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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Long distance category)

Long distance: Help and advice

Help! My boyfriend of three and half years is moving interstate for work and I don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6170 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - help!!! my boyfriend of three and half years is moving interstate for work and i dont know wat to do. He is my very best friend in the whole world and i just dont know how i will survive without him. I dont know whether or not i should go with him. ...

After a four year long distance relationship..he dumped me the 2nd time we actually met up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6170 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a relation for four years. It was long distance relationship. He used to call me more than once a day. The second day we met, he said he can't continue on this relationship anymore. and he hated himself. This hurts me a lot. how can ...

What can I do to get my bf to come here to live?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - Hi, im gay, soon to be 17...and am in like my fourth proper serious relationship. Ive been with him since July - and hes definately the best. Just so perfect, 21, sexy, i wont go into cos it might put some people off answerin but yeah he makes me ...

He moved away and has a new girlfriend - will he really dump her for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I used to date this guy before he moved away. I see him when he comes to visit and i really like him. The problem is he has a girlfriend where he lives now but he says he loves me and will dump her for me. I'm not sure whether to trust him or not as ...

I know I should move on from my long-distance ex but just feel I can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6170 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - How to i get over my ex? We split a month ago after going out for 4 months, it was long distance but we fell in love but he broke it off as the distance was gettin to much and he couldnt keep affording to come up as i'm only 16 and not allowed ...

How do I choose between my boyfriend and staying with my parents who need my help and support?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - hello, I love both of my parents, and I hate to see my mom work so hard for so little money. I want to help her by opening up a busisness; but I am currently on a long distance relationshp and I am kind of stuck in the middle. I want to help my ...

My long distance boyfriend is living like a single in a constant party when I'm not around. I feel it hard totrust him, am I too controlling or what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I am currently on a long distance relationship and what is upsetting me right now is that my bf is like living the single life when I am not around. He goes out with friend to bars to drink and have fun. I do not mind that he goes out but, there ...

I've met a guy online. Should I meet him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have meet someone online. We are planning to meet but I am not sure what the best way to do this is. We live about 20 miles from one another. Does anyone have any advise on the best way to go about meeting? It would be wonderful to hear your ...

I'm middle aged, met the girl of my dreams in Spain, she broke up as I was moving too fast. Will the present I sent her make her reanalyse the situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - im a middle aged man,in june i went to spain and met the girl of my dreams,i traveled to spain 4 times to see her she came to london,i though everything was great,unfortunately i got carried away and went to fast,resulting in getting dumped for ...

How can I prevent her leaving and going hundreds of miles away to school?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - im i4 year's old, i have the greatest girlfriend a guy could ask for.she is very atractive she has a good personality. and she is very ahppy about our reltionship. I also feel very strong about it. we have been going out for a few month's, and we ...

I'm experimenting with my sexuality and my bf was first ok with me dating other men as well, but now he has changed his mind! Is it wrong of him to change the rules halfway through, or am I just being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I'm bisexual and recently entered into a long distance relationship with a guy on the proviso that i be allowed to experiment with other guys because i have no sexual experience and am still in the middle of discovering who i am. At first he ag...

Is she ready to make such a commitment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - Questions I have Im in a serious relationship I love my gf to bits. But I see problems before there coming and she cant seam to see them . My trouble is that her sis lives next door and her mum live 30 seconds away. I think its nice in a way...

She's so nice but she bores me and there is no 'spark'.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6146 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Currently, I am with a girl who has many nice qualities about her. She is nice, supportive and affectionate, I find her quite physically attractive, and she never gets jealous or nasty- she has nothing "bad" about her at all. Ive been with her 7 ...

Should I give up my house to be with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - I'm in a semi-long distance relationship(80 miles), we've been together for almost 2 years. I'm torn from a couple issues. We met on a dating site, she was married and that was in her profile. We began chatting and finally did a meet, in fact a ...

Shall I wait or move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - My long distance bf and i broke-up, we lived 300 miles apart. He is 20 and i'm 16 and we had been together 4 months. We were on a pause/break but now we have been fighting alot and it has been causing us to drift apart, it got so bad that he said ...

Am I right to question his integrity??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I am seeing a guy who I go to university with. He is home for the holidays (Diff. Province entirely). We have been using web cam to stay in touch. I was taken by surprise when I saw that he was 'shaven'. My question pertains to why might he shave ...

My boyfriend watches porn and visits gentleman clubs. I don't know what to think about all this, and what are the gentlemen really doing in their clubs??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Questions, specially from all the guys out there. Do all men have to watch porn? Is it OK for a guy, who is in a relationship, to go to gentleman clubs. The thing is that I've been having problem with understanding why my bf watches porn or go to ...

