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Health: Help and advice

Why do I seem to worry over small things and not bigger things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - dear cupid i need major help, i keep on getting worried over smaller things, e.g one of the post about my neck, i been to counselling and its not helping me in any sort, y am i getting worried over smaller things and not bigger things like my m...

A question for the agony uncles... Can breasts be tooooo big???

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hey... This is a question for the guys i suppose. I was wondering if breasts can be tooo big? I have huge breasts but have heard that more than a handful is too much and theres much more than a handful. Im small in proportion to them. Hmm its been ...

Do you really do things you don't want to when you're drunk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - I guess this is more of a poll than a question. Do you really do things you don't want to when you're drunk? I say no. We commonly hear "I only did it because I was drunk", but I think it's just an excuse. From what I have seen with others and expe...

How can I get rid of this "pouch" on my tummy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - Hey agony aunts, I'm just wondering a few things, 1) I have this little i guess you could call it a "pouch" lol on my tummy, i'm actually quite a skinny person, but my stomach is a little chubby :( How do I get rid of that, just by running/situps? 2...

I get really emotional over my body - help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I really need to talk to someone who understands how it feels to get really emotional over their bodies. Can someone talk to me, please? ...

My period is late, do you think I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I haven't had my period. I usually get it on the 5th. I've never had a normal period until i started taking the pill. I slipped 1 or 2 days but still used condoms. it is now the 30th and still haven't got them my period yet. I have spotted and I am ...

My one testicle is a bit bigger and hurts more than the other. Anyone know what the problem could be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Okay this is more a personal problem and I don't know where else to ask. I have been checking my testicles the past week as I think it is important and they do look normal but if I feel on the left it is a bit bigger than my right and when I feel it ...

My large breasts are sooo uncomforatble! What should I do about it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Lately ive been feeling very self concious about my breasts. Im 17 and im a G cup.. but im small in comparison with my breasts, i wear size 10 clothes. I dont have any bras that fit and feel really uncomfortable. My question is.. can breasts be too ...

Could it be that I am still a virgin at my age because of possibly low testosterone(male sex hormone)levels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - NB: Please reply to THIS question; ignore the previous one- it was accidentally posted prematurely! I am a 27 year old male student, at University (a late starter), in the UK. My problem is that, at the age of 27 years, I have never had any se...

This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, This is really embarrassing, I keep itching down below its driving me mad...I have used all the thrush creams on the market but it still persits.....To my horror I went to the GUM clinic and was tested for loads of STD's even though I am marri...

Is there something wrong and can it be fixed without going to the doctor’s?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I have had UTI (Urinary Tract Infection) in the past. My doctor told me I should pee after sex to avoid this to happen again. I’ve been good doing this except for a couple of times. When it starts itching, I immediately drink lots of water and ...

I had unprotected sex on Saturday night...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - I had unprotected sex on Saturday night, I am on the pill but was just finishing my period and had taken the first pill out of my new pack on that day. How probable is it that I could get pregnant? I don't want to wait until my next period to find ...

Is my weight normal for my age and height?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Hi I'm 14 and 5 foot 5 and weigh about between 9 and 10 stone throughout the day and 10 stone when ive just weighed myself now is this normal? but thats probably because its the end of the day and ive eaten more. I would like to loose weight i have ...

When I masturbate it's absolute agony, can any of the agony uncles help here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - Hi guys. I have an embarrassing question coming up and i'm hoping some of the guys may be able to help me out. A little while ago, I wasn't able to pull my foreskin over the head of my penis while erect, then after research I found out that s...

Do you think I have an anal fissure or could it be something more serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - I have a bit of a problem and wondering if anyone can help. Im a 20 year old male in a gay relationship. Ive been with my boyfriend now for about 8 months. Two months into the relationship I noticed during sex that my anus hurt. Ever since then ...

I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6392 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - I'm on the pill but I have lost the rest of my pack so I have missed 2 pills. What should I do?...

How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - How do you ask your boyfriend to use viagra or some other drug, without humiliating him? My bf is the nicest, sweetest guy but his erection is not that hard, it just kinda flops back against his abdomen instead of 'standing to attention' (for want ...

