently, engaged to be married. I called off the wedding because my fiancé yells a lot, is very stressed (life choices, poor planning, disorganization, plus regular stresses of job, kids, etc.), blames me and others for everything, ...

Who shall I choose? My long term partner? Or the married guy from work whose wife treats him badly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

23 June 2014 (F) - I've been engaged for 6 months to a man who has doted on me for the last 4 years. He literally would do absolutely anything for me. We have a wonderful life together...we always cuddle, text, call, miss each other and go travelling lots, his hous...

My husband wants me to act like a porn star and said I've ruined his life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

22 June 2014 (F) - My husband told me I was a fat disgusting pig! And he watches porn because I'm boring in bed and I have no ambition. These are things he has never said before to me ,we got into a fight and told me he needed to get things off his chest. I have ...

My husband always was an agressive man but his cancer has made him worse!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3804 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - Im so sad, very very sad, help me please. My husband is a cancer patient. Before this illness come, he is already soooo loud and so aggressive but it get more worst now that he is in this situation. My problem is, aside from being so loud and ...

My partner's lifestyle has me completely turned off

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3803 days ago

21 June 2014 (F) - I've been with an individual for over 11 years. We have one amazing son together, but I feel like our son is what/who keeps us together(now).I was never physically attracted to my partner. I fell in love with how safe I felt with him,how gentle he ...

Relationship between son and stepfather at breaking point.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3805 days ago

20 June 2014 (F) - My son, who is 16 spends most of his time playing on the computer with his friends, when he is not at school. At the moment this is way too much as he has finished his exams. To be honest, it has always been too much. He is very clever, a bit of a ...

My husband, a veteran, has extreme anger issues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3807 days ago

19 June 2014 (F) - I am well aware that no marriage is perfect. Mine is one example, but unfortunately, I think it has gone too far. My husband loves to spend money--two days ago he spent almost $900 on one single comic book just for the heck of it. There was th...

I am feeling lost in my new marriage.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3806 days ago

17 June 2014 (F) - Hi I know this will sound typical and far from what a marriage should be like. I never imagined I would feel this way and i don't want to. Me and my husband have been together on and off for about 8 years and recently married 6 months ago. E...

Double standard where his adult children are involved

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - I am looking for opinions of others I would like to know if I am wrong? My Husbands daughter invited us to her house For Father's Day weekend. She lives a few hours away. When we got there nothing was planned. She had no food in the house we were ...

Gambler lies about gambling, what else is he lying about?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

16 June 2014 (F) - My husband travels and has a gambling issue. I've already took out a 70000 second mortgage to pay off his credit cars before we were married. After we were married he continued to gamble several thousands dollars of our money. He said he was ...

My father died and my husband has been unkind on Father's Day

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - My husband has always been difficult. One moment supportive, the next very much not. Having had a dreadful year dealing with two cancers, radiotherapy and chemotherapy, to top it all my father has just died. Today has been very hard, Father's d...

My husband has 2 other children he never told me about and he won't talk to me about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3811 days ago

15 June 2014 (F) - i have been married for 9 years and we dated for 2. My husband told me that He has a son and they lived together. We got married we came to the United States after 2years we came with his son who was 8yrs when we left Africa. I had 3kids in America. ...

I really want to leave but I have no money and feel trapped in this marriage

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3810 days ago

14 June 2014 (F) - I have been with my partner for five years. We have a 3 year old son together, my partner works full time, i work part time (i don't earn very much) but my partner is the one who brings in all the money and pays most bills (i do help out too). I am ...

Does your husband ever discount what you are saying and have bad manners?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3811 days ago

13 June 2014 (F) - This is my second marriage. My husband has a bad habit of saying "Whatever" if I am trying to talk about something, even if it is minor talk. He was gone for a couple of days on business and when he got back I was telling him that I observed ...

Does she feel undervalued?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3813 days ago

12 June 2014 (M) - My wife spent many years in Africa married to a european landowner. They appeared rich and she didn't need to work, everything was carried out by domestic servants. More importantly she was the queen bee of her very large social circle. Then the ...

My wife is worried I'm going to act like our vacation is spring break

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

11 June 2014 (M) - Me, my wife and step-daughter have a trip planned to Cancun next month. I am 61, very young at heart, and my wife is 51, much more reserved than I. I am extremely concerned about this vacation due to the fact my wife seems to think that I want to ...

I was in denial when I got married but now I'm in love with a girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

11 June 2014 (F) - Hey so I'll try and keep this short. Basically when I was a teenager I always liked girls but I didn't want to be gay I guess so I kept myself to myself messed about with girls but nothing serious. And then I meet a guy one i finally thought I could ...

My wife is leaving me for another man! How best to be a good father to my son during the impending divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3815 days ago

10 June 2014 (M) - I am 32, and my wife's 29, and have a 5-year-old son. Last night she admitted to me she's leaving me for her co-worker, he's 42, and has three children, aged 12, 14 and 16, he's married but left his wife for her. I feel crushed, heartbroken, my ...

My husband's family are awful - was I wrong for striking back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3816 days ago

10 June 2014 (F) - Just need advice on this one....My husbands family treats me so bad. Everything in their life always ends up to be my fault for some reason. It stems back 10 years now of going round and round. I always have just listened to my husband. He says be ...

I need help to process this. My husband had oral sex with the daughter of his ex:

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3817 days ago

5 June 2014 (F) - I have been married for 3 years and have been having this issue his his ex girlfriend and her daughter. When we got together he was living with her and her daughter and they have been together for 16 years. They had an open relationship to a cert...

Will my wife ever get over me leaving her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3821 days ago

5 June 2014 (M) - I left my wife of 20 years about a year and a half ago. We had been arguing for most of our marriage about everything possible (money, how to bring up the children etc.) and had no common interests, and I just had enough so I found a flat and left. ...

How do I Make him stop flirting and cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - We have been married for 16yrs, with two children, our youngest is 16. From 2005 my husband has been cheating on me. In 2010 we almost got divorced but he apologised and vowed to stop and seek counselling but that didn't happen. We have been to ...

Should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles Here goes! I've been with my hub for 12 years and pretty much can stay it's been a good marriage! When we met we both had 2 children each from previous marriages and decided almost 8 years ago to have our own child togeth...

How do I deal with my husband's constant lies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3822 days ago

4 June 2014 (F) - My husband and I have been together for four years, married for two. Everything is great in our relationship about 99% of the time, but his constant little white lies are causing huge arguments and it's really starting to rip us apart. His lies ...

My wife talks in her sleep about her ex fling should I talk to her ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3824 days ago

1 June 2014 (M) - My wife and I had some relationship issues 10 years ago and separated for a couple months. In that time she had a fling with an older man who was her aunt's roommate. That fling took me a long time to mostly get over. The last couple weeks my ...

A cheater who wants out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3825 days ago

1 June 2014 (F) - i've been trying to leave nothing works what should i do.i have been in a relationship for ten years been married for five.after 2 years in my relationship i told my husband that i would like to leave because i'm not happy;he is a scorpio by the ...