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writes: they say people will do ANYTHING for the love.so okay i got to know this guy who lives in another country. and we're currently on a long distance relationship. i love him so much i swear and i guess he loves me back the same. and recently i have this crazy idea to travel to his country alone to visit him and spend time with him for a few days before my vacation is over. BUT my mum is that over protective kind and she NEVER allows me to go overseas alone, more over visit a guy. so i had this even crazier idea to go ahead with my visiting plan, without telling her! which means i have to lie to her. but omg i really wanna see my boyfriend and be with him before i cant see him again for like another year or so! should i just go ahead with my crazy idea or should i not take the risk and wait?HELP meeee.thanks loads.
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reader, R.Wren  +, writes (16 December 2007):
 i wud understand ur mothers worry, my mother is the over protective kind as well. it all depends on if u had a daughter wud u like her to go to a country u dont kno or been to, meet a guy of the internet u dont kno, isnt there a friend and ur mates bf/gf u can take with u? im sure that wud lesson ur mothers worry so u wud be able to tell her. but hope all goes well for you m'girl.
Goodluck.
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reader, Oblivia  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 Hi,
I think you should go and see him. How far away from each others are you? Don't do it without telling your mother though, you need people at home knowing where you are and who will be able to help you if it turns out not to be as you had expected it. Tell your mother how important this is to you, that you have decided to go, but that you need her support and maybe help in this.
I did the same thing when 19. I went to see a guy, also 19, that I had met at home and fallen in love with. We found out we weren't so perfect for each others but if I hadn't gone I would have been wondering about this for a very long time, also it was a good experience to have done. My mother was of course very worried, not very happy at all, but it felt really good that she knew exactly where I was and she also gave me some "emergency-money" in case I had needed to change tickets to go home earlier or take into a hotel. You need to make sure you will be safe only, then go for it!
Good luck!!
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reader, fergie +, writes (15 December 2007):
fergie is verified as being by the original poster of the question19 this year.
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (15 December 2007):
 How old are you sweetie?
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