Does taking the pill at different times depending on when I wake up, affect it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - I take the pill and my boyfriend and I have used the condoms and the pill. but now we want to just use the pill. my boyfriend lives in another country where the time difference is only on hour ahead. and i take my pill in the morning. normall...

Will going on my laptop all the time affect my eyesight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

27 May 2007 (F) - hi im 14 and on my laptop all the time if im not going out ill be on it all the time im awake. Im quite worried about what will happen to my eyesite its perfectly fine at the moment but what will it do to me and how long have i got till it starts ...

I have a hard time confiding in others. When I do-I feel that my trust always being violated.What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I have a bad past and need to talk to someone but I have no one to talk to. My "friends" all have bfs/ gfs and when I try to talk to them alone they just say " I dunno what to say, sorry" then run back to their partners as if we hadn't spoken a...

My hair is falling out in clumps! What is happening to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6393 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I'm scared, im 19 and my hair's falling out. I have been under some emotional stress lately but that part of my life has some what calmed down but my hair just seems to be falling out more and more. Whenever I touch my hair it comes away in my hand ...

Found a small painful lump on my armpit. What could it be?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - hi ive recently been having a pain under my arm that started like 2 days ago and ive just found a lump in my armpit. its small but painful if i press it. what could this be? i cant get a doctors appointment before i go on holiday in 2 days time and ...

With friends, I'm pretty shy even when talking, and all this has put my self esteem down low.. Just wondering how I can overcome this fear/anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

25 May 2007 (F) - So I love to hang with my friend and she knows a lot of guys as friends. We wil usually be a group of a few guys and other girls. I dont care about not bf but having ale attention is always nice to know but seemingly when im in this group I drown. ...

We were both alcoholics and I quit the habit for our child, and now he has too. I feel like an empty shell now and I'm wondering if it's possible for us to live together anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I have been married for eight years to a man that is an alcoholic. I partied with him daily until we decided to have children (we have two kids, a boy 5 and a girl 4) Our children came fast to us and there wasn't much time to adapt to our new lives ...

My dad has ear cancer...I've never heard of this! Can it be treated?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6395 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Please someone help me. I'm 16 so I don't really understand much about it anyway but a healthcare person came round my house today to see my dad because he's unwell and suffers from epilepsy but he checked my dads ears too and said he may have a f...

I am finally feeling that this scar on my neck is just in my head! Thanks for the advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - dear agony aunties i would just like to give people an update from my previous question on the following question link here (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-seem-to-have-a-scar-line-on.html)and i been to the doctors and he keeps on sayin t...

Am I messing up the pill by eating so much grapefruit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I'm asking this here because well all the medical sites haven't wrote me back and my doctor is a...well ya know... So hopefully someone can help me out..I've been doing alot of research but I'm running in circles. I'm on the Grapefruit Diet because ...

My family members abuse me and make me feel abnormal - should I seek legal help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - It seems to be that none of my expectations of getting emotional and psychological support have been met by my family members. Rather they have been abusing me all this time. Yet i feel addicted to them and get tempted to relate with them to escape ...

How do I tell my children, their beloved Grandmother is dying? Any advice?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - Hi can someone please help. i have just found out that my childrens grandma is dying my middle daughter loves her so much how do i tell her she will be leaving us. their grandma is not very old and my children are 10 7 5 and 2 how do i handle the ...

Does anyone know how much a pregnancy blood test costs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6329 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - hi i was just wondering if anybody knows how much a pregnancy blood test costs? please let me know asap...

He's an out of control drinker but is now in therapy. What milestones do I look for, in a one-year sobriety?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Can someone really change? I dated a man for 6 years. We were married, built a house for our family (we each have two kids) and after only 10 months I left. He became increasingly controlling, picking on the kids and I, name-calling but worst of...

Im circumcised and have this odd bruise, 2 months later another appeared under the scar any advice ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6394 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - hey im circumsised and within the last year something weird is happened on my forskin i got a odd probaly 1cm by 1cm brown dot on it (like a bruise) and so i left it thinking it was a bruise it didnt go away then like 2 months later i noticed ...

Anything I can do to stop my hair thinning!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - My hair used to be really really thick but over the past year has thinned out enormously and I fear baldness will be not far away. Is there anything I can do? Thanks....

