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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

Health: Help and advice

I think I have schizophrenia, but I don't know how to tell my family...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - Hey people fellow advice givers, well, I have schizophrenia, and I just don't know how to tell my parents, I mean I have not been diagnosed with it but I have researched alot about is and I am really convinced that I am,and i want to tell them, but ...

Is this really a size zero diet?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

28 February 2009 (?) - If I do a 2-4-6 diet, for example, one day fast, the next day eat 200 cals, the next day 400 cals, the next 600 cals, and then the next fast again, and go round in this cycle would it be possible to get to size zero? With only doing small exersise, ...

Pregnancy cramps - is this normal or should I consult a different doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - please don't tell me to ask my doctor about this because i have and she didn't give me an answer. i was wondering if any other pregnant women have had cramps and felt there abdomen harden. i know that's a sign of it contracting, but i get it once or ...

We're underage but want to have sex, where can we buy condoms?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

28 February 2009 (F) - i'm under 16 and i want to have sex with my bf the only problem is we need some condoms and we dont no if we are aloud to buy them and where ...

Feeling sick with diarrhea, after anal sex! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had anal sex unprotected, and i then gave him a blow job. That was yesterday and today i am feeling sick with slight diarrhea, could this be because I sucked him after anal? :(...

Can someone explain erectilve dysfunction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - hi could you tell me wot erectile dysfunction is and why you get it, and wot can be done thanks...

Husband takes viagara but I'm not reeping the benefits!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I think my husband is cheating, were do I begin. 6 Years ago I fund a pack of 4 viagra hidden in his wallet (I only picket it up because I though it looked a bit tatty and I would buy him a new one), I cuckled at first until I realised 2 were ...

How does masturbation impact your health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

27 February 2009 (M) - I'm a guy, I have one question to ask you. I always have sex by myself and I like it when I stay a lone. how does it impact my health?...

I need to get my daughter and I out of my husband's house because he hits us, but I have no clue how!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my husband for three years now, been married to him for two. We have a one year old daughter. My husband started verbally abusing me seven months into our relationship, but I didn't really think anything of it until just two weeks ...

Microgynon 30 (the pill) and bleeding! need help! x

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - So I've been on microgynon 30 for a few months now, it was working great at first (better than the contraceptive implant I had in previously, was bleeding constantly) anyway, so it has been working great but this months packet I've missed a couple, ...

How to get rid of hair between legs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - What is the best and easiest way to remove hair between legs? I don't like being hairy between my legs and it's somewhat annoying. If you could give me tips, and possibly a new and easier way that would be greatly appreciated. Shaving my pub...

Can an emotionally abusive man change with therapy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - can a self centered emotional abusive man change with therapy or it is a long up hill battle. He only sees things one way his - even if everyone disagrees. He is stubborn. He even gets mad at doormen and if you dont agree with his views on eve...

Sex is a curse not a blessing

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - I am still to think that been beautiful, sexy is a curise not a blessing. I am 5'8, tone slender body. Every body in my school, both high school and college thinks I am beautiful. both male and female. I am into fashion. But I have never had a ...

A negative test but positive symptoms, what does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - hi i stopped taking my pill a month and a half ago and started to have sex with my boyfriend nearly everyday unprotected, but i have not started my period now it been two week late. however i have taken a pregnancy test and it was negative, although...

Can anyone recommend a good shimmering body lotion???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi girls, Im just wondering if anyone can recommend a good illuminating shimmering body lotion. im going a wedding next month and i want my skin to look nice in my dress. im quite tanned and i really want to have nice glowing shimmery skin. ...

Not sure what to think

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I started seeing a guy about 5 months ago. He is 49 and I am 42. After about 4 months of dating, we decided to move in together. We really seem to communicate and get along very well. We have alot of fun together.Our sex life is very good. The ot...

Will 0.5 alcohol beer affect my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I found out that non-alcoholic beer still contains some alcohol. I've been drinking that since I got pregnant (about one a night) is there a large chance that my baby has birth defects? ...