I needed time to figure out my future (studies especially), so he moved in with a new gf but wants me to wait for him and not date others meanwhile. Do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6157 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I was with my bf for almost two years in a long distance relationship....I needed some time to myself to try and sort things out in my life and plan a future and go off to uni...anyhow when i discussed it with my bo he was hurt, but understood..or ...

My long distance bf is lately ignoring me on account of misunderstandings. I don't want to lose him, so how do I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6179 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - i had a long distance boyfriend and we're really in love with each other but lately we had misunderstandings. he started not talking to me for a week and i feel so bad about it. i keep sending emails but he dont answer me back. i dont know what to ...

Should I proceed with my potential long distance guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - Greetings Dear Cupid! I have a very nice person aproaching me on yahoo personals, we live far apart. He's in New Mexico and I am in Wisconsin. I do like all about him...sure I proceed with it? What is he looking to get from me? just a client fo...

Is there a graceful way out? I cant deal with a long distance relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - I started a relationship about a year ago. We got along great and I thought there could be a future. But he took a temporary job out of state and has been gone for over 6 months now and will be even longer, maybe a year before we meet in person ...

She thinks we are soulmates, but refuses a relationship. I've been in long distances before and it worked like a dream. Any ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - this is a hard one. I'm very close friends with someone that i fancy like crazy, she knows it. I fell for her, couldnt help it. She wanted just friends. So i explained that every time i talk to her on the phone, she lives in glasgow me in stoke on ...

I have just moved in together with my long distance partner, and paradoxically we're still distant. How do I bridge this distance? Does he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

19 December 2007 (F) - I met a man and we had a long distance relationship for over five years while we settled our divorces and children's issues. We have just now both relocated to a new state and moved in together. He is adjusting to his new job and I have been setting ...

Now she's dating another boy but I suspect she still loves me and only broke up due to insecurities generated by our long distance situation. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

19 December 2007 (M) - My girl friend and I dated for two years, It was a long distance relationship, but we really had a strong bond and did everything to make it work. One day she told she wasn't really feeling our relationship anymore and i think it was just because ...

I feel vulnerable discovering that my bf has been in bars chatting up women behind my back. He says he hasn't cheated though. I don't know what to think.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend emigrated 4 months ago and I am trying to get things organised to be with him which is proving really difficult both financially and legally. We recently met up for a weeks holiday half-way to save on flight costs and time and afte...

His "best offer" was that we be together after his 5 yr degree had finished. I couldn't agree. Now I feel I wanted too much and instead lost everything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Dear agony aunts out there, I would be grateful for some words of wisdom. Here is the story: I met this lovely Canadian boy while we were both at uni in the UK. We fell in love and dated but after a year he returned to Canada to undertake anot...

Is my online guy worth fighting for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6183 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - i met this really nice man online we hit if off straight away and met not long after since we have seen each other every weekend and rang and text each oher every day without fail he seemed so keen we even went way for the weekend he met all my ...

How can I avoid choking on it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - Godness, the only reason why I dare posting this is because this is anonymous. I'm in a long distance relantionship with my beloved boyfriend and I love him lots. We both got tested and are noh healthy and I'm on the pill. We have a very expl...

My fiancee snooping in my emails, can I trust her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

15 December 2007 (M) - I am a little unsure what to do about my fiancée who reads my emails. She first did it while I was in Iraq for one year. She read an email from an ex-girlfriend of 6 years before, which I always had some contact to. In the email, we discussed her ...

I want to secretly visit my LD bf - who lives abroad - without telling my mother. Good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6185 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - they say people will do ANYTHING for the love. so okay i got to know this guy who lives in another country. and we're currently on a long distance relationship. i love him so much i swear and i guess he loves me back the same. and recently i have t...

I don't want him to meet my family - should I break it off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 1 and a half years. We are in love but recently he moved to another country for work but then told me that he wants to meet my family and wants to make things work. I know I love him but the thought of taking him ...

Should I accept that he receives sexual pictures from other men??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - hi, i have a bit of a problem. Me and my partner are in a long distance relationship. We have been together for 18 months and 6 months ago i moved to a different country to work. We love each other more than anything, we see each other about twic...

My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...

I do see a future with this girl but feel like having a gf is holding me back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

12 December 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3.5 years now. We began dating in my Sr year of high school; she is a year younger than me. We now attend different colleges that are about 6 hours apart driving so we do not get to see each other too often. ...