I am a bit worried because I think some of the substance got on my clothes and hair. Could I be infected with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Today at school I did a sewer lab in Chemistry. I am a bit worried that I caught a disease, because in this lab we deal with microorganisms, pee, and fecal matter. We run tests on these. I am a bit worried because I think some of the substance got ...

Is it true that birth control pills can lead to weight gain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - is it true that birth control pills can lead to weight gain? most of my friends say they have gained extra weight from using the pill, with the range being from a few pounds up to 3 stones! my husband and i use other methods of birth control,(and it ...

My untrustworthy alcoholic b-i-l is moving in w/ us! How can we help? How do I not become resentful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hello - I've asked about my alcoholic brother in law before, but I have a few new questions now because the situation has changed a bit. (I'm linking my first question at the bottom.) First let me set everything up (names changed, too): I'm 25, my...

I seem to have a scar line on the right side of my neck...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

22 May 2007 (M) - dear cupid i seem to have a scar line on ma right side of the neck, it seems to make my neck like it has some sort of lump or is swollen compared to the left side, i went to the doctors and they tell me its nothing their, i would like to know doe...

Does the size of a penis increase when an adult is circumcised?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

22 May 2007 (M) - Does the size of a penis increase when an adult is circumcised?...

My hands go numb when he sucks my nipples?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend loves to suck on my nipples. I quite enoy it too but whenever he does my hands start to go numb. The longer this goes on the further up my wrists it does. I am just running my hands up and down his back and through his hair. Nothing out ...

I want a boob job but my boyfriend doesn't... yet he spends time in the gym sculpting his body!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend is happy with my chest size but I'm not. I'm 23 yrs old and feel that my chest size is small annot proportion with my body. I have been thinking of having breast augumentation for 3.5 yrs now, since I thought maybe over time wil...

Really worried about this discharge, anyone know what it might be ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - hiya,i need a little bit of help please. i have noticed that for about a week now ive had viginal discharge,its clear and quite slimy,it doesnt smell. i have just gone to the loo and when i wiped myself there was quite a lot on the loo paper. also i ...

My period was late. Was this because of the morning after pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - i had sex with my ex we used a condom although he didnt ejaculate i took the morning after pill 14 hours after the incident, 4 days later i came on even though my period was the week before, is this normal?? any advice gratefully recieved...

I just broke up with my Bf, How can I get over this, I feel so ill!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - hey ive just split up with my long term boyfriend and i am missing him so much. He has other pictures of girls on his msn picture and hes now blocked me. But i need ot get over him all i can think about is how much im gunna miss him. Miss his hu...

Lately my equipment doesn't perform as it should. Can someone tell me what is happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

21 May 2007 (M) - This is quite tough for me to come out and admit this, but here goes: I have been together with my soon to be wife for over 3 years(we are engaged for about 8 months now). We have been living together for the entirety of our engagement, as I...

My period is behaving strangely after I started taking the pill. Is this a side effect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6399 days ago

21 May 2007 (M) - hey.. i was just wondering .. im a female .. and i started taking the pill .. and started my period then it stopped and now it started again .. is this just a side effect.. thanks ...

What's the best way to stop taking birth control pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - I have been taking birth control pills and want to stop. Can I just stop or do I need to do it gradually? What is healthier?...

Is it possible to catch an STD from not wearing underwear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - This has been 2 years ago. It was at my graduation and I bought a dress without washing it, b/c the next day was my big day. I went commando without wearing underwear because if i wore my underwear the people will see the shape of my underwear ...

Why is my period blood always brown?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - ok this question is for the girls out there and I am sorry if this is gross but why is my period blood always brown? It didnt used to be, it used to be very red but for the past three months it has been a brownish color. Should I be worried? ...

On the pill and now I am getting brown discharge! What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - Hi im 16 and have been on the pill for about 4 years. A while back i started to get a brown coloured discharge with the odd spot of blood in it but not much. I noticed it again about 2 weeks later and then it went. However its started again now and ...

How are you supposed to put on weight to become more curvy without it going to your stomach ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

20 May 2007 (F) - you know when people say boys like curvy girls, how ru ment to put on weight to be more curvy if u only put weight on ur stomach?...