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Health: Help and advice

I'm living with Hydrocephalus and my parents aren't allowing me to make my own decisions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hello, I am a student who is looking to transfer from community college to WSU Vancouver next year but my parents won't let me move. The reason why is because I have a hydrocephalus VP shunt and they believe the school is too far from home when it ...

Wife and I don't talk anymore ,house is silent. Any ideas on how to break this behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - I need an advice on how to turn thigs back to where there were with my wife. We ve been married for more than 20 years. Our only child went to college across the country and stayed there to live. So, it's just 2 of us in a house. I have to admi...

What am I doing wrong? I am homeless, pregnant and I think the other women in the shelter do not like me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Am a new immigrant. Came to live in the u.s with my sister 3 months ago but she kicked me out onto the street after facing the realities of a pregnant woman..i.e throwing up and bring generally slow and demotivated. She knew I was pregnant bef...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless t...

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though sh...

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he ...

My boyfriend is tiring me out by following a routine that does not suit a young mother. What can I do to get him to realise this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone my problem is my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 3 year we have a 5 month old son together. He goes to work, finishes at 4 comes to mine at 6 for tea, goes home, and comes back when our son is asleep. By then I'm tired and go...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3467 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

Is our relationship over? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I have been married for 15 years and with my hubby for 20years but he just doesn't do anything in our relationship anymore. we don't have sex unless it is a quick handjob (sorry for been rude) he doesn't take me anywhere he doesn't spend time wit...

I feel vulnerable, does that make me selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - OK, I've been in a relationship for 6 months with my other half. I know it's not long but I do really care about him. Everything seems OK when we are together but I'm beginning to have cold feet. He is so blunt in his messages to me ( which he...

I'm considering plastic surgery as I hate my jaw - advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I'm in my early twenties. I'm not bad looking otherwise and do get attention but I have a huge jaw and chin (think Olivia Wilde but my chin is really wide too) I am not fat its just genetics. It means smiling with my mouth open looks horrible (I have...

It makes me sick that I keep visiting prostitutes but I can't stop. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

28 May 2015 (M) - i:am lonely an can"t stop picking up prostitues. it makes me sick and I don't no what to do.please,please help me...

I just want my own identity. What needs to change in our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been having so many problems lately. Financially, sexually, and emotionally and I really don't know what to do. We've have 3 kids and I'm a stay at home mom. Whenever I'm upset, I like to vent to him so I don't explode ...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3471 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

He has disappeared with only a note 'I love you and want to be with you'

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - Dear aunts and uncles, Please help, I'm going through a really tough time. My boyfriend and I have been together only four months or so, and it has been a bit of a roller coaster. It's the first time both of us have opened ourselves up to ...

Should I take time off to be with my mother, before she passes, or take time off after to help my family adjust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I'm in a state of confliction currently. My mom is currently on her final days. It sucks, and my head is all over the place. I'm struggling to come to terms with myself and how I am reacting to all of this. I know it sucks. I hate this. It's not ...

How do I be there for my girlfriend when she doesn't like to lean on others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - Thanks for those who are reading this. I just need some advice in a difficult situation. My girlfriend of 6 months had her cousin die in heart surgery a week ago and now her grandmother is paralyzed from the waist down which just happened two days...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3473 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

How do I keep my friend safe? why was I agressive?...and why didn't he stop me,or get upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3474 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Hi I’m a bit worried, I had just gotten yelled at rather bad by my family I went to be all snuggly with a good friend and yea was crying and quite a bit upset...and I did this terrible thing. Like I hardly knew but I asked if I could be not nice ...

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and bein...

My Bf is depressed. How can I help him and help our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is depressed. We have had an amazing relationship, no arguments and lots of fun. We have been together for 7 months but on month 3 we switched into a long distance relationship and it was really good until April when he started ...

