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*ikandme
writes:im i4 year's old, i have the greatest girlfriend a guy could ask for.she is very atractive she has a good personality. and she is very ahppy about our reltionship. I also feel very strong about it.we have been going out for a few month's, and we have fallen in love with echother. this is a fact. denieing it will do nothing.but my problem is, is that she may have to go to high school hundred's of miles away from me and she would have to move there. for 4 year's. i love her to much for this to happen. just thinking about it makes me sick. let alone actuly talking to her about it. im am deeeply in love with her, word's cant say how much she mean's to me. if she get's sad i am sad. and when she get's rilly happy (not that oftin) im am so happy i get emotional and start to tear up. she mean's every thing in the world to me. i would put my self between her and death enyday. i know im only 14 and i have a lot of life ahead of me. but this is in fact how i feel about her.so help me, what should i do to try to prevent her from having to go to school somwhere els for 4 year's. hundred's of miles away. i wont be able to handle it.i can hardlt handle not seeing her for a few day's. i know that she does not want to be taken away from here. she loves it here. but she missis her brother's a lot. thay are her world. she literaly had to rais her yungest one. and she lives hundred's of miles away from them(long story). but i know other then that she does not want to leave where she lives now.but i just dont know what to do,......i just wont be able to make it with out her. i love her to much. should i talk to her mother about letting her stay? what should i do please help im desprate.thank you for you'r time.enything will help but i rilly want a salution.thank's,nikandme, Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): Your Only 14! you might love her ut it miht not be forever! this is just young love at the moment! you cant see the future soo take it day by day.. maybe she doesnt have a choice in moving?! how old is she? if shes your age then she will definatly find it very hard to stay around.. her parents will play a big part in her move. alos kid your young and school should be your focus.. i know it sounds stupid and schools last fing on your mind but i droped out of school cause of a lad at 14 and trust me i regret it big time! i know you havnt mentioned anything about school but sometimes school gets on top and when your minds on everything but school then u start to think schools a drag and quit it! Trust Me Take It Day By Day .. Like That Song Says .. We Have Trains Cars And Aeroplanes.. aslong as shes breathing theres no way that you wont find ways of seeing her
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reader, devonique +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Hay baby
I love you so so so much! and after reading this i'm goin to try as hard as i can to stay, but if you hurt me then there will be No reason to stay. me leaving is still 'bout a year away so keep ur head we will work it out.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
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reader, hello1  +, writes (27 December 2007):
 Your both very young, I'm afraid to say there's nothing you can do. You could still visit her but you got to let her go. If its meant too be, your meet up again when your both adults
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