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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I( want a baby but my boyfriend wants to wait

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hey,im 17 iv been with my boyfriend for a year now and we live together and everything, its going great ...but for years iv wanted a baby..but dont no if i should try for one ..i want to but he wants to wait a while..he doesnt understand everything ...

I am worried I may have miscarried

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - OK, so heres my thing, I am/was a few weeks pregnant. The thing is, today when I went to the RR I had some very thick, stringy discharge that was clear, very stretchy, it didnt break at all. And it had a little blood in it. I'm worried I may have ...

How can we solve his erectile problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - So everyday, I think about leaving my husband. He is totally cold with me, and distant. we sleep in the same bed, but he doesn't touch me. He says he loves me and he will always stay with me. He has erection problems also, and he does not know ...

HELP!! I'm headed for a breakdown!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - right, here goes... i don't know what to do with myself. in theory my life is good, i'm at college, got a decent relationship with my mum, got an absolutely amazing guy who would do anything for me and has asked me to marry him. but undernea...

I am in a relationship for 5 months but cannot have proper sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are in a comited relationship since 5months.we culdn't hav proper sex as his penis penetrated only half..i don't kno why this is hapening..plz giv sugestions....

A few pregnacy questions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - So I have some questions about being pregnant, about the first trimester actually. Forgive me if it's TMI, but these are a few things I would really like to know from people with experience, not just another doctor brushing it off as anything. :) ...

Is he being too shallow? Or does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 November 2009 (F) - hi i have been going out with my bf since 9months, though i wwent to a different country 6 months after the relationship started and now, i am going to see my bf in a week and he said he won't be able to keep his hands off me. he is a great gu...

Why am I not maturing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (M) - i am 13 but have no pubes i havent had a voice crack either and all my friends are hairy mairy wat can i do to grew my pubes...

My husband has gone impotent...what happened?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Do some man goes impotent without any cause? Is there always a cause? My husband is 48, and he is impotent, he went to doctors,they didn't find anything wrong with him. They just say, oh every man becomes a bit impotent in their 40 s.Well, I can't ...

Urination pain discomfort during pregnancy..any advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have a question for everyone here about pregnancy. Has anyone here ever had pain in their abdomen while peeing or anything during early pregnancy? Like ithin the first trimester? Its like pressure/a littl pain around the pelvin area when I pee. ...

My sick boyfriend is ignoring me, so I am ignoring him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has been ill all week, but he's just started to ignore me. For the past couple of days he hasn't replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him at all. I stopped texting him about a day ago because I thought he was trying to tell m...

Big weekend planned, but what about my cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm going for a weekend trip with my boyfriend this Saturday but I'll be on period then. I'm on the pill and usually I start my seven day break on the Monday and have my period until the following Monday when I start taking the pill again. I...

His new wife and I just don't get along. What's the best way to handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I have a new question, what I do? My ex is still in love with me, but i am not with him, it only goes as far as him staring at me at holidays ect, for instance we were married 19 years then i divorced him he was hitting me and jealous all the time. ...

I am pregnant and underweight, and need some dietary help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - Hi, and thanks for anyone that replies back to me :) I just had two quick questions. Well three months ago I found out I was pregnant so I started going to the Health Department here where I live for one of there programs. The last I went there was ...

I hurt when I pee...how can I prevent this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen and have sex with my boyfriend who's 19 I hurt alot when I pee and I always have utis what can I do to prevent this ??. ...

My boyfriend wont sleep with me, but keeps me dangling.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I am good at giving advice to others but when it comes to myself; I am useless. Anyway my problem isn't a complicated one but does need insightful advice. I've been with my partner for four months but have known him as a friend for two years an...

Who "popped the cherry"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - hi everyone...I have sort of a dumb question to ask but here it goes. Well about a month ago me and my boyfriend had sex, I'm not a virgin and neither is he. I'll explain more. My first time was over the summer, after a few times..more then a few; ...

I want to use Tiger Balm as a Sex Aid

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4344 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - I heard from different people that putting tiger balm on your clit makes the pleasure intensify. Is this true or just something someone came up with? Also would it cause any problems if I tried it?...

I was bitten by a dog, and am now worried about scarring!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 November 2009 (F) - This is completely non-relationship related, but I needed some advice. I got bit on the tip of my nose by a dog a week ago. It bled, I put ice on it straight away and my boyfriend called an ambulance, I ended up going on antibiotics straight away ...

I think I'm addicted to online gaming

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 November 2009 (M) - I'm obsessed with playing videogames online. I play them most of the day, I sit up to half five in the mourning. When I win I feel really happy, when I lose I feel angry and pissed off. If I lose I feel I need to have another game to make up for the ...

My friend is struggling with Anorexia Nervosa

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - my friend was just battling anorexia for 2 years. it has been over a year and i always thought he was doing great until he confided in me last night that he was severly struggling and wanting to give up. He does not like the way he looks. This ...

Question about birth control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - I need immediate answers please! thank you! Ok, i was wondering if anybody else has done the birth control pills where you get your period 4 times a year. Cuz I'm about to get my first period after taking them, and I need to know if it's going to...

What are these small lumps and pimples?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - hello,im embarrass already but since recently these little lumps keep showing up on my vagina(vulva)and trust me they are very painful.yes sexually active but i have always practiced safe sex so i dnt think its a std moreover,when ever i shave these ...

Hairy or bare I'm self conscious! What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so, with pubic hair on women, how do u keep it neatly trimmed without having to get a wax? It's so uncomfortable and painful. But I'm self-conscious when I'm hairy and self-conscious when I'm bare. Any Suggestions? Is there a middle ground?...

Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...

Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I was wondering, since it happened to me yesterday. Is it possible to get a pimple in your genital area, in this case on your penis ?????? Its exactly like one, except if i press it for it to pop it kinda swells. And if not then what could it be ?...

My period started the day after I had unprotected sex, do you think I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - First I must start out saying that My periods are always the same. They last 3-5 days, and are always a dark red, and very very thick (Kinda like mucus). I also must say that I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on the 22nd. I started my period ...

How should I quit my smoking habit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - this may seem pathetic but its true. simply put im a kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with i seem to make everything worse for myself and because i cant deal with it i smoke. it started out at smoking with my friends just ...

What could this problem be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - my vagina produces a milky like substance it comes out very slowly it does not have a foul smell.what could the problem be?...

Hair removal gone wrong

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Ok my problem is a little bit embarressing! Me and my bf were going to take things the whole way and have sex so i decided to shave down there but i had a huge prob the next it was so sore and irritable and there was like loads of little spots. I ...

What do I do about my boyfriend's drinking problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - My bf wants me to spend Christmas with him and his family, and although I really want to share that occasion with him, at the same time I want to be with my family. The decision wouldnt be so hard if it wasnt for my bfs drinking problem. I am sick ...

My need to phone him is ruining my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - Dear cupid: I have a serious problem and I need help. I don't even know how to describe it so I will describe some incidents that have happenned. One Saturday night I called my bf. He answered and said he is doing something or he is takin...

I have a serious problem with eating... Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 November 2009 (F) - hello. im 17 years old and for the past 3 months i have not been eating properly, i was a size 12 but im now a 10 i eat an apple a day and drink water, looking at food makes me want to be sick. my family have not noticed yet as im really clever a...

What can I do to not be so wet all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid i have a problem with my vagina.it is usually very wet at all times and it makes me feel uncomfortable coz most of the time it makes my pants wet.what can i do so as to be comfortable?...

Is it normal to need a heating pad and darvacet for your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 November 2009 (F) - my mom said she is gonna take me to a gynocologist next week when shes off. i thought i was off it this morning but i started again in 4th period. the only thing that helps is darvacet and a heating pad. is it normal????...

My wife has no sex drive but loves me very much. I don't want to cheat but what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 November 2009 (M) - I am bored with my wife. She has no sex drive and I don't know how to get her going. Every other part of our marriage is great. We get along great, in fact, we love each other very much. Everyone says how lucky we are to have each other but if they ...

Should I be worried about my sudden change in menstrual cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (F) - hi, this is one for the girls. The situation is that a few months ago (back in July) i THOUGHT i was pregnant. I realised i wasn't, and even since my periods have become more infrequent. I used to be on an average menstrual cycle (every 28 days r...

I'm 15 and starting to look old! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - Im 15 and im starting to look old i don't smoke or nothing people think im old enough to be 23 right now and my face is starting to rinkle (it least thats what it look like). I look exactly like my dad and that makes me look even older. I wish I was ...

My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite ...

The Trouble with Mary

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, this one's gonna be a bit long. Before we start lemme say i am not this kinda guy. Normally im a horny sex freak, and all i think about is sex. This is something new to me, cause i actually fell for someone. For time being, im gonna ...

My girlfriend has genital warts, but I don't have them. Does that mean she cheated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - my girlfriend of a year got pregnant over 7 months ago and noticed some warts on her women area and didnt take much notice now there a group of them. now she claims shes as not slep with no 1 else. and shes not cheated. the doctor as called them ...

Circumcision or no circumcision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 November 2009 (M) - i was wondering what kind of penis do girls like a circumcised one or non-circumcised one ...

I'm losing my looks!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - Hey. I'm 17, and basically I think my looks are fading, and fast. I know everyone is gonna think im crazy, but seriously I have noticed a big change. I never thought I was amazingly stunning, but I didnt think I was bad either. I got noticed by b...

Are there any home remedies for oral yeast infections?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

23 November 2009 (M) - I have a oral yeast infection on my tongue. I have used a full tube of gel for it and am well into a liquid stuff I put in, swish around and swallow BUT it isn't getting any better, it is getting worse. I have reduced my sugar intake, avoided ...

Not attracted to obese boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

23 November 2009 (F) - I have been with the same guy for three years, we are both in our 40s. When I met him he had just lost 140 lbs through diet and exercise and was running marathons. A big part of my attraction to him was admiration for having lost all that weight and ...

I smell bad and I don't want sex because of it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and have currently been in a 1 year relationship with my boyfriend. Only recently i have noticed and increase in the amount of discharge i am producing, its a white colour and is very think with an off putting smell which puts me off having ...

How do you know when your hymen is no longer there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Okay so my question is pretty simple, how do you know when your hymen is no longer there? I mean I've been fingered before and I've managed to get like a 5 inch dildo up there so that mean it's gone right? I know it's an odd question but I was just ...

I can't keep it hard during sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I've got a problem but I don't have a clue what causes it: Whenever I have sex with my girlfriend; whom i care deeply for; I sort of gradually lose my erection- like really slowly over 20 minutes or so- and no matter what (if she's performing ...

Trouble with the contraceptive implant! help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5414 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - i have the contraceptive implant. i must of had it in for atleast 2 1/2 months now and ive been bleeding constantly, however its not normal menstrual blood its different. me and my boyfriend do not use condoms btw. i dont know whether im pregnant. i ...

Irregular periods, please help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - hi, I'm new to this, but I'm really worried. I've had my period twice in one month and i don't know what that means :[ I'm not very old I'm only 13 and it freaks me out. It hurts really bad and nothing makes the pain go away other then layin...