How often to go to doctors for checkup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - I may be pregnant and if I am....how often should I go to the doctors for a check up on the baby....i hate doctors....what should I except on my first visit....what do they ask you....what do they do...please me spesific...

I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 February 2009 (?) - heyx I was just wondering if this is an anorexic diet: eating 200 calories one day, 400 the next, 600 the next, 800 the next, and the next day fast completely, and then repeat the cycle all ova again on this day system. Also, everyday doing 10...

In my first loving relationship, I experience erection problems for the first time, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5785 days ago

24 February 2009 (M) - I'm 27 and I've been seeing this girl for about a month and a half. We are in love with each other and love spending time together. I've never been in a loving relationship before and I've never wanted to satisfy a woman more than I do her, she ...

Should I write a complaint?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i went to the opticians the other day and had the most awful experience. firstly it was fine, i was so calm and happy trying out my contact lenses for the first time! Then the optician sent me through to a woman who didnt realise there was a lense ...

Can I trust him again? Should I give him another chance?

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24 February 2009 (F) - After a 5 month seperation, my husband showed up to plead his intentions of wanting to work things out. He stayed for about 2 weeks and we did a lot of fun things together. When he had to leave (he is military and lives overseas) I told him I still ...

Do you think I'll lose weight on this particular diet? Opinions needed please.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (?) - hey, I am starting a new diet where I eat a different amount of calories each day, ranging from 100 cals to 500 cals, and I do one and a half hours on the treadmill each day fast walking. I was just wondering, do you think I will lose weight if I ...

Is this something she's going through or is it just me should I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - With our first child she wanted sex all the time but with our second child which she had early b/c she had high blood pressure and had 2 have the C section, everything has changed she's always tired she says or the couple of times she did it's like ...

Can you get pregnant and STD's by penis up the butt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Im a 14 year old girl. I have a Amazing boyfriend who would never hurt me, We talked about the future, and we desided to wait a longg time before we have sex. he does finger me, and i have gave hand-jobs to him only. hes the only one i been with but ...

What is this discharge in my underwear? I'm worried guys will be put off by it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I always have a white creamy discharge in my underwear and i don't know what it means... and it happens most of the time i'm worried when i go to have sex with guys they will see and be put off. I'm not entirely sure what it is so i'm not sure how ...

What causes this to happen? is this normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I am 22 years old and i don't understand why through out the day my testicles hang low and a few minutes later they are bunched together close to my penis. i know that it is partly caused if my testicles are warm or cold. but there are times to were ...

How do I make my boobs smaller?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - okay so im 13 years old and my boobs are ridiculously huge(about 44DD!) And i really hate it. no 13 year old should have boobs that big. I can't wear any cute clothes because my boobs are too big to fit in them. and boys are always staring at me and ...

I was raped twice, please tell me how to deal with this, I'm torn!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - i would like to know if i am a magnet for being raped. i was raped when i was 12 years old by two men who were good friends of my family, especially my father. when i told my stepmother what happened, she adviced me not to tell anybody, then she ...

What are the tests that can be done to check for all STD's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I was wondering what you would have to do in case of an STD to check a guy for all possible diseases. Is the urethral swab (I think that's what it's called) or a blood test the only way of thoroughly checking, or will a urine test or a less ...

One of my breasts is itchy for weeks now, what could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boob itches. But only on one side. It's been weeks now.. What are the possible reasons? By the way, I'm 16....

First time sex, the pain was an agony and it hurts when I urinate, is it normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity last night, i barely bled but i was so tense the pain was agony! we did it twice, without a condom but he withdrew before he came. Im sore now and it really really burns to wee, its awful! is this normal and will it always hurt ...

I need help understanding the Frendulum Breve problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hello My boyfriend has the frendulum breve problem and i have researched it but nothing seems to sink in so if someone could explain it really simply so i can just get grips with it would be much appreciated. Also im so worried about hurting ...

