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female
age
30-35,
*utie20
writes:hi i have been going out with my bf since 9months, though i wwent to a different country 6 months after the relationship started and now, i am going to see my bf in a week and he said he won't be able to keep his hands off me. he is a great guy and takes care of me. he didn't want me to go away and kind of forced me to stay there but finally gave in because i wanted to go. he has even given me the commitment of marrying me.but apart from all that, i noticed something strange lately. now that i have to go back to meet him, he told me to increase my breast size by applying serums or creams but he told me not to take any medicines as they have side effects. so, i was ok with it because i thought there is no harm in putting some cream. unfortunately, i tried a lot but i could not get any cream. so, he said nothing and was ok with it. so, today, we were talking and i told him that i have lost weight after coming here. so he asked me if the size of my breasts has become smaller and i said yes. he became sad and asked me if they have become flat and all but i said no. so, i said it will increase when i get back and he said that it doesn't matter because you'll leave by then. and then he actually said, "now i won't even feel that i am with a girl." and i asked him why and he said,"there are no breasts, so how am i going to feel that i am with a girl? i will not even get excited" and i felt so bad and said nothing. he stayed quiet too.i was thinking and actually was feeling bad that he is not happy and that i was not able to fulfill what he wanted. but on second thoughts, why does he care so much about my breast size if he loves me? i mean, i will meet him after so long, about 3 months. i am sure, he won't say anything about it now and will be ok with it. but why did he have to react in such a manner? i am so confused.
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reader, cutie20 +, writes (30 November 2009):
cutie20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnow hes being normal and talking to me the way he does saying love u and all but i didn't say it. he knows something is wrong. hes so sad now and probably even crying. i can't see him like this. :(
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