Is she trying to test me? How do I respond? My online Gf sent me two pictures of herself. She wants comment, but one picture is very unflattering.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

23 May 2015 (M) - I asked my gf to send me her new pictures (of herself). I met her online. The problem is she send me two pictures. One is good and the other one is looking bad. She asked me that how those pictures look, to me. I'm really scared to say that "t...

I have gained weight and my health obsessive MIL is coming for a visit!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3472 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - My mother-in-law, let’s call her Mildred, is coming for a visit. My husband and she simply do not get along, sad fact. But, right now I need your advice on how to survive her obsession with physical beauty/looks/exercise/food, having in mind that I ...

Is it true that you might not deliver a healthy baby after age 35?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3475 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. Ive got this problem thats get on the way of my life when i think of it. Ive lost my boyfriend 2 years ago from suicide so since then i haven't had anyone in my life. Im so in need of love as im scared i might end up alone or without ...

I want to shut my brother out of my life but my family will not give up on him? How do I still shut him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3476 days ago

22 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am not after romantic relationship advice, but family relationships. I have a brother. I will start from the beginning so you can advise knowing absolutely everything there is to know. He went to the army when he was 17 and was ...

Shall I encourage him to communicate, give him space or abandon trying? What is the best way to encourage a male introvert to communicate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3477 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - Hello! This is kind of awkward, but I've got nothing to lose. Please forgive me because of my English, it is not my mother tongue. I've liked an introvert guy in my class for a long time now. I(21/f) have a feeling that he(22/m) is also interes...

I need a list of tips for dealing with retroactive jealousy (RJ). What can you suggest?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3460 days ago

21 May 2015 (M) - I've been suffering with RJ for almost 5 months. My partner and I are so close, so in sync that we do literally feel made for each other. Our pasts aren't nearly as extensive as most, and we're *almost* even. Still, being so close has given...

My husband has been very ill and now has depression. But his anger is affecting me. How am I supposed to put up with all his changed behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3477 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - 6 months ago my husband has emergency surgery. He had been suffering with ulcerative colitis and it had gotten so bad it was life threatening. He had a horrendous recovery and now has a ileostomy at 26 and a surgical hernia. He suffers badly wi...

In a very new relationship. How can I make it up to him? Could I have handled the situation differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3292 days ago

21 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a very new relationship (7 weeks) and recently my boyfriend told me that his family had invited us both to a family BBQ they are having for the bank holiday. Now I'm carer and my job is very important to me. Last year I worked my birthday, a ...

Feeling stressed by people's negative outlooks re job market. I'm majoring in Dental Hygiene. But I am hearing that the job market is experiencing no jobs in this field. what else could I study allied to dental where jobs may be easier to find?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

20 May 2015 (F) - Hello- I am currently in college majoring in Dental Hygiene. I have been stressed out due to negative feed back people have been telling me. I have considered ultra sound tech, and surgical tech as well and just not sure which path to choose. ...

How to tell guy I'm seeing that he has bad body odor and a messy room?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I've been seeing this guy I really like for about a month now. I dropped the other people I dated just to focus on our relationship (that's how much I like him). So far, so good. He's nice, cute and has an amazing personality. Here's the catch: I ...

Should I be feeling guilty? She got offended because I WANTED to use a condom

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3478 days ago

19 May 2015 (?) - I really am losing faith in humanity. Here goes: I’m 26, and a mature(ish) student at University. I recently got with a girl who I’d had my eye on for some time. We’d been hanging about in the same group of friends for several months and would fl...

Should we carry on or just walk on different paths? We still have feelings for each other, but is that really enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3469 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Thanks for taking the time to read this - whoever you are. I've been with my husband for 3 years. We come from different continents, but met while I was traveling in his country. We traveled together and it was fun at the beginning ...

Is our relationship really over? Is it selfish of me to want more from our relationshhip?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3479 days ago

19 May 2015 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years since I was 16; we met in college and now he is university and I work full time. The past year we have both had our problems with families, mine has been awful and he is the light in all of it and what mak...