A sharp pain in my butt as he fingered me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5787 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - okay so here's my question. I'll start off by saying that me and my boyfriend are both virgins. we do everything from fingering to oral, but like i said, we've never had intercourse. My boyfriend is really good at fingering me, and he knows where my ...

He didn't tell me he had an STD! Do I have it now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Ok I am freaking out right now! This guy ive been seeing has a profile on positive spot.He didnt tell me,I found it on google.What is positive spot? Well,that was my first question too! Its a dating website of sorts.what sort? For people who have an ...

Could the pharmacist have been mistaken, or does he make sense?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Today I went to the drugstore to get the morning after pill. Now, I am on birth control too, but I wanted to get it just to be safe. But when I got to the pharmacy and explained everything to the pharmacist, I got the strangest look when I mentioned ...

I'm growing up and find some things not as interesting anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - Hi there I really think I have changed within a period of weeks/days and want to know what I should prepare myself for. Well our school has broken up from half term and we go back tomorrow. Over the holidays I have really changed. The week before I...

Could anyone please tell me, what stage of puberty I am in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - okay i really wnat to know what stage of puberty im in right now..i dont kow i'v got got armpit hair, hair around my anus, alot of pubic hair, some hair starting to grow on my chest/stomach, i've got a bit of a mustach and is starting to grow ...

Have I totally scared her off by taking drugs that made me paranoid and needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - This is the first time I've ever posted on any site like this but I really don't know what to do and need some advice from impartial observers! This story revolves around a girl I met at university 4 years ago. We were in a few of the same clas...

She only likes normal sex but I need to please her in other ways due to my PE, help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - So, recently I wrote about my premature ejaculation problem. I am in my early 20's and after about a minute of intercourse I can't hold it any longer which really upsets me. I want to please her but a minute is hardly enough. Some said to do it ...

Is gold root safe or dangerous for a 26 year old man to use

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I'm a 26 year old man who was wondering how you can get hold of gold root and also wondering is it safe to take. I've heard it's meant to be a safe alternative to viagra....

Can lifting weights stunt my son's growth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - my son lifts weights about 3-4 times a week. Can lifting weights stunt his growth?...

What is this bleeding from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I were making out and he started fingering me, lets just say, harder than he usually does. It hurt, which of course, I expected the pain but when I went to the bathroom afterwards, I was bleeding but I ended my period 2 days before ...

My friends breasts are "leaking" - does this mean she's pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Okay. So my friend (YES, my friend, I'm doing this for her because I want to know the answer as well) she's sexually active. Yesterday she told me that her breasts appeared to be "leaking" and she was afraid this meant she was pregnant. I did rese...

36A breasts, how can I make them look sexier and womanly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Hello again everyone, i have a bit of a query. okays i have 36a breasts and i was wondering about ways to make them look sexier and more womanly, just to make me feel better about myself, i always thought they were huge when i was growing up but now ...

How far along until I can know the gender of my baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - how many months pregnant do I have to be to find out what gender my baby is?...

I'm 16 and still wet the bed, what can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - okay horribly embarrassing question, i'm 16 and still wet the bed, what can i do? i've been to the hospital and they keep sending me off to gynecologists for internal exams... i really don't want that. anyone on any drugs that help, any ideas would ...

Can going on the contraceptive pill make you fat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5788 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Can going on the contraceptive pill make you fat?...

WHY does sex hurt the first few times if we're meant to reproduce?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I'm a 13 year old girl and don't plan on having sex anytime soon but I was wondering - why does it hurt the first few times you have sex, either when you lose your virginity or when having sex with a new partner? Our bodies are pretty much created ...

Bruises and breast cancer.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5789 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - I have heard that bruises on the breasts can cause breast cancer and I wanted to know, is a love bite [hicky] like a bruise? and if so, does getting one on my breast give me a risk of breast cancer? ...