Should I try to work this out and trust him or not??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - Well heres the deal, me and my long distance bf are on a break, was his idea. He says he still loves me and i still love him but on his profile on bebo he is talkin to all these girls and askin for msn addys and meetin up with an old ex and ignorin ...

I don't think he trusts me anymore after he broke off our LDR.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6187 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over a year and as things may seem great to others. I'm not happy. We only chat on a chat site cos he lives about 2000 km away but he comes to visit me every holiday. He is really sweet but when we apart...

My boyfriend is going in the navy and I need help and advice on how to get through this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6112 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is going in the navy in february, and i am so upset, i keep crying and then getting angry. When we first got together he said he was going to find another job so he could be with me. now a year has passed and he's going in. i really ...

My Long Distance relationship broke up recently. I love him, but now he has somebody else! I want him back. Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6188 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - My ex and I recently broke up... I just found out that he has another girlfriend. It hurts me because i really love him. I'd do anything to be with him again. Prolem is he lives 700kms away from me. Him and his gf recently went further than ki...

3 yrs of dating, and suddenly he hangs up the phone on me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - I've been dating this guy for almost 3 years, but here's the problem. He went to his country which is Haiti, we talked a couple of times over the phone, but all of a sudden after Thanksgiving I have never been able to speak with him again. When I ...

I don't want anything heavy. What's the advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6189 days ago

11 December 2007 (M) - Hey met a girl off the internet twice now she lives a while away but i love her and she loves me genuinely just when i get train home from meeting her it hurts real bad and i miss her like crazy the thing is i wana go travelling in couple of years ...

I feel he's on the other side of the computer laughing at me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - I am 13 years old 14 in June. I've met this guy who lives like five states away online. He's 18 and I told him I was 14. But that's not really the issue because in my heart I know we'll never meet. He's so great I almost get confused sometimes. He ...

I've just realized I'm bisexual, and there's a long distance guy who wants me to be his boyfriend. But will that be too hard?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

10 December 2007 (M) - i just recently realised that i'm bi and me (16) and this guy in another state(14) REALLY like each other and he wants me to be his boyfriend. I really don't know what to do because i've never done the whole long distance thing or the whole boyfrien...

Will he realise he's losing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - Hi... I have been in a long distance relationship for 2years and I love my guy so much that I would love to have a future with him. After 2 years I asked him if there was a future but he said we need to know each other more. How can he possibly ...

I look after my parents and can't move to my bf..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6188 days ago

8 December 2007 (F) - Hello I am 38 years old and still live with my parents as i cant afford anything else, and as i am an only child and with no family close by i am my parents carer. The problem is that i have met somebody who lives a round trip of 100 miles away, ...

My ex seems to expect me to simply be her friend after all the hurt she's caused me... But her Father died today. Now I have the chance to be a friend, but I'm worried that I may hurt myself. What can I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6173 days ago

8 December 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I posted a question earlier today, but there has been a serious and tragic twist since this morning. My girlfriend broke up with me almost 6 months ago after she decided our long distance (240 miles) relationship was too much to bear...

I've asked her a thousand times if she has cheated on me and she denies it, however I still have suspicions. Any way to monitor her online and other activities?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

8 December 2007 (M) - I met my girlfriend online. She lives about 3 states away from me. I suspect that she is cheating on me. We onl get to talk by emails, chat rooms, etc. and she isnt comfortable about her giving me her number. Whenever she does get on, its already ...

My long distance boyfriend broke up with me, but says he still loves me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6193 days ago

6 December 2007 (F) - My long distance bf broke up with me. He said that he was getting too down and upset because he couldnt see me and that cause my mum wasnt letting me go down for another 2 years said it was going to be too hard as he wouldn't be able to see me every ...

Is the army tearing apart my long distance relationship, or has my boyfriend changed his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6190 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - I've been in a LDR few years now. I posted my question a couple of days ago, I got 1 answer which was very good but I would appreciate more answers. I am sad, I feel left behind and I can't think straight, My boyfriend and I live in two differen...

She wants me to leave University and emigrate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6130 days ago

5 December 2007 (M) - I am 23 years old, and i have a girlfriend in 24. She's not from the same country as me, but we met here in Spain and we had a big connection and a big Love. Since this year, in September, i started to study in University, after one year living w...

I can't go and see my long distance boyfriend and now I am not sure he will wait.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

3 December 2007 (F) - I posted a question before about my long distance relationship. I'm 16 and he's 20 and been together 4 months problem is i'm not allowed down till i'm older and he said he was fine with this but now he says it might split us apart which both of ...