Wife refuses intimacy, except for procreation. Threatens to deny access to children. I can't put up with her behaviour. What can I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

19 May 2015 (M) - It started almost the first month we were married, there was no intimacy. After years of no intimacy and no physical contact in our relationship, I was very resentful. The only time we had intimacy or physical contact was when she wanted children...

Is this normal I love her so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

18 May 2015 (M) - I hope I can get some help here because I am getting concern about my feeling towards my fiance. I'm 38 years old and she is 37. She was my classmate back in uni. I was in love with her and she even didn't know that. When I got the ball to tell her ...

Should I tell my good friend that I'm worried about her? Drinking and drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - She’s 40 and I’m two years her junior. We’ve been friends since I was born. We even lived together for 3 years (I let her stay with me because she had nowhere to go) and we get along well. However… as we grew up our lives changed. I got married an...

Why is the UK obsessed with drinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

18 May 2015 (M) - Having lived here in London for my whole life, I went through the usual British routine of going to the pub and getting wasted every weekend right through my teens and twenties, but since I turned 30 I've found no enjoyment in getting drunk anymore ...

I've seen him checking me out and get teased about it. Can you date your child's specialist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3480 days ago

18 May 2015 (F) - I have a special needs child, so I see a lot of specialists. Over the years I have learned a great deal about my daughters health. I have met a Dr that has caught my attention. My daughter has seen him for a couple years now. I don't date; men seem ...

I lost my grandfather and my boyfriend in the same week and 5 months later I'm still not coping well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3480 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Having a hard time, not sure where to begin. I lost my Grandad whom was very close to us and split up with my boyfriend the same week as his funeral. Everyone around me is sad and my Nan isn't coping well but is refusing help, to leave the house et...

I'm very self concious of my sagging breasts

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - I'm a 22 year old with saggy breasts, as hard as that is to admit. My breasts are just naturally that way...it's in my genes I suppose. They've always been that way. Plus weight loss didn't help either. I've always been very self consciou...

I've lost interest in sex after the birth of our first child. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Hey, i need to know if it's normal to lose all interest in sex when you have a baby, as it's becoming an issue btwn me and my fiancee. We've been together 2yrs, very happy, engaged and live together. Usually sex was fun, satisfying spontane...

Always young and physically perfect: Why do the porn mags and sites predominately use these type of women?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

17 May 2015 (F) - Lots of questions from women worried that they don't meet mens beauty standards and the usual answers say something along the lines of men are forgiving of flaws, women are their own worst enemies etc But when one looks at the images men consume ...

I can't remember the last time I was in the mood!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3481 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - Dear cupids, This is more sex advice- I hope you don't mind! I am 19 and at uni. I feel I have the opposite problem to most people- I have no a sex drive whatsoever! Forgive the crudeness but I used to get turned on randomly all the time, ...

How do I dig myself out of the depressed hole I am in?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - How do I get over my self consciousness of my body . I'm nkt overweight but after having children things are not the same . There are sags and scars . I look around at the mens mags and online stuff that exes have enjoyed and see that I'm about as ...

How can I ever get over my weight issues? It makes me feel so insecure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - I am really self conscious about how my body looks. I was extremely overweight (I was 14 st 6lb on a 5 ft tall frame) I have been losing weight for about three years I got down to 11st 2lb last year but sadly I let things slip and shot up to 12 st ...

Are stretch marks a turn off for men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

16 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, are stretch marks a turn off to men? I'm a woman who is very tall at 6 foot 1. I went through a huge growth spurt in my mid teens which gave me a huge set of stretch marks on the middle of my back. I mean there's a lot of them. The...

Dating, yet I often feel lonely. How do I rid myself of this feeling? Or will it always be with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

15 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly three years opened a business at the start of the year and it's going really well.. I'm so proud of him. My selfish problem is that I feel quite lonely these days. He's working 6am to 9.30pm Monday to Friday and